Name a time you got played... bad....

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This next installment on how I got played, cost me a lot of money. In 2003 I met this bad bish from Ontario, Canada. She was at a mall here in Ohio. She had come here for a wedding. She went back to Toronto the next day, but we kept in touch. After about a month, in the middle of a crazy snow storm, she arrives at my house. She drove 5 1/2 hours through a damn blizzard for me. She got out of her car brushed the snow off herself, and was damn near glowing. She was absolutely beautiful, 5'1 115lbs, short, sweet, and petite. That first night she asked if i minded if she changed into her night clothes. She took off her pants to reveal some booty shorts, then took her bra off, and then I sprung into action. We went for 3 rounds, woke up in the morning, and went for round #4. For the next 3 days we kicked it, then she had to return home for school/work, and I was IN LOVE!! We were together for 1 1/2 years. We broke up because at the time, neither of us could move, and her family/friends hated me (they didn't want her to have anything nice). We met up on the Canadian side of Niagara Falls a year later (she let me smash in the park under a picnic blanket).

Over the next 5 years, she would email me, she got married, had 3 kids, bought a house, and life was great for her. Then we lost contact. Years go by, it's now Oct 2017, I'm into crypto currency, I had bought a computer strictly for my crypto, I called it the crypto computer. and my ex emails me. She tells me that she never stopped loving me, and she had gotten a separation. We facetimed, and talked frequently. Turned out that all kids were delivered by C-section, and her body was no longer a 10, but now a solid 8. After about a month we linked up on Canadas side of Niagara Falls (just like old times, because the US side ain't chit). She and I kicked it for about 6hrs, we picked up where we left off in 2005. She had to go pick up the kiddos. Within 2 months she moved, I met the kids, they loved me, and I loved them. The kids father refused to pay any child support, and vamped out of there lives completely. I still worked 7am-7pm 3 days a week, but started working until 10pm, and I picked up a 4th day. I would spend all of my free time in Canada for the next 2 years. I stopped paying attention to my crypto, because I was so busy, and all my money was being spent elsewhere. Once again I filled the fridge, and covered half the bills, and of course birthdays, X-mas, amusement parks were on me. I was going to move there, but the paperwork aspect was a lot, and between my job, constantly driving, and living between two houses, my mind was always racing. My brother passed from an asthma attack 1/29/20, then covid hit, and the borders closed.

After my brother passed, I went through a WILD depression, chit, I'm still depressed. That April after I felt her being more and more distant, I asked her to marry me, then I'd be allowed to cross the border, but she said not right now. She'd have the kids facetime me less and less, then In June she broke up with me. Bish kicked me while I was down, at the lowest point in my life. Honestly, I think I loved Canada more than her. Towards the end of 2020, my boy hit me up and told me to look back into Crypto, and that everything was beginning to move upwards. I had crypto on 5 different exchanges. I also started to do research in Jan 2021. I was able to get back into 2 exchanges, a 3rd exchange continues to lock me out (I don't have the seed phrases), and the 4th, and 5th exchanges shut down. I spent thousands on my ex and her kids, over those two years instead of staying on my crypto grind. I know for certain I would have made at least 300k-500k had I not dealt with her.

Side note: I saw on my exes Instagram that she had a new man within 2 weeks after we broke up, calling his azz "king". About a month after that they broke up, and she got a new "king".

This bish really hurt my pockets more than my feelings, but this time my theory was solidified that, "These single mothers aren't out here looking for love, they're looking for help"
I no longer have an S on my chest, I finally learned the hard way. I did it so ya'll don't have to.
 
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LOLOLOLOL right, their father was heartless! I swear on everything all of this happened. The boys cancer went into remission, and he's alive and well today.
 

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Aight I know tlr is for negativity and thecoli is for 6 figs 6 certs 6 foot 6 superhumans who never been hurt but this thread is a little different

On another note we should have a news section where all the news goes instead of the news going to tlr

This wasn't the first time learning being played either but this was the turning point into a playa.

