@Thatrogueassdiaz first off I commend you breh for being honest. Most brehs in real life and the Coli would be stuck in a false sense of machismo to admit it.
But honestly bro, what @BaldingSoHard said is absolutely the key to this situation. Listen to that post.
What @Mowgli said is gospel too, but breh did it in a tough love way you might not receive well. The point is as a man, you should have a fire inflamed in you to verbally grab him by the collar and let him know, stop that cute shyt.
That's what being a man is.
in this life nothing is given, as a man you take it.
You think he doesn't know why you're ducking him? You think he didn't know he was crossing a line there? He knows. He's trained for this shyt. Whether he geniunely provoked you to make another point, or he did it trolling you, point is YOU didn't like it. End of story. What you don't like, should be a boundary enforced.
Call him. Stop debating this. CALL HIM. Let him know assertively (but not aggressively) how you feel. Wait for no apology and check him AGAIN for blowing up your phone. After that YOU set the rules (I.e. Stop calling my phone etc) then you end the conversation.
This is a lesson for all times. When you reached your level, you SPEAK UP right then and there.
You probably need to be revved up, listen to some Mobb Deep or something and get that
feeling pumping. Don't rehearse it, you'll sound like you rehearsed it. Know a general outline what you want to say and let your heart carry the performance.
He is not a professional old therapist you're calling, he's a disrespectful little cac that called you out your name. treat him that way.
CALL HIM TODAY
But honestly bro, what @BaldingSoHard said is absolutely the key to this situation. Listen to that post.
What @Mowgli said is gospel too, but breh did it in a tough love way you might not receive well. The point is as a man, you should have a fire inflamed in you to verbally grab him by the collar and let him know, stop that cute shyt.
That's what being a man is.
in this life nothing is given, as a man you take it.
You think he doesn't know why you're ducking him? You think he didn't know he was crossing a line there? He knows. He's trained for this shyt. Whether he geniunely provoked you to make another point, or he did it trolling you, point is YOU didn't like it. End of story. What you don't like, should be a boundary enforced.
Call him. Stop debating this. CALL HIM. Let him know assertively (but not aggressively) how you feel. Wait for no apology and check him AGAIN for blowing up your phone. After that YOU set the rules (I.e. Stop calling my phone etc) then you end the conversation.
This is a lesson for all times. When you reached your level, you SPEAK UP right then and there.
You probably need to be revved up, listen to some Mobb Deep or something and get that
feeling pumping. Don't rehearse it, you'll sound like you rehearsed it. Know a general outline what you want to say and let your heart carry the performance.He is not a professional old therapist you're calling, he's a disrespectful little cac that called you out your name. treat him that way.
CALL HIM TODAY
