Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Roid Jones]

If she isn't a lifelong friend, family, girlfriend or wife why are you proposing trips

 

[Silver Surfer]

You made it clear that you two are just sleeping together hence why she feels comfortable enough to say she's staying an extra day. Even if you're paying for everything, she doesn't owe you anything as fukked up as it sounds. Your girlfriend would work with you. A girl you have sex with from time to time doesn't. Was she going to pay for the day herself? You may have ruined something good by jumping the gun.

Nothing gained....nothing lost

 

[Silver Surfer]

If she isn't a lifelong friend, family, girlfriend or wife why are you proposing trips

My standard for a trip is look good...smashing and enjoy the ride and stfu

I don't have girlfriends bruh

 

[Baka's Weird Case]

You ungrateful son of a bytch

You know how hard it is to fukk a bytch nowadays?!

I spent 10 fukking years in a drought.

phil leotardo?

 

[Roid Jones]

My standard for a trip is look good...smashing and enjoy the ride and stfu

I don't have girlfriends bruh

I just feel trips should be reserved for certain women but you did the right thing bushing this chick

 

[BlackBall]

Pump and dump

 

[Silver Surfer]

I just feel trips should be reserved for certain women but you did the right thing bushing this chick

Oh I get it...and keep in mind these are vacations for myself as well

 

[Geek Nasty]

Nikka why you care? She ain’t your girl. You gonna run through her the whole weekend. Who cares if she wants to stay an extra day?

mad insecure. You invited her and already made yourself 2nd option by saying “if you ain’t doing anything, then pick me…”

Who the fukk is cosigning this bullshyt

Dude is paying for a trip and she wants to hang around later? What kind of bullshyt is that even if she IS paying for the extra day? If I'm paying you ARE my girl for that trip

 

[Afro]

its not even worth doing what if scenarios lol. The purpose of tricking is getting an ROI on your terms. If someone wants to do things outside of your terms they at least ask if its ok, but the fact she tried to tell dude what time it was shows she was feeling herself and thought she had simp. A simp would have made adjustments, but when you tricking the thought is “man i got more important stuff to do lol, bye”

Taking notes

It’s your money so you’re free to give gifts/presents, however, sex shouldn’t be seen as transactional outside of being pleasurable to all involved parties. Believing so, breeds entitlement, and quite honestly, it’s one of the reasons dating dynamics have shifted quite considerably and men are burdened and conditioned to be one dimensional characters.

See, folks date differently and that needs to be understood.

But that is a good thing because they you vet people early.

Being polarizing at the beginning keeps you out of terrible relationships.

Some dudes just like tricking.

But if your goals don't align (like this situation) it is what it is

I wanna have a good time, just so happens I want to have a good time with a lady.

I'm definitely not one dimensional and I'm out here looking for a stable relationship.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Taking notes



See, folks date differently and that needs to be understood.

But that is a good thing because they you vet people early.

Being polarizing at the beginning keeps you out of terrible relationships.

Some dudes just like tricking.

But if your goals don't align (like this situation) it is what it is

I wanna have a good time, just so happens I want to have a good time with a lady.

I'm definitely not one dimensional and I'm out here looking for a stable relationship.

for context, 'dating' is some made up stuff people use to code "lets have sex but I dont want to feel like a hooker'. The reality is you have some men who simply aren't emotionally available to put in what is needed for a relationship, hence the concept of tricking. The focus on lets have a vibe on me, and when we finish we go our separate ways, or when ever I want a vibe we link up. The factor is as a man you only put up with what you allow, and if someone crosses your boundaries you dead it, because you aren't even in a relationship thus there is nothing to fight for. You presenting your terms is out of respect, and the woman agreeing to your terms is her consent, and also that there should not be any confusion about what is going on. When dudes use that 'dating' word but aren't even working to marriage that always creates messy situations because nobody is clear on the end goal, thus the risk of someone feeling the terms of the situation are not equal which leads to drama

 

[SAINT]

Yeah you did right breh

 

[Apollo Creed]

You made it clear that you two are just sleeping together hence why she feels comfortable enough to say she's staying an extra day. Even if you're paying for everything, she doesn't owe you anything as fukked up as it sounds. Your girlfriend would work with you. A girl you have sex with from time to time doesn't. Was she going to pay for the day herself? You may have ruined something good by jumping the gun.

she cant stay and extra day thats the point lmfao. She didnt say 'thats cool I'll stay an extra day', she made demands that his terms were not sufficient, hence him walking away. They dont owe each other anything hence deading the convo.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

“I’m staying till Tuesday”

 

[Afro]

for context, 'dating' is some made up stuff people use to code "lets have sex but I dont want to feel like a hooker'. The reality is you have some men who simply aren't emotionally available to put in what is needed for a relationship, hence the concept of tricking. The focus on lets have a vibe on me, and when we finish we go our separate ways, or when ever I want a vibe we link up. The factor is as a man you only put up with what you allow, and if someone crosses your boundaries you dead it, because you aren't even in a relationship thus there is nothing to fight for. You presenting your terms is out of respect, and the woman agreeing to your terms is her consent, and also that there should not be any confusion about what is going on. When dudes use that 'dating' word but aren't even working to marriage that always creates messy situations because nobody is clear on the end goal, thus the risk of someone feeling the terms of the situation are not equal which leads to drama

Interesting take on "dating"

I always saw it as looking for a long-term relationship that may or may not turn into a marriage.

Think I saw a KS video on it where he says forget about dating, you should be looking for a spouse if that is what you want.

I'm like thats a different take.

So then it will always come down to how straightforward and honest folks are about what they are looking for.

Because if one side is unclear, they should get clarity well before the situation goes nuclear.

If both sides don't (or won't) communicate their intentions from the jump, I can see drama happening.

But usually folks go in halfway anyway right?

Like, ok this person is cool and all, but they will be my plan A, B, or C unless they wow me somehow.

This could be its own discussion about " what is your intention/endgame?" "Are you communicating what your goal is properly?"

Good stuff

 

[Rozay Oro]

You ungrateful son of a bytch

You know how hard it is to fukk a bytch nowadays?!

I spent 10 fukking years in a drought.

We need to see u. No way anyone can do 10 years. You picky af?