Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Apollo Creed]

You were very clear about when you were available to do the trip and she basically said bump that. I'm staying an extra day. If yall were organizing independently and planned to just meet up then cool. But it's a bit disrespectful to not even ask if it's ok to extend an extra day especially when someone else is funding the trip for you.

However there's very little reason things should've got to this point. I don't see why you would offer to take a "side chick" on a weekend getaway for her bday like thats your main. This is where lines get blurred and confusion comes in. If you someone I just been fukkin on some FWB shyt then I might take you out for dinner or something. But a whole trip out of the country? Nah that's relationship behavior.

I'm gonna give you benefit of the doubt that you been handling your business in the sheets so if she getting her nut and you getting yours then I don't get the whole "it's the least I could do since I been fukkin her all Summer" as of she did you a favor.

TL:DR stop with the blurred lines. If you simply want an escort to accompany you on a trip then establish that from jump so she knows exactly what time it is.

you dont understand the scenario breh lol. Lines were not blurred, chick was giving him a shyt test to see if he was a simp

 

[-Quikness-]

IMO .. breh, you fukked up the moment you let her decide where the trip would be. I know it was the bytches birthday, but you're paying for that shyt, plus she wasn't your girl anyways so paying and ,letting her decide where you're taking her had her feeling way too in charge

 

[the bossman]

you dont understand the scenario breh lol. Lines were not blurred, chick was giving him a shyt test to see if he was a simp

LOL if a chick is still trying you like that after you supposedly been fukkin her for months then that means she seen you as a simp from jump.

Not surprising when you offer to pay AND say we can go wherever you like

You never really established yourself well as a nikka who don't deal with bs which is why she felt comfortable enough to do some disrespectful shyt like that.

Like she ain't even feel the need to ask if it's ok to extend. Just flat out told the nikka what time it was

 

[Ahadi]

IMO .. breh, you fukked up the moment you let her decide where the trip would be. I know it was the bytches birthday, but you're paying for that shyt, plus she wasn't your girl anyways so paying and ,letting her decide where you're taking her had her feeling way too in charge

This. There was too much control on the other side to prompt her response. bytch was ungrateful.

“Ok…. I’m staying until Tuesday” like a little kid.

 

[beenz]

I blocked immediately.....noticed she mentioned she plans to stay to Tuesday for a trip that initially I proposed and will be funding

I could understand if she was inviting me or if she made previous arrangements

That was Savage, but whenever I get a hint of a hoe trying to get over, I immediately ghost as well.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

My nikka said girl bye

 

[Guess Who]

Coulda been a great moment to assert yourself and essentially give yourself lifetime access to the p*ssy. I woulda just told her if she wanna stay longer that’s on her but I’m going back on Monday and left it at that. She woulda paid her own extra day or acquiesced to your limits…and you’d still be fukking her.

Women get entitled when you let them dictate the terms. If you shut that shyt down EARLY then you never gonna have that problem again and she gonna respect u more for it.

 

[Silver Surfer]

IMO .. breh, you fukked up the moment you let her decide where the trip would be. I know it was the bytches birthday, but you're paying for that shyt, plus she wasn't your girl anyways so paying and ,letting her decide where you're taking her had her feeling way too in charge

Ehhh I already had a list of places.....it was her birthday....she chose or me...didnt matter...I just wanted to get out of town on a trip

 

[FaTaL]

IMO .. breh, you fukked up the moment you let her decide where the trip would be. I know it was the bytches birthday, but you're paying for that shyt, plus she wasn't your girl anyways so paying and ,letting her decide where you're taking her had her feeling way too in charge

So he’s the one that planted the seeds first

 

[Apollo Creed]

LOL if a chick is still trying you like that after you supposedly been fukkin her for months then that means she seen you as a simp from jump.

Not surprising when you offer to pay AND say we can go wherever you like

You never really established yourself well as a nikka who don't deal with bs which is why she felt comfortable enough to do some disrespectful shyt like that.

Like she ain't even feel the need to ask if it's ok to extend. Just flat out told the nikka what time it was

I dont think you understand women breh lol. Enjoy
Your day

 

[Silver Surfer]

Coulda been a great moment to assert yourself and essentially give yourself lifetime access to the p*ssy. I woulda just told her if she wanna stay longer that’s on her but I’m going back on Monday and left it at that. She woulda paid her own extra day or acquiesced to your limits…and you’d still be fukking her.

Women get entitled when you let them dictate the terms. If you shut that shyt down EARLY then you never gonna have that problem again and she gonna respect u more for it.

Or you could bush her and move to the next.......possibilities

 

[Apollo Creed]

That was Savage, but whenever I get a hint of a hoe trying to get over, I immediately ghost as well.

Exactly breh. dudes talking about doing sista girl comebacks show they lack wisdom lol. Going back and forth with a woman you already lost.

the moment a woman gets out of line you leave.

 

[Ahadi]

Coulda been a great moment to assert yourself and essentially give yourself lifetime access to the p*ssy. I woulda just told her if she wanna stay longer that’s on her but I’m going back on Monday and left it at that. She woulda paid her own extra day or acquiesced to your limits…and you’d still be fukking her.

Women get entitled when you let them dictate the terms. If you shut that shyt down EARLY then you never gonna have that problem again and she gonna respect u more for it.

And I would of had something else lined up as well. In case shyt goes left.

Be like future & cancel the room.

 

[Max.]

See I’m petty as fukk I would’ve told her the trip was still on…and pack her bags take a week off of work and meet me at the airport and then never arrive

 

[Apollo Creed]

And I would of had something else lined up as well. In case shyt goes left.

Be like future & cancel the room.

breh i cant beliebe dudes talking about comebacks lmfao.

you debate your equals, and a bird aint my equal. If she dont like the terms then end it, she aint my wife lol, and even my wife getting with the program.