See, the OP's problem is that he has no real interests. Of course you're not going to meet a bytch at that bar who you would still want in the morning. Even a little bit of alcohol fukks up people's perceptions. Women at the bar think you are only hollering because you're drinking. People go to bars and parties to relax and unwind, not meet new people. The bar is one of the worst places to meet anyone. You have a better chance of getting stomped out for stepping on some nikkas fresh J's or looking at another frustrated angry nikka too long than actually pulling a quality dime bytch at any bar or club. Be glad you're getting curved at the bar. Beer goggles are no joke. Any female who's easy to get at the bar is probably not worth having. Real shyt. You think you're talking to Tamia the R&B singer at the bar at 2 in the morning end up waking up next to a lightskinned version of Precious the next morning. shyt, you have a better chance of drinking so much and becoming an alcoholic and going to AA meetings to bag a quality broad than going to bars every damn weekend.
Develop some real interests and find other people who have those interests. The radio and TV make it seem like the club is some magical place where dime bytches will fukk you the first night just for showing up. It's a mindfukk because if you a good looking, well dressed tall dude like me, it seems like it's gone work out at the bar/club, but it never does. And when it does, it's regrettable beer goggles. And you gotta watch out for random bytches who are willing to fukk on the first night. They might be trying to set you up at worst. shyt happens all the time where I'm from. bytch might be burning like California wild fires, might have the package.bytch might have a psychotic homicidal boyfriend that will kill your ass. bytch might be crazy herself and stalk you. You might get some random crazy hoe with no life ambition pregnant and be fukked for life.
All of this would be common sense, but I can't knock it because I wasted years trying to pull dimes in the bar and by in large, that shyt doesn't work unless you're a celebrity or some shyt. The bar scene is about looks and money, period. Mom gave me that game back in the day and I didn't listen. You're better off playing the day game going to malls, universities, art galleries, museums, libraries, coffee shops etc. anywhere that is not a bar. Get the confidence to holler at bytches when you're stone cold sober in a laidback regular life scenario. Women know it's real when you holler 100% sober.Folks don't realize how repulsive they look, smell and act even off a little bit of the ac right.
Most of that is true. Music videos done fukked up many dudes perceptions of getting action in the clubs and bars.
damn shame that generation Y is struggling cause of increased pressure of going to school and working instead of developing your natural self.
