Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Silver Surfer]

yeah, tricking or not she was disrespectful. Only
Time that “im staying until tuesday” flies is if yall were going solo but planning to meet up.

Bruh I feel like I know you.....my neighbor said the same thing..and funny enough I got invited to a wedding by a single chick I work with 3 weeks ago in Cancun and that's the exact circumstance. She said she was already gonna be out there and if I wanted, I could stay with her....I'm actually about to see if she wants to roll for a weekend...

 

[Silver Surfer]

Its called tricking breh lol

If he would have budged her her tuesday thing he wlukd have gone from tricking to simping

 

[Silver Surfer]

Logistics on getting that payment won’t break clean…………

I feel like I know what you saying...but can you elaborate?

 

[jj23]

Won't make this long....

Got a chic , been kicking it with some months. Her birthday was coming up and I mentioned if her birthday plans didn't work out with her friends, she could come on a trip with me.

Like clockwork she hit me up some weeks later to see if the trip was possible..said "yep...where you trying to go?".....she mentioned Mexico....cool

We texting, making arrangements on dates etc.....

She mention the weekend she was open....

I said..."ok these days work"

She says "work for whom"

I said " works for me, because I can take that Friday and Monday off"

She replies " Ok...im staying til Tuesday"

I block her....

she pole vaulted past that line breh

 

[The ADD]

I feel like I know what you saying...but can you elaborate?

They were suggesting she cover the part where she stayed over but if she was interested in that then she would have offered right away. Also how do you break up the cost? X amount for the hotel, X amount for the flight. Pain in the ass to even calculate.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bruh I feel like I know you.....my neighbor said the same thing..and funny enough I got invited to a wedding by a single chick I work with 3 weeks ago in Cancun and that's the exact circumstance. She said she was already gonna be out there and if I wanted, I could stay with her....I'm actually about to see if she wants to roll for a weekend...

petty boyz lol

 

[Silver Surfer]

They were suggesting she cover the part where she stayed over but if she was interested in that then she would have offered right away. Also how do you break up the cost? X amount for the hotel, X amount for the flight. Pain in the ass to even calculate.

And trust me bruh....that shouldn't even be something on someone's mind headed on a trip.

Now imagine how that might snowball to other things while on the trip

 

[Apollo Creed]

They were suggesting she cover the part where she stayed over but if she was interested in that then she would have offered right away. Also how do you break up the cost? X amount for the hotel, X amount for the flight. Pain in the ass to even calculate.

its not even worth doing what if scenarios lol. The purpose of tricking is getting an ROI on your terms. If someone wants to do things outside of your terms they at least ask if its ok, but the fact she tried to tell dude what time it was shows she was feeling herself and thought she had simp. A simp would have made adjustments, but when you tricking the thought is “man i got more important stuff to do lol, bye”

 

[Silver Surfer]

its not even worth doing what if scenarios lol. The purpose of tricking is getting an ROI on your terms. If someone wants to do things outside of your terms they at least ask if its ok, but the fact she tried to tell dude what time it was shows she was feeling herself and thought she had simp. A simp would have made adjustments, but when you tricking the thought is “man i got more important stuff to do lol, bye”

Your accuracy is uncanny

 

[Apollo Creed]

Your accuracy is uncanny

when you paid you understand life lol.

america has a weird anti tricking thing because most men cant afford it, and have free time to waste. They get their cues from rappers who trick more than anytime else. Unless you are now looking to get married, or want a 50/50 girlfriend to help you with bills, if you are a high earner you dont have time to waste, so when you want quick ROIs tricking makes sense.

 

[KeysT]

You did right.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Trips are for girlfriends, not FWB

 

[Lamar Givens]

Stop offering to finance trips for women that are not your wives brehs…

 

[the bossman]

You were very clear about when you were available to do the trip and she basically said bump that. I'm staying an extra day. If yall were organizing independently and planned to just meet up then cool. But it's a bit disrespectful to not even ask if it's ok to extend an extra day especially when someone else is funding the trip for you.

However there's very little reason things should've got to this point. I don't see why you would offer to take a "side chick" on a weekend getaway for her bday like thats your main. This is where lines get blurred and confusion comes in. If you someone I just been fukkin on some FWB shyt then I might take you out for dinner or something. But a whole trip out of the country? Nah that's relationship behavior.

I'm gonna give you benefit of the doubt that you been handling your business in the sheets so if she getting her nut and you getting yours then I don't get the whole "it's the least I could do since I been fukkin her all Summer" as of she did you a favor.

TL:DR stop with the blurred lines. If you simply want an escort to accompany you on a trip then establish that from jump so she knows exactly what time it is.

 

[Silver Surfer]

You were very clear about when you were available to do the trip and she basically said bump that. I'm staying an extra day. If yall were organizing independently and planned to just meet up then cool. But it's a bit disrespectful to not even ask if it's ok to extend an extra day especially when someone else is funding the trip for you.

However there's very little reason things should've got to this point. I don't see why you would offer to take a "side chick" on a weekend getaway for her bday like thats your main. This is where lines get blurred and confusion comes in. If you someone I just been fukkin on some FWB shyt then I might take you out for dinner or something. But a whole trip out of the country? Nah that's relationship behavior.

I'm gonna give you benefit of the doubt that you been handling your business in the sheets so if she getting her nut and you getting yours then I don't get the whole "it's the least I could do since I been fukkin her all Summer" as of she did you a favor.

TL:DR stop with the blurred lines. If you simply want an escort to accompany you on a trip then establish that from jump so she knows exactly what time it is.

Yo to be clear...I don't have a main or side chick.

And the fukking all summer really meant we been cool all summer...friendly as well as intimate