My problem with black men that prefer white women.

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People should be free to date and fukk who they wanna. SHOULD.

But i hear you, OP.

To me it's like this: You like what you like. I say this same sentence very often on the forum and in person. Again, You like what you like. Plain and simple. You shouldnt need to justify why you like what you like to anyone. But at the same time there is no need to bash the ones you DONT like to justify what you like, either.
Now, does the bashing come from others questioning these people's choices (of dating white women) and therefore they feel the need to defend it and wound up bashing the alternatives (ie black women) in the process?
Maybe :manny:
I feel like if people would just mind their business we'd be much better off.
 

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People should be free to date and fukk who they wanna. SHOULD.

But i hear you, OP.

To me it's like this: You like what you like. I say this same sentence very often on the forum and in person. Again, You like what you like. Plain and simple. You shouldnt need to justify why you like what you like to anyone. But at the same time there is no need to bash the ones you DONT like to justify what you like, either.
Now, does the bashing come from others questioning these people's choices (of dating white women) and therefore they feel the need to defend it and wound up bashing the alternatives (ie black women) in the process?
Maybe :manny:
I feel like if people would just mind their business we'd be much better off.
It's complicated.

Yeah. I think we all agree that in theory, "you like what you like" is a perfectly harmless rationale.

But indoctrination and manipulation and propaganda are powerful things.

When they took those dolls and placed them in front of black children and asked "which doll do you like?" -- that whole "personal preference" thing starts looking highly suspicious.

You see what I'm saying?
It's a delicate thing that can get very murky the deeper you go.

:yeshrug:
 

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Exactly. this is my gripe with the Kardashians, it's not love with them.
Isnt it their RIGHT to have a fetish, tho?

I mean if it were a fetish of something you approved of it wouldnt be a topic of conversation. I always tell people i have a dark skin women fetish. And i do. No biggie. But if another dude was to say they have a white woman or light skin fetish... mofos ready to :pacspit:
 

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Them nikkas will go on and on about how black women ain't shyt, do them wrong, their attitudes suck, and/or how the black women aren't attracted to them.

My gripe is, these same dudes be the main ones thirsting over these cac broads, and not even notice how these white girls are slaying them, just as well.

IMO, if u a corny nikka, u a corny nikka to all races. These nikkas shucking and jiving not knowing they getting curved, just more subtly.

:manny:

Nah.

I think there are certain things most cats can improve on that will make them more desirable in general, but I also believe that finding your core audience is important. So yea, you can lift weights and work on fashion, image, personality in order to appeal to a wider range, but in your heart of hearts, you know which girls tend to like you from jump.
 

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Nah.

I think there are certain things most cats can improve on that will make them more desirable in general, but I also believe that finding your core audience is important. So yea, you can lift weights and work on fashion, image, personality in order to appeal to a wider range, but in your heart of hearts, you know which girls tend to like you from jump.
If a nikka is getting played by both races, but in different variations then which is his core audience?
 
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