Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Apollo Creed]

The "works for whom" would have had my blood boiling immediately

Like bytch

its actually alarming dudes dont see the issue, and not surprised society is full renegades running around unchecked.

 

[Apollo Creed]

So a chick you been fukking all summer, you can’t respond to them? Unless the bytch a prostitute, meaning I pay for play, why would I not respond? If we had a relationship outside of fukking, of course I’m responding cause I know how to use my words. Let’s look at it like this, if y’all were face to face, you just turning around and driving off if she says this or are you like “nah, it’s Monday or we not going”

you might want to sit this one out big dog

 

[Silver Surfer]

Somebody post that 50 gif of him driving off

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

my best friend did something similar. dating a girl that wasn't a real commitment. her bday comes around he says i'll take you ____. she's says ok but later on in the day i'm doing this _____. and he throws a fit and leaves her hanging, i guess cause she had additional plans or whatever.

i usually shyt on the girl cuz she was indeed nutty but i told him he was wrong. for one, IT'S THEIR DAY. they don't have to spend the whole day with you if that's not your girl. when i get with my friends on their bday, i'm there for them, if it's buying them lunch in the day then they go do something else at night. if they have another crew that has another event planned why would i be mad at that on THEIR BDAY.

then on top of that, it's not like he planned it. he just told her what he could do and she accepted it and let him know what else she was going to do

 

[Silver Surfer]

my best friend did something similar. dating a girl that wasn't a real commitment. her bday comes around he says i'll take you ____. she's says ok but later on in the day i'm doing this _____. and he throws a fit and leaves her hanging.
i usually shyt on the girl cuz she was indeed nutty but i told him he was wrong. for one, IT'S THEIR DAY. they don't have to spend the whole day with you if that's not your girl. when i get with my friends on their bday, i'm there for them, if it's buying them lunch in the day then they go do something else at night. if they have another crew that has another event planned why would i be mad at that on THEIR BDAY.

This was scheduled a week after her bday tho....

But using what you said....if she wants to make her own arrangements go for it.....just do it on your own....that way I take someone wo wants to make the same arrangements

 

[Uchiha God]

It's her birthday and I been fukking her all summer?

It’s your money so you’re free to give gifts/presents, however, sex shouldn’t be seen as transactional outside of being pleasurable to all involved parties. Believing so, breeds entitlement, and quite honestly, it’s one of the reasons dating dynamics have shifted quite considerably and men are burdened and conditioned to be one dimensional characters.

 

[Juliano Soprano]

I understand your perspective.....but honestly with so much travel I have done and with so many women out here in this vast world...low vibe energy is draining.. and women seldom change..and it's not my place to change them....throw bad vibes in the bushes and put your attention to the next one



Plus she grown....

I feel you bro, just giving my opinion since you asked for it. We all move different outchea. You bushing the trip is the right move though.

 

[-Quikness-]

the only issue breh would have had is if he did not get confirmation, went on the trip and chick tried to spring this up then. My thing is give women all the rope they need to hang themselves, just make sure you arent there when they are begging for help. Let them make their own bed

Very true, bro. Everything depends on what type of female you’re dealing with tho.

One that’s worth spending that cash on, and taking on trips has to be wifey material for me these days otherwise the mindset has to be find em fukk em and flee

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

It's her birthday and I been fukking her all summer?

You ungrateful son of a bytch

You know how hard it is to fukk a bytch nowadays?!

I spent 10 fukking years in a drought.

 

[Silver Surfer]

It’s your money so you’re free to give gifts/presents, however, sex shouldn’t be seen as transactional outside of being pleasurable to all involved parties. Believing so, breeds entitlement, and quite honestly, it’s one of the reasons dating dynamics have shifted quite considerably and men are burdened and conditioned to be one dimensional characters.

Ultimately what's the outcome you want? Good energy and high vibes

Marriage?....thats a whole other beast

 

[Silver Surfer]

You ungrateful son of a bytch

You know how hard it is to fukk a bytch nowadays?!

I spent 10 fukking years in a drought.

 

[kwazzy100]

Did you at least suggest she should pay for the extra days?

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Won't make this long....

Got a chic , been kicking it with some months. Her birthday was coming up and I mentioned if her birthday plans didn't work out with her friends, she could come on a trip with me.

Like clockwork she hit me up some weeks later to see if the trip was possible..said "yep...where you trying to go?".....she mentioned Mexico....cool

We texting, making arrangements on dates etc.....

She mention the weekend she was open....

I said..."ok these days work"

She says "work for whom"

I said " works for me, because I can take that Friday and Monday off"

She replies " Ok...im staying til Tuesday"

I block her....

Appropriate

 

[Jeshaman]

Is this how men are choosing to live these days? Taking chicks on holiday who aren't wifey?

Honestly if you have the money and want to fuk the gir

I wouldn't do it though. I don't take sand to the beach. I know for sure after fukking i would turn degenerate and try some of the locals.

 

[GOAT]

I don't think you are looking at it from my perspective properly.

This is her bday weekend and I'm buying plane tickets and the room......fine

She planted a seed that she is staying til Tuesday....which by proxy assumes I might pay for that as well.....which I'm not.

Let's say for argument sake we agreed via text that I wasnt....lol

There will now be an akward cloud that we have seperate return flights that she has to pay for as well as a room that she has to pay for as well with a dude with a pocket of cash

This to me is all fine if she was inviting me on a trip..but if she is trying to dictate terms of a trip she is not controlling....recipe for disaster

You seem to have your mind solidly made up. What is the point of this thread?

Edit: For the record, I think you handled it right