My lil cousin just called asking for $341 to get an abortion

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He had one year left of high school but stopped halfway through and that's what he does now.

I have hopes of him re-enrolling and finishing and getting a job but let's be reality here :manny:

He live in one of the ratchet Philly projects :manny:
 

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Medical abortions that use pills can only be performed up to week seven. Surgical abortions may be performed upon request after week 5 of pregnancy, and up to 14-18 weeks in a clinic in most cases.

In the United States most abortions are performed during the initial 14 weeks but some states allow abortions up to 24 weeks. If you go to an ultrasound at a clinic and they say you are too far along to receive an abortion you can ask if there is another location that will perform the procedure if you would still like one. In the United States abortions performed after 24 weeks are only performed due to health complications or else the procedure is considered intent to murder. Laws in this case vary from state to state.

http://www.newhealthguide.org/Latest-Time-You-Can-Get-An-Abortion.html
 

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I honestly don't know if calling her willbhelp.
She a hood rat and I aint about to try to school a girl that's liable to be on world star hip hop anyday. There ain't no getting thru to these kids. I'll try and ask my customers is she worth taking to.

I ain't stressing at all though. He dug his own grave :manny:

The keywords here are: don't know. Which is good news because that means there's a 1% she may not be as horrible as how we know hoodrats can be in this particular instance. :manny: Take whatever positive angle you can get out of the situation breh.
Meaning all you gotta do to find out is place that call, don't even ask your costumers because any bias on their side can keep you from talking to a girl who may be more afraid than she is defiant. It's better to talk to her without knowing because then the conversation is less reliant on how you perceive one another, and hopefully more objective.

But do it from a google phone number just in case. 'cause you really don't wanna have her blowing up your phone up or worse; switching the fatherhood to you. :whoa: Talking to her family like: "Actually that nikka @Gator Reloaded got me pregnant, its his baby!"

You don't know this particular hood chick, and like I said; this can be good news. But it can also be really bad news. She may be the only civil girl in her hood out of some bizarre twist of fate. But she may also be even worse than the average hood chick and willing to use anyway to get out of her situation with gains.

Edit: But now that I've just read this...sounds like doing too much. :patrice: I don't know fam, what do you think?
 

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It is actually a gigantic deal when we don't know what the abortion will do to the girl fam. :dahell: We don't even know her age, much less how attached she is to the baby, or whether she'll get support after she's labeled the "baby killer" in the hood (by the other baby mamas no less :aicmon:). Worst of all we don't even know if her body's gonna handle the procedure 3 months after the fact. Meaning she could die.
That's not gigantic to you fam? The pregnancy was in December, it's March now mah nikka. :mindblown:
No it's not. 'Baby Killer' c'mon breh. She's not gonna die having an abortion. My ex-gf had one when she was 19 15 weeks after conception and she was fine.
 

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He cheated on his girl and now needs $341 for the abortion. His girl doesn't know and he smashed other chick in December. :snoop:

As yall know, I'm doing ard but my family still in the hood and/or projects and I'm the one they reach out to for money and help (and I don't even got it like that) :manny:

I can't contribute to taking a life but I kinda had hopes for my cousin to finish school and not be stuck in the projects for the rest of his life :to:


What should I do?

Tell him to sell his Xbox one,Jordan's and his iPhone
 

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My nephew ever called me up with a scenario like this I'd slap him upside his goddamn head because I have warned him time and again about shyt like this. If you think he'll appreciate the help I say do it, but make you sure you let him know it's a one-time thing, and buy him a case of rubbers.
this...but on top of that i'd make sure to hold something of his as collateral. best believe that lil nikka giving me back my bread
 

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No it's not. 'Baby Killer' c'mon breh. She's not gonna die having an abortion. My ex-gf had one when she was 19 15 weeks after conception and she was fine.

Yes breh, baby killer...or whatever the hood equivalent of that term is nowadays. If this girl's surrounded by vicious bytches she might just commit suicide and you and I don't know if somebody from her family's gonna want revenge on OP's cousin.

As for the 15-19 weeks: that's your ex-girlfriend breh, one case. Who's to say that this chick's reproductive system is as good as your ex's? What if it isn't? Chicks have been known to die from abortions, even from natural births. We don't know her chances of survival from this delicate procedure. If it was 2 weeks pregnant, then sure her chances of being okay would be way better...but 15-19 weeks ain't for everyone. Some girls can't handle that.

I'm not telling OP to not abort mind you, but he's gotta get into this very carefully if he really wants to help.
 

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Should have told him that you and your hard earned cash dont believe in the killing of babies as solutions to man made problems..

The best thing you could have done for him seeing as youre concerned about his future and current welfare, was to force him to be a man by taking care of that child whether he wants to or not like all the other struggling brehs who put in work and not the easy way out.

A man living in slums needs responsibilities, not an escape plan..and how is he paying back the money? You have actually weakened him, you have conditioned his young mind to be unaccountable. So how you think he'll re register and be someone in life now that youre all chipping in to help him evade his duties???
 

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For real.


If a male family member called me up with that bullshyt, I'd be like "529" instead. That baby needs a leg up, not a death sentence.

If the female in question wants to kill our half of the family, then SHE needs to come up with the money her damn self. Don't bring that shyt to us. We embrace our babies over here.
 

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Should have told him that you and your hard earned cash dont believe in the killing of babies as solutions to man made problems..

The best thing you could have done for him seeing as youre concerned about his future and current welfare, was to force him to be a man by taking care of that child whether he wants to or not like all the other struggling brehs who put in work and not the easy way out.

A man living in slums needs responsibilities, not an escape plan.
.and how is he paying back the money? You have actually weakened him, you have conditioned his young mind to be unaccountable. So how you think he'll re register and be someone in life now that youre all chipping in to help him evade his duties???

That is deep.
 
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Story is bullshyt. U said he slept with her in December. The end of March is approaching what clinics will allow the abortion at this time? Not many if any.
Abortion is legal in many places until she's about to drop. When folks want abortions, they travel. One place won't do it, find a place that will. End of March is only three to four months, anyway. That's nothing.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-info/abortion/in-clinic-abortion-procedures

Not only that, but there are places which help the female murder the kid, the men don't have to be involved AT ALL. Nobody has to know because it's 'her choice'. He's out of the equation. So his asking for the money is crazy in the first place, unless it's not in the States. Or, like others are saying, he's duck taling on some pre-1973 shyt.

Dude needs to contact Planned Parenthood for help, not get his family involved in murder.
 

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I wouldn't, id let him go to jail. That's the price to pay. Family is not hidibg each others dirty work.
Only demonic people dont look out for family.

If I told you a couple of the things I've done for fam... the entire board would say ducktales.

But anyway its family, first.
Have you seen that movie lawless with those crakker bootleggers? On how the brothers chopped those bodies up??
Was crazy. . I guess they shouldn't have attacked his brother:francis:
 
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