My verdict on Marriage vs Single Life (based on experience)

[ThaBoyBam]

Nothing like being single with loot

 

[bouncy]

I give the OP props because that is how a union should be, and I'm happy for him, BUT there is a good chance that it won't last unfortunately, which means a harder life then it would have been had he'd not get married. It may last for him though. You never know.

 

[Illuminatos]

Came in this thread and felt happy for the homie and his marriage































































































































read Reincar's response and was like

Exactly how I felt.

 

[AlreadyKnow]

I give the OP props because that is how a union should be, and I'm happy for him, BUT there is a good chance that it won't last unfortunately, which means a harder life then it would have been had he'd not get married. It may last for him though. You never know.

Statistically, the woman will have a harder life for a longer time period. Men tend to bounce back much quicker. Naturally.

 

[LezJepzin]

I was with dude until the lonely shyt. I'm single but I'm content and comfortable with it. @ having someone to feel "complete" . Those same people get on a suicide watch after the breakup.

 

[CrimsonTider]

The only thing here is SEX.

Married dudes have more sex than single dudes and you don't have to use condoms.

All the other stuff in the OP is blah

 

[ClassyME]

This is just beautiful

 

[Tres Leches]

theres a 50/50 chance youre right

 

[CrimsonTider]

lot of haters in this thread though

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

If you dont have @His_Excellence_Reincar in your top five posters

 

[A.V.]

The main problem in this thread is that ALL PARTIES are incapable of looking past their own situations/experiences before forming an opinion/conclusion about marriage.

Note how most the naysayers have been married & divorced.

Note how the OP (and most likely the average supporter) is in his first (and hopefully only) marriage.

That is all.

 

[bouncy]

Statistically, the woman will have a harder life for a longer time period. Men tend to bounce back much quicker. Naturally.

WHAT!?.

If you have child support, marital support, and your kids not having a good relationship with you or another man is around them, is still bad to me. Just because you see a man smiling, and TRYING to move on doesn't mean he bounced back, and is happy. He's just doing what he can do, while the women who go through this are lost because they need to have this fantasy life, and the one they had didn't work, so they are trying to figure out how they can keep the dream going now that they have baggage. They are the ones who initiate divorce most of the time, and push marriage in the relationship so the fact that it didn't go the way they wanted is what hurts them which is why they can't bounce back fast.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Misery loves company smh

 

[thoushallhustle]

so your basically saying your not responsible enough to manage your time and freedom, and you need a women/babysitter to do it for you.

That being single your weak and fall to the world vices and spend money foolishly. So you get consistent sex from one person so does anyone in a committed relationship, difference is if your mariage ends or if a 7 year itch or a sexless marriage your stuck.

THere is a difference between being alone and loneliness, secondly no one has to be alone if they don';t want to, some of the most lonely people are out there married.

And you have a son, of course hes great everyone says that, at one moment you said you have more money and yet the next you hvae a 2.5 year old kid, raising kids are expensive its laughable and downright insulting for you to insist you have more money know married with a kid and a mortgage than you would if you were single with no kids and rent insulting.


a prenup doesn't protect you from divorce, the women you love is gone, the children you love adn that are yours are now being raised by another man who sees them more than you, you've only been married for four years the avg first marriage lasts for 7 years, when she feels like not having sex with yu what are you going to do? when she doesn't love you anymore or needs space what you going to do?

 

[beezy]

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