Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Apollo Creed]

Interesting take on "dating"

I always saw it as looking for a long-term relationship that may or may not turn into a marriage.

Think I saw a KS video on it where he says forget about dating, you should be looking for a spouse if that is what you want.

I'm like thats a different take.

So then it will always come down to how straightforward and honest folks are about what they are looking for.

Because if one side is unclear, they should get clarity well before the situation goes nuclear.

If both sides don't (or won't) communicate their intentions from the jump, I can see drama happening.

But usually folks go in halfway anyway right?

Like, ok this person is cool and all, but they will be my plan A, B, or C unless they wow me somehow.

This could be its own discussion about " what is your intention/endgame?" "Are you communicating what your goal is properly?"

Good stuff

dating is rooted in Escort culture. In the past you didnt date, you courted. You went to that girls family and said you wanted to prove to their daughter you are suitable.

What we have now is Escort culture being used for relationships and people are surprised things are such a mess. We conflate casual recreational sex acts with relationships that are working towards nothing. If you aren't looking for a spouse why fake the funk, just Trick or make someone your FWB and call it a day.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

We need to see u. No way anyone can do 10 years. You picky af?

Nope. Not picky at all.

It's straight up just rejection after rejection.

That can easily happen if you're ugly like me.

 

[Cat piss martini]

No flag on the play.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Nope. Not picky at all.

It's straight up just rejection after rejection.

That can easily happen if you're ugly like me.

What makes u so ugly? I feel ugly and think I’m ugly. Been to the club several times. No bytch choosing on me. Tinder I get decent, cute and ugly.

 

[[Something Cool]]

But she’s been getting dikked down. We gotta stop thinking they’re doing us a favor by fukking them. It’s your money, for sure, but what’s the difference between just a girl friend and a girlfriend then in that case? I don’t open my wallet like that for any girl just like that. Look at the entitled behavior it breeds.

Dap + Rep, You can't have them acting like fukkin you is a favor man. You'll get walked all over. No thanks. Patrice O’Neal had a great bit on this

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

What makes u so ugly? I feel ugly and think I’m ugly. Been to the club several times. No bytch choosing on me. Tinder I get decent, cute and ugly.

Feeling ugly and actually being ugly are two different things.

And ACTUAL ugly person wouldn't get anything on Tinder.

Stop false claiming uglygang.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Won't make this long....

Got a chic , been kicking it with some months. Her birthday was coming up and I mentioned if her birthday plans didn't work out with her friends, she could come on a trip with me.

Like clockwork she hit me up some weeks later to see if the trip was possible..said "yep...where you trying to go?".....she mentioned Mexico....cool

We texting, making arrangements on dates etc.....

She mention the weekend she was open....

I said..."ok these days work"

She says "work for whom"

I said " works for me, because I can take that Friday and Monday off"

She replies " Ok...im staying til Tuesday"

I block her....

these are special circumstance corona times we’re living in. Taking chicks on trips and all that? nah. Not unless that’s your main. Hit and run, rinse and repeat. When shyt is back to “normal” you gon wish you had a chaotic time like Rona time to alleviate you from the rigors or dating.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Feeling ugly and actually being ugly are two different things.

And ACTUAL ugly person wouldn't get anything on Tinder.

Stop false claiming uglygang.

When I first hit tinder I was dry. My pics were lame af. shytty close up selfies .

My pics are better now but I’m still ugly breh. Ugly, scrawny and short.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Homie played his cards right

Women are way too masculine nowadays, should have been glad with a free trip.. y'all not even in a committed relationship.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

When I first hit tinder I was dry. My pics were lame af. shytty close up selfies .

My pics are better now but I’m still ugly breh. Ugly, scrawny and short.

See, that's the thing. I don't take those kind of pics.

I actually have good well shot pics. I've even had women approve the pics.

 

[Commish]

OP..

I think you did right for yaself! You offered her a good time out of good faith and she gave you your moment of truth, so you responded in kind and gave her her moment of truth....

BLOCKED!!

I ya off the strength of knowing your purpose and staying on course!!!

Salute to ya!!

 

[Uchiha God]

See, folks date differently and that needs to be understood.

But that is a good thing because they you vet people early.

Being polarizing at the beginning keeps you out of terrible relationships.

Some dudes just like tricking.

But if your goals don't align (like this situation) it is what it is

I wanna have a good time, just so happens I want to have a good time with a lady.

I'm definitely not one dimensional and I'm out here looking for a stable relationship.

Im speaking in general terms. It’s not law, true or fact for everyone. What’s understood doesn’t have to be explained.

 

[Silver Surfer]

OP..

I think you did right for yaself! You offered her a good time out of good faith and she gave you your moment of truth, so you responded in kind and gave her her moment of truth....

BLOCKED!!

I ya off the strength of knowing your purpose and staying on course!!!

Salute to ya!!

There have been times in my life where I veered off course and regretted it

 

[Afro]

dating is rooted in Escort culture. In the past you didnt date, you courted. You went to that girls family and said you wanted to prove to their daughter you are suitable.

What we have now is Escort culture being used for relationships and people are surprised things are such a mess. We conflate casual recreational sex acts with relationships that are working towards nothing. If you aren't looking for a spouse why fake the funk, just Trick or make someone your FWB and call it a day.

People don't know what they want.

Some folks treat marriage like they just BF/GF so it isn't that simple if you marry the wrong person with the wrong "intentions".

I still agree with you though.

Dap + Rep, You can't have them acting like fukkin you is a favor man. You'll get walked all over. No thanks. Patrice O’Neal had a great bit on this

Gone too soon man.

Im speaking in general terms. It’s not law, true or fact for everyone. What’s understood doesn’t have to be explained.

I hear you, but I'm seeing that people DON'T understand this.

One of many reasons why communication ends up more like a cat and mouse game instead of both people being emotional mature and vulnerