My older brother is about to join GMB

[Easy-E]

50k ain't that crazy breh


That'll get you a good life for 1 person....if you and your lady can pull in $50k each then that's a comfortable life in America

It's 2019....get your standards of living UP!!!

Name a career/job in New York for that salary.

 

[IVS]

Does she have a job?

Tell breh he might as well start sharpening the saw and aim for 70k if he plan on divorcing her tho.
If not he can look forward to broken pockets

 

[MikeOck]

Women like these are modern day initiators. You become a real man in the modern world once you get raked through the coals by such women.

 

[Brolic Scholar]

I think they are in Long island. They just signed off on a new crib about 8 months ago. Breh said he is working with 1 and a half knees and a bad back while she is spending all the money. Apparently she just started prospering in the past 2 years.

Well, he better catch up or catch that L. Can he only do physical and blue collar work? If he has a mouthpiece why not get into sales?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

If She knew how much he was making when they met and had a kid together, and it was good enough for her then, then its unfair for her to change her expectations now.

 

[semicko82]

If She knew how much he was making when they met and had a kid together, and it was good enough for her then, then its unfair for her to change her expectations now.

This

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

She's not making 6 figures NOW and he was the sole provider for years with a bad back and 1 knee in Long Island.
Y'all can't read and this is partial humble brag "my broke friend/cousin/ex is doing bad and always leans on me"...where most people are making 100k off gate with that much in the bank for emergencies, because 50 bands is broke, and NOBODY in NY is making under that or they're starving.
You got a nikka throwing his own kin under the bus and dikkeating his sister in law's mama's car like some type of starstruck groupie hoe.
Letting nikkas call a hardworking man a bum to flex from their offices.

Same nikkas with no women venting about unchecked, ongoing workplace discrimination.
Would you show this nikka what you agree with on here?

 

[intruder]

I texted my older brother (same mother different pops) who lives in NY
to see how he was doing. He immediately said "My wife wants out because I don't have 2 jobs or making 50-60k a year."

My initial text back to him was "Bro it might be best for you to leave the situation since she is basing your relationship off of how much money you are bringing in."

Main reason I said this is because he shouldn't have to play by her rules.

I thought about it after the fact and texted him again "but at the same time it is her prerogative, she has her own rights and needs. It's either you get 2 jobs and meet up to her needs or get a divorce."

They have a little girl together his first kid, first marriage.

Ive meet her before. She has a bougee type of attitude. I highly doubt she was trying to motivate him with those comments. I believe she wants to reap the benefits but again he should be making more money and should be able to find a new job. Especially in NY. 


Should he join GMB or Na?

At least she gave him a shot knowing he didnt make much going in.

BTW, how old is he to be living in NY and making less than $50K
I thought the average fast-food employee in NY was raking in $50K because of the cost of living up there. What does he do?
Personally, i dont have specific number for my woman to be making. But i do require that you are able to support yourself. That nonsense of asking me to borrow money every other month will not fly. I hear cats that deal with this and wonder how they got with these brawds in the first place. I've dated rich chicks that make $300K+ a year and broke chicks making $12/hr.
All that i require is you be self sustaining and we're good.

n NY making less that 50K?

Exactly the first thing i thought reading OP

Once IRS takes taxes out $50K - $60K you may be still be in mid - upper $40K

If he lives in NY he has t pay them high ass taxes so im sure it's even less

 

[Red Comp]

Marriage.

She's shown her true colors. DUMP her. Never get married again! No one should get married.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

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[Brolic Scholar]

On some real shyt, why the fukk do nikkas seed up women and then get mad or surprised they have to support that woman and the kid? They don’t know the routine by now?



I’m not with abusing the system and overly high cs, but when you make a baby, you know what’s coming next. nikkas gotta stop thinking with their dikks and listening to “cum inside me”.



He’s fukked either way, but on some personal goals shyt, the minimum in any state you should WANT to make, regardless of cost of living, is 6 figures. Just as a man you should want to do as well as you can financially.

 

[Blessings]

Your brother is too broke for marriage...WTF was he thinking

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not enough info but if she’s hitting him with ultimatums like that then dude has shown bytch energy around her for her to talk to him like that. I’d be damned if a woman told me some shyt like that!

She probably cheating on him on the low too. Does she work? She one of them I got a degree type chicks?

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Breh 40k in NY is McDonald's money

Her sole instinctual purpose as a mother is to make sure her cubs are provided for and safe.

Someone with financial stability must be courting her and she's warning him

She sounds humble only asking to clear 60k. You need at least 100k if you're supporting child. Unless you live in the sticks like Tompkins county

Bruh need to cut his losses asap

 

[TaxCollector13459]

nikka!!!


If she's making that much and he's barely making 40k I see why she's tripping. fukk all that equality bullshyt. A man is suppose to protect and provide. No matter what these women say, they look at a man they make more than. I get it can be hard out here but your bro gotta step it up.

Bruh might as well come down here and trap it out for 6 months