My wife and i "temporarily" separated

[twan83]

A man could never understand this. I am the very least emotional woman ever, sometimes to the point of .... but when you have the body to have something live inside of you.... and then it does, and it doesn't work out

I don't have kids, so I can't even imagine, but I applaud the posters in this thread for pointing out the sheer guilt and discouragement involved...

we may never understand but doesnt mean we dont hurt with you or get excited or just as happy too help create that child into this world but i can agree because you guys carrying that child and for that too happen would hurt you more than us

yall for carrying it 9 months and then pushing that baby out that shyt look like it hurt like no other

 

[MikelArteta]

A man could never understand this. I am the very least emotional woman ever, sometimes to the point of .... but when you have the body to have something live inside of you.... and then it does, and it doesn't work out

I don't have kids, so I can't even imagine, but I applaud the posters in this thread for pointing out the sheer guilt and discouragement involved...

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

we may never understand but doesnt mean we dont hurt with you or get excited or just as happy too help create that child into this world but i can agree because you guys carrying that child and for that too happen would hurt you more than us

yall for carrying it 9 months and then pushing that baby out that shyt look like it hurt like no other

You are the part that I applaud- some men appreciate the beauty, stress and pain of it all, but others- like the man I originally replied to- just don't even take the time to try.

 

[King Poetic]

honestly

U asking the wrong group of people

Go sit down with someone u can trust and if u can't trust no one go to a church and speak to a respectable priest about it..

These dudes on here don't know they ass from a hole in a wall

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Nothing to report. I work with kids every day pretty much raised my little sisters ...... I can't wait for my opportunity to bring life into this world. Even if it means I have to struggle through heartbreaking challenges such as this.

 

[MikelArteta]

Nothing to report. I work with kids every day pretty much raised my little sisters ...... I can't wait for my opportunity to bring life into this world. Even if it means I have to struggle through heartbreaking challenges such as this.

so you never been pregnant?

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

so you never been pregnant?

Not yet... I've been OCD about making sure I'm ready to be the Mom I'm meant to be when I'm ready to give 100%.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

everybody is different but when you create something into this world and you want it and u get prepared for it, when you hear that heart beat or feel the movements in her stomach

that is one of the greatest feeling in the world too know you help brought that child into this world with your partner and excited too see that child come for it too only be taken from you

too see that heart not beat too hear the doctor say im sorry but your child is dead is like the worst feeling you can experience that you never got a chance too hold that child see it grow up tell that child in your arms you love them

na man that shyt hurts too my mother fukking core and that memory will never die in my head or heart too know i didnt get too experience that child for the rest of my life

painted my nightmare.

 

[mcdivit85]

Sorry to hear about the miscarriage.

Either way, I don't think her wanting to be apart from you is a good thing. In any relationship, when a person wants to be away from the other person, that usually is never a good sign. But I've never experienced a miscarriage, so I can understand that could be a different beast. I could be totally wrong, especially if she's talking about just spending the night or weekend with her mom. Any longer than that, and there's trouble ahead.

Bottom line, I would be supportive of her, but she also needs to be supportive of you as well. Both of you created that child and both of you lost it. I understand that she had a physical connection to the child, but I'm sure it hurt you as well. Both of you lost an unborn child.

Trying to solve a relationship issue outside of the relationship is like trying to solve a football issue on a basketball court.

Peace

 

[beenz]

everybody is different but when you create something into this world and you want it and u get prepared for it, when you hear that heart beat or feel the movements in her stomach

that is one of the greatest feeling in the world too know you help brought that child into this world with your partner and excited too see that child come for it too only be taken from you

too see that heart not beat too hear the doctor say im sorry but your child is dead is like the worst feeling you can experience that you never got a chance too hold that child see it grow up tell that child in your arms you love them

na man that shyt hurts too my mother fukking core and that memory will never die in my head or heart too know i didnt get too experience that child for the rest of my life

maybe that was the problem. we already had a kid at the time, so I wasn't caring about having another one. and when I found out it was twins, I really wasn't wanting that to happen.

still, I can't understand getting all upset due to an embryo that didn't make it. it's not even like its an actual human being or person you that you got to know.

 

[Ricky Church]

get mad p*ssy, jerkoff, drink, and play playstation

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

So what happened? is everything okay now?

 

[61 Corpses]

Not yet... I've been OCD about making sure I'm ready to be the Mom I'm meant to be when I'm ready to give 100%.

More women should think like this

 

[Ultimate Warrior]

***snorts 29seconds***

dikk she grew up with, grew up and finna go up in her

 

[a murda]

So what happened? is everything okay now?

yea everything is decent ...she still at her moms... last night we were on the phone for at least 5hrs...that is honestly the longest convo we've had in years since we been dating .... overall we doing good she jus need some personal space but im still by her side..