My Homeboy lives a swinger lifestyle and these are some of the problems associated with it.

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Only works at the man is swinging and the woman is at home with the kids
 

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I’m familiar with “the lifestyle”

This is ALL your friends fault

you never supposed to start fukking the unicorns on the side. That’s breaking code.

people like your boy get into the lifestyle for the wrong reasons. It really can help couples with communication and sexual explorations.

But a lot of people get into it to justify wilding out and THATS when you have these shyt shows like your friends situation.

Me and my girl only fukk girls together ( got a date this Friday night with a big booty curly haired girl that was recommended and slide to us by another girl we frequently fukk.:ohlawd:)


I could write a whole book on all the bad faith actors that use the lifestyle to do underhanded shyt to their partner, and it just proves people who speak against the life right cause it checks all the stereotype boxes ( freaks/hedonistic/ weirdos)

but couples that swing or fukk unicorns communicate 1000% better then normative “monogamous” couples in my opinion. (the seasoned/experienced ones..not the ones like your friend)
 
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she was pawg or Indian?
Pawg. She confided in me that she just has never been able to stay faithful in relationships and has cheated on all her boyfriends. Se told her husband that when they got married and he accepted it. The night I met her was at a bar and she told me she was married but it was an open marriage. We started to talk more and she then said she hadn't yet stepped out. From there she asked to come back to my place. We had sex. She was way too nervous though. I figured she was lying the entire time and just was flat out cheating, but turns out she wasn't. She was texting her man the entire time that everything was going down, including where she was going. The sex was bad because it was just missionary, she was nervous, I was drunk and couldn't cum, etc. It only happened once.

3 weeks later I'm at a salsa event at a brewery and I end up hitting it off with some random couple (girlfriend wanted me bad and I really didn't want to deal with her boyfriend) and felt a tap on my shoulder. I turn around and some woman is standing there smiling--took me a second but then realized it was her. She thanked me for that night and said she saw me come in and pointed me out to her husband. Told her I didn't want to meet him. She had never given me her number but still had my card. I asked why she didn't call and if I remember correctly it had something to do with she didn't want jump all in. Something to that affect. Anyways her husband ended up coming over to talk anyway. Turned out he was some very nice, sensitive Indian guy who just wanted his wife to be happy. You could tell she had mental health issues and that he was her support.

I saw her once or twice more. That next time was very awkward. I'm sure she was nervous that i was telling people. I told them they could sit with us and her husband wanted to, but she said they should get a booth to wait for friends. And that was that. In the end I was a bit embarrassed about it. I'm not the type to get into that situation..if I'm going to fukk your girlfriend or wife, I'd prefer the partner not know about it:laugh:. I don't do that anymore anyways though.
 

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Pawg. She confided in me that she just has never been able to stay faithful in relationships and has cheated on all her boyfriends. Se told her husband that when they got married and he accepted it. The night I met her was at a bar and she told me she was married but it was an open marriage. We started to talk more and she then said she hadn't yet stepped out. From there she asked to come back to my place. We had sex. She was way too nervous though. I figured she was lying the entire time and just was flat out cheating, but turns out she wasn't. She was texting her man the entire time that everything was going down, including where she was going. The sex was bad because it was just missionary, she was nervous, I was drunk and couldn't cum, etc. It only happened once.

3 weeks later I'm at a salsa event at a brewery and I end up hitting it off with some random couple (girlfriend wanted me bad and I really didn't want to deal with her boyfriend) and felt a tap on my shoulder. I turn around and some woman is standing there smiling--took me a second but then realized it was her. She thanked me for that night and said she saw me come in and pointed me out to her husband. Told her I didn't want to meet him. She had never given me her number but still had my card. I asked why she didn't call and if I remember correctly it had something to do with she didn't want jump all in. Something to that affect. Anyways her husband ended up coming over to talk anyway. Turned out he was some very nice, sensitive Indian guy who just wanted his wife to be happy. You could tell she had mental health issues and that he was her support.

I saw her once or twice more. That next time was very awkward. I'm sure she was nervous that i was telling people. I told them they could sit with us and her husband wanted to, but she said they should get a booth to wait for friends. And that was that. In the end I was a bit embarrassed about it. I'm not the type to get into that situation..if I'm going to fukk your girlfriend or wife, I'd prefer the partner not know about it:laugh:. I don't do that anymore anyways though.


I know a Brazilian chic who had open relationship with Japanese guy. It was waaaay one sided of course, till they went to Japan for a year where men are into their games.

I think she came back though.
 

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Your homeboy got in it for all the wrong reasons and had no idea how to handle it. A swinger/poly relationship is not a convenient replacement for a monogamous relationship with benefits. These relationships require even more unbridled trust, transparency and honesty than monogamous ones. Being a swinger is not a clever excuse to cheat. He had a woman who was down for all types of shyt while still providing a relationship to just him and he couldn't just respect that. Did exactly what all women who are open to this are scared of, snuck around with one of their "partners." Both of whome she trusted. Pathetic. Homeboy ain't look for a swinger relationship he just don't wanna be alone and don't wanna seek help for his real issues. He can have the sex life he wants without committing to a relationship--swinging or otherwise--and then cheating anyway.
Someone who knows what they are talking about.

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What’s the point in getting married if you’re going to swing?
Hearing married cats talk about their marriages after a while they don't give a fukk what the wife is doing as long as it underwraps and they don't bring that shyt back home because they out there fukking other broads and don't need know stress over it.
 

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The worst thing you can give a wife with that hoe spirit is a better option.

Men can be with single women married or not.

Women can be with their husband....
 
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Swinging lifestyle always fascinated me…I couldn’t do it myself. But always interested in seeing how couples make that shyt work.

I even went to a swingers club in New Orleans called Collettes a few years back, because I wanted to see how they got down.

shyt was the lamest club I’ve ever been to in my life. As a dude, you could only get in if you had a girl with you which made sense. But for some reason there was still a gang of dudes in there. NOBODY was doing anything except every now and then a couple would go in a private room for literally 2 mins and pop back out. Nobody was changing sheets or cleaning though…just in and out like shyt all good. :scust:

There was like a sex room or some shyt that you could actually see in, but that bytch stayed empty all night.

There was occasionally someone who came in loud on some rah rah shyt like he was about to start slaying everything in there. But they were pump faking because 5 mins later you catch them on their phone in the corner acting like they doing something important. I know you looking at gmail bruh…don’t front :stopitslime:

They had this one old white lady built like Homer Simpson that had her titties out walking around and letting people grab em. That was basically it. Waste of time and money. :francis:

This was the funniest thing I’ve read on here in a while Bravo
 
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