Ok here we go... this is all alleged btw.
I remember in my early 20s I started dating this woman that was about 12 years older than me. She was caramel/light skin with a FAT ASS. The fat ass part is what got me.. This is before insta thots and bbls and I'm an ass man. I'm looking at her like coconut water in a dessert. So i walk up to her at a whole foods spot by the eggs isle and start talking. I'm thinking I have to get her number.. Come to find out she was a pescatarrgianian or whatever. We continue to talk she seems like a wholesome lady..
I tell her I don't want to hold her up so we exchange numbers.

In my head I'm break dancing. You can't tell me nothing!


I walk to the car like
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I drive home blasting some lil wayne or max b mixtape. High off of life.


After I get home I forgot what even happen im like why the hell am I vibing so damn high then I remember .. "Oh let's goooo."

I text her like "hey sweetheart this is that handsome man you met earlier lock me in."

I send off the text and do the spinaroony in my apartment kitchen.
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Probably looked dumb as hell but idgas.

"I knew I was that nikka!"

Roommate came out his room looking at me like



We talk about it and I Kim.


The rule of thumb back in the day was to wait 3 days to call and have a conversation. I didn't make up the rule but that's how it is. So that's what I did.

I call her on a Wednesday to her everything went smoothly.
We setup a date for that same weekend and it happens.
(I'm telling you if I played the lotto I would win.)


We go to the local park talk no money is spent

i find out she drove there in her own car and she has a spot with her kid and it's close by cool..

We go to an ice cream spot I buy her some ice cream she gets a cone I get a cup of course :dame:

We are all smiles I'm making her laugh.

After the date I had a good feeling because of the vibe and say "hey I had a good time with you.. do you want to get some drinks and go back to your place.


She said "Sure."

Man I'm telling you now I'm feeling like Lavar ball on espn
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We are drive there I'm excited like it's my 11th birthday party.

I get to her spot in pretty damn nice especially since I don't have my own.. we get in the house drink.. i find out she is a massuse ..she gives me a massage on a message table and I smash.


First night brehs.


:blessed:

After that day we start dating. I'm at her house daily we smashing all the time 3 4 times a day. All that.

So about 3 and a half months in I decided to go to her "office" where she works. She gets client all the time so she is making money. I'm in the lobby with her we are talking she gets a call I see The number says something like Chris XXL and has 5 stars next to it.. I'm like "what's that?" :lupe:


She says "oh nothing, just a good client he leaves a big tip."

I say "oh that's pretty cool. See that's what i like about you you're an entrepreneur unlike these other skeezas out here.":myman:"that's my baby."


(Again this is years ago before the hustle culture and investing mania) it was truly innovative.


So Chris XXL 5 Stars comes by and this gumba head ass about 36 year old stocky breh about 5 foot 9 comes in looking like
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I'm :mjlol: this bum ass nikka


So she says I got to go babe and she starts to guide breh to the room where she does massages.

I can hear a tad bit threw the walls but it sounds like Charlie browns teacher and muffled with bass just some talking but a lot of it in inaudible nothing crazy .

Doesn't matter I'm on my phone.

About 40 minutes in I hear her giggling while they talk but to me it's cool I'm not jealous :mjpls:
She is just doing her job. It happens

Then I hear a muffled voice like "brrrebbb hold it with both." Or something..

Then I hear more giggling and "it's humong..."


I'm like:mjgrin: "wtf is going on"


Things get quiet and then I hear her relay "ouch ohh ohh " "Ohhhhh my God""oh my god!!."


Man I felt so much anger circulating through my body I just left. I tried to remember if I had anything at her crib but it didn't matter. Never talked to her in person again.

:mjcry:fukk yall in advance.
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The year was 2010, I'm 5'8 and some change, but I had this 5'11 145lb bow legged bad bish. Azz phat, chest more than a mouthful, and model type pretty. Everywhere we went people would tell her she should be on America's Top Model or WTF show it was. To this day she is in my top 2 dopest bodies. She worked with my brother and his kids mom, she and I initially got together after she broke up with her abusive boyfriend, but after about 8 months, we broke up. She eventually got back with her ex, had a kid, they broke up again. 2 years after she and I broke up, my brother and his kids mom told me she wanted to reach out to me (I should have stayed away), so I hit her up. It just so happens that it was my birthday, she slid through, and we were on, and crackin again. It was just like old times, except now she has a kid, and her body went from a 10 to a 7.5. After about 3 months, she got a new apartment, and I basically moved in.

