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This is what I’m not getting, how you treat your dalliances is your business but why were you upset she wants to stay an extra day? Did she say “and you’re going to pay for it” or is that the regular expectation, cause what I’m reading isn’t that.


It’s her bday though, he offered and she accepted. The bday woman wants to enjoy it how she wishes, don’t think that is a big deal.

yoo gotta be a woman.

there is a diff between “hey can we stay until tuesday” and “im staying until tuesday” for a trip you arent paying for
 

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exactly, if she aint your girl why do you care she staying one more day??you gonna be with her all but 1 day. How is that separate arrangement? You will get what you want out of the trip.

I don't think you are looking at it from my perspective properly.

This is her bday weekend and I'm buying plane tickets and the room......fine

She planted a seed that she is staying til Tuesday....which by proxy assumes I might pay for that as well.....which I'm not.

Let's say for argument sake we agreed via text that I wasnt....lol

There will now be an akward cloud that we have seperate return flights that she has to pay for as well as a room that she has to pay for as well with a dude with a pocket of cash

This to me is all fine if she was inviting me on a trip..but if she is trying to dictate terms of a trip she is not controlling....recipe for disaster
 

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Its called tricking breh lol

If he would have budged her her tuesday thing he wlukd have gone from tricking to simping
Indeed. I don’t assume that’s what dudes willing do, so I the question.
 

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I don't think you are looking at it from my perspective properly.

This is her bday weekend and I'm buying plane tickets and the room......fine

She planted a seed that she is staying til Tuesday....which by proxy assumes I might pay for that as well.....which I'm not.

Let's say for argument sake we agreed via text that I wasnt....lol

There will now be an akward cloud that we have seperate return flights that she has to pay for as well as a room that she has to pay for as well with a dude with a pocket of cash

This to me is all fine if she was inviting me on a trip..but if she is trying to dictate terms of a trip she is not controlling....recipe for disaster

this the wrong place for this convo. Most dudes are broke or only do the girlfriend thing so this whole thing goes over their head.
 

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yoo gotta be a woman.

there is a diff between “hey can we stay until tuesday” and “im staying until tuesday” for a trip you arent paying for


Thank you bruh.....its thats simple ....and when you break down everything that comes with that fundamental difference you can see how problematic it was
 

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I don't think you are looking at it from my perspective properly.

This is her bday weekend and I'm buying plane tickets and the room......fine

She planted a seed that she is staying til Tuesday....which by proxy assumes I might pay for that as well.....which I'm not.

Let's say for argument sake we agreed via text that I wasnt....lol

There will now be an akward cloud that we have seperate return flights that she has to pay for as well as a room that she has to pay for as well with a dude with a pocket of cash

This to me is all fine if she was inviting me on a trip..but if she is trying to dictate terms of a trip she is not controlling....recipe for disaster
but you're the one who made her feel like she had power to dictate by making yourself 2nd option on her bd weekend.
 

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Thank you bruh.....its thats simple ....and when you break down everything that comes with that fundamental difference you can see how problematic it was
Yeah, her ride ended. You should take another chick or go solo and post pics and watch her blow you up trying tk get in good graces
 

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He is a proud trick based on his history, and he outlines he is covering everything here, i think dudes just dont understand tricking.
Yep that’s I why said earlier he seems to know the game and isn’t complaining so play on play on :manny
 

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Yep that’s I why said earlier he seems to know the game and isn’t complaining so play on play on :manny

yeah, tricking or not she was disrespectful. Only
Time that “im staying until tuesday” flies is if yall were going solo but planning to meet up.
 
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