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He doesnt have respect for you as a client and is crossing boundaries. What is there to think twice about in this situation?
If a black man thinks a cac can help him with his emotional problems he's truly out of his mind.
Go get a black therapist and call it a day.
I think, ideally, this is best. I've met too many latent racist whites in counseling training programs. They don't know they're racist, which makes it even more dangerous for their potential non-white clients.
OT: @Mowgli, I'm doing it! Got my MMA gloves last week.I'm ready to take body shots and get pwned in pursuit of learning... I think.
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Work at your own pace. If you're practicing punching, kicking dodging punches, grappling and conditioning your lungs, youre alot further along then these haymaker *o ill just jump him with my boys* artists.
The average cac just doesnt understand what the average black person is living with psychologically and if they do they lack the empathy and discipline to really understand it.
OK, I'm working on the conditioning bit doing H.I.I.T and spin class. I still got a little winded last week doing combo punches. I also had problem figuring out what side to lead my punches with. Thing is, I write and eat with my left hand, and do most sports with my right, so I'm a ambidextrous, so I need to pick a side soon. I think the instructor was getting frustrated with me trying to switch up.
Anyway, yes, I completely agree with you. I think even well meaning whites have problems putting themselves in our shoes and even if they try, they can usually only think of it situationally, instead of how the cumulative effect of living in this society can shape and complicate the "regular" problems we have.
what does that explain? nobody is denying youre a masters student but...
what was the therapist doing
If a black man thinks a cac can help him with his emotional problems he's truly out of his mind.
Go get a black therapist and call it a day.
No.FUKK A THERAPIST.....
YOU NEED THERAPY?
Talk to ur BARBER or WEED CONNECT or That OG you can play pool with
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The fukk is up with white men coming on here and telling brothers how to think or act shyt isThis is a white man speaking
the number 1 thing you do with clients is build a rapport. it is found that minorities of all races usually don't come back to counseling after the 1st visit (due to the belief that white people can't relate to them which is true by the way).
there is a push to focus on adding and maintaining them in counseling along with whites in the last 5ish years.
the problem is that the 67 year old was trying his best to relate to a black man but he has not gotten the proper training. he went to the yearly seminars and was just winging it and fukked up completely![]()
As far as the Black people don't see therapist statements...people need to read and wake up.
He called you a ******, a racial slur my people made up to define how valueless you are as a human being. Why be upset. You shouldnt and if you are, something is wrong with you. If i was black like you, i wouldnt be mad at being called a ****** by someone i pay to help me with my psychological problems.The fukk is up with white men coming on here and telling brothers how to think or act shyt is![]()
date cave bytches brehs
let your therapist get away with say the n-word in front of you brehs
be too p*ssy to cancel your appointments and dead the relationship brehs