The year was 2010, I'm 5'8 and some change, but I had this 5'11 145lb bow legged bad bish. Azz phat, chest more than a mouthful, and model type pretty. Everywhere we went people would tell her she should be on America's Top Model or WTF show it was. To this day she is in my top 2 dopest bodies. She worked with my brother and his kids mom, she and I initially got together after she broke up with her abusive boyfriend, but after about 8 months, we broke up. She eventually got back with her ex, had a kid, they broke up again. 2 years after she and I broke up, my brother and his kids mom told me she wanted to reach out to me (I should have stayed away), so I hit her up. It just so happens that it was my birthday, she slid through, and we were on, and crackin again. It was just like old times, except now she has a kid, and her body went from a 10 to a 7.5. After about 3 months, she got a new apartment, and I basically moved in.
She came from a super religious family, and she was 1 of 8 kids. Her mother didn't work, and her father was a preacher at some tiny church.
Money was tight. In December while her 12 yr old brother was battling cancer, her father started a Go Fund Me for the brother, raised $24K, then moved out of state with his secret girlfriend and the 24k. Christmas comes around, and I know her families down bad, so I regifted some shyt I had that was still brand new, bought gift cards, a Keurig (they all would fukk some coffee up), and other stuff. I spent about 2k on her fam, and about $700 on her and her kid.
Fast forward about 3 months, at this point, I'm filling the fridge, and paying half the bills. I go to work (I work 12hr days 7a-7p), she calls me to tell me that there's an emergency, won't be home, don't worry, and she'll call me later. 5 hours pass, I get off work, and still haven't heard from her. I call, I text, but no answer. I go home shower, then sleep, but I woke up early so I could drive to some spots that I know her kids father lived at, and it would still be dark outside, so I'd have some cover. Lo and behold, her car was at an apartment he stayed at. I go to work, around 11am, she texts me some nudes, I didn't respond. At 2pm she calls trying to cuss me out over not responding, I didn't say anything, because I wanted to confront her. Long story short she tried to lie, then deny, but eventually "admitted" to spending the night so her daughter could spend time with her dad, but she slept on the couch....she thought I had no self respect.
Bish hurt my pockets more than my feelings, but it was at this time I began to formulate my theory that, These single mothers aren't out here looking for love, they're looking for help"
Unfortunately I didn't learn my lesson from this experience, the S on my chest was earned
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