She came from a super religious family, and she was 1 of 8 kids. Her mother didn't work, and her father was a preacher at some tiny church. Money was tight. In December while her 12 yr old brother was battling cancer, her father started a Go Fund Me for the brother, raised $24K, then moved out of state with his secret girlfriend and the 24k. Christmas comes around, and I know her families down bad, so I regifted some shyt I had that was still brand new, bought gift cards, a Keurig (they all would fukk some coffee up), and other stuff. I spent about 2k on her fam, and about $700 on her and her kid.

Fast forward about 3 months, at this point, I'm filling the fridge, and paying half the bills. I go to work (I work 12hr days 7a-7p), she calls me to tell me that there's an emergency, won't be home, don't worry, and she'll call me later. 5 hours pass, I get off work, and still haven't heard from her. I call, I text, but no answer. I go home shower, then sleep, but I woke up early so I could drive to some spots that I know her kids father lived at, and it would still be dark outside, so I'd have some cover. Lo and behold, her car was at an apartment he stayed at. I go to work, around 11am, she texts me some nudes, I didn't respond. At 2pm she calls trying to cuss me out over not responding, I didn't say anything, because I wanted to confront her. Long story short she tried to lie, then deny, but eventually "admitted" to spending the night so her daughter could spend time with her dad, but she slept on the couch....she thought I had no self respect.

Bish hurt my pockets more than my feelings, but it was at this time I began to formulate my theory that, "These single mothers aren't out here looking for love, they're looking for help"
Unfortunately I didn't learn my lesson from this experience, the S on my chest was earned :snoop:.....

You still got them nudes breh? :ehh:
 

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Long story short… during my much younger and naïve years, I met this guy at work. He was EVERYTHING. Attractive, had a great job, smart, and he had this “ease” to him. He was smooth AF. He tried “keeping it real” and letting me know upfront that he had just got out of something but he was really feeling me so didn’t want his past to hinder us.

We dated for a few months. He even went as far as to tell me he was in love with me and he wanted us to move in together. I was the best thing in his life. Blah. Blah. Blah and more bullshyt. There were red flags everywhere (blackout times where I wouldn’t hear from him, we could never link at his house, he was healthy but his car had a handicap plate, etc) but I ignored the hell out of them. I was smitten. One day down the line (the day after my birthday) I get a call from a blocked number. I answer and the person hangs up. Then his number calls right back so I’m thinking it’s him finalizing our plans for the weekend to celebrate my birthday. Instead it was a woman asking me how I know her husband, if we had been fukking, and trying to verify if he at least used condoms with me. :snoop: In hindsight this clearly wasn’t the first time he had been caught up.

To add salt to my wound, he grabs the phone from her and instead of telling me how much he loves me and that she was crazy…this a$$hole begs me and damn near cries to me to tell his wife that we are JUST friends and that it’s nothing like that.

I was heartbroken. That relationship was probably my first live wake up call though. I second guessed everything after that. :mjlol: Not to say I never got played again though. I still had a few more dumb years left.
 

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I’ve only been played once. Imagine your shorty doing a nikkas dreads in her crib, in a t shirt bra less with her nipples visibly protruding, and spandex booty shorts. Then sending you videos smoking the nikkas blunt and calling you insecure for having an issue and going off.
Imagine going through all of this, deading the relationship, then getting gaslighted into believing you were wrong and overreacted.

Date a narcissist, brehs.. :francis:
 
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I’ve only been played once. Imagine your shorty doing a nikkas dreads in her crib, in a t shirt bra less with her nipples visibly protruding, and spandex booty shorts. Then sending you videos smoking the nikkas blunt and calling you insecure for having an issue and going off.
Imagine going through all of this, deading the relationship, then getting gaslighted into believing you were wrong and overreacted.

Date a narcissist, brehs.. :francis:




This might be the widest story in here :laff:
 
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