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This.

Also, if it’s not that serious why are you taking it so personal. The insta-block comes off like ur either hella hurt cuz u thought she was different, u been done dirty before, or its a trigger.

Its your bread and your energy so I feel you on what u need to do to protect yourself but seems like ur execution tells a story.


Don't have to be in a serious thing to have a series of parameters you try to stick to

The execution should tell a story.....stfu and enjoy the ride
 

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You did the right thing. nikkas in here calling u simp are either broke or never dealt w/ a woman like this. I work w/ a broad who tells me she doesn’t need to be spoiled per say but would like a trip sponsored by her S/O. They find it a diss even if you pay half. I don’t have these problems tho for her to have to gall to tell you she was going to stay an extra day, I mean atleast she told u upfront instead of once y’all get there. But she was bold nonetheless.
 

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Only part that’s irking me is that you blocked her…Just not something I’d do, my response would’ve been, “I’m leaving Monday, if you can’t do this I shouldn’t be sponsoring the trip” at that point she with it or not, blocking seems super emotional or feelings was hurt on some I can’t take this person anymore, Only time I’ve ever blocked a girl was at her request, I’ve had a couple girls block me on some emotional shyt though.
 

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Yeah I missed that part. That’s some entitlement shyt.

One thing I’ll say is OP probably gave the woman a lil too much leeway to start with and opened the runway to express that level of entitlement.

But with women, you give an inch and they gonna try to take a mile so you gotta set them boundaries early.

i mean chicks will always see how far they can take
Something and its your job to restore order. Even if you a weirdo that beats women she still gonna buck
 

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Handled it perfect imo. Classic case of give a bytch an inch and she take a mile.
Shorty will know to shut the fukk up and be grateful the next time somebody offers a trip they paying for. No need to cupcake and let her down gently. She's a grown ass adult. Just block her and move on.

Imagine somebody dying of thirst and you give them some walmart brand water and they start tripping on you about it should have been Fiji water. :hhh:
 

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Only part that’s irking me is that you blocked her…Just not something I’d do, my response would’ve been, “I’m leaving Monday, if you can’t do this I shouldn’t be sponsoring the trip” at that point she with it or not, blocking seems super emotional or feelings was hurt on some I can’t take this person anymore, Only time I’ve ever blocked a girl was at her request, I’ve had a couple girls block me on some emotional shyt though.

why even respond though lol. Thats seeping to her level. If you do not like the terms the best thing to do is walk away. As men we gotta do better being men. I think many dudes have been conditioned by their moms thats its normal to go back and forth with a woman.
 

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PREMATURE EJACULATOR

SHOULDA PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN N LET HER KNOW U AINT LETTIN THAT FLY

YOU CONTROL THE SITUATION AND SHE FOLLOWS ACCORDINGLY

NOW U JUS LOOK LIKE U LACK THAT STRONG MACK HAND TO MAKE SHIIT HAPPEN ON YOUR TERMS AND BLOCKING COMES OFF AS EMOTIONAL N SOMETHIN CATS DO WHEN THEY GET IN THEY FEELINGS

BAD MOVE BRODIE
 
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if it was a money issue you could have clarified that she should pay for her whatever overage she was staying. she may have been cool with that. you had already gave her the option of choosing the trip, gave her the option of picking the place, so why throw a tantrum if she wants to stay another day if she is willing to pay for it?

sounds like you were just done with it and going through the motions, that's typical :yeshrug:
 

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Nikka why you care? She ain’t your girl. You gonna run through her the whole weekend. Who cares if she wants to stay an extra day?

mad insecure. You invited her and already made yourself 2nd option by saying “if you ain’t doing anything, then pick me…” :mjlol:

cold world
 

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Handled it perfect imo. Classic case of give a bytch an inch and she take a mile.
Shorty will know to shut the fukk up and be grateful the next time somebody offers a trip they paying for. No need to cupcake and let her down gently. She's a grown ass adult. Just block her and move on.

Imagine somebody dying of thirst and you give them some walmart brand water and they start tripping on you about it should have been Fiji water. :hhh:


Exqctly breh lmfaooo. Imagine a woman being homeless and you offer food from popeyes and she says “uh uh i only like steak”
:mjlol:
If chick wanted equality she would have said “ah that sucks babe, ill cover the extra day if that would help you stay longer. The cost isnt even the issue its the principal.
 

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Only part that’s irking me is that you blocked her…Just not something I’d do, my response would’ve been, “I’m leaving Monday, if you can’t do this I shouldn’t be sponsoring the trip” at that point she with it or not, blocking seems super emotional or feelings was hurt on some I can’t take this person anymore, Only time I’ve ever blocked a girl was at her request, I’ve had a couple girls block me on some emotional shyt though.

I understand your perspective.....but honestly with so much travel I have done and with so many women out here in this vast world...low vibe energy is draining.. and women seldom change..and it's not my place to change them....throw bad vibes in the bushes and put your attention to the next one



Plus she grown....
 

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Out here in my damn drawls
You were in the wrong here
Not for saying no, but for not making it clear that you were definitively only staying until Monday


From her point of view, you look like you were playing games and frontin
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This is coming from someone who bushed a broad because she wore old lady smelling perfume :unimpressed:
 

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why even respond though lol. Thats seeping to her level. If you do not like the terms the best thing to do is walk away. As men we gotta do better being men. I think many dudes have been conditioned by their moms thats its normal to go back and forth with a woman.
So a chick you been fukking all summer, you can’t respond to them? Unless the bytch a prostitute, meaning I pay for play, why would I not respond? If we had a relationship outside of fukking, of course I’m responding cause I know how to use my words. Let’s look at it like this, if y’all were face to face, you just turning around and driving off if she says this or are you like “nah, it’s Monday or we not going”
 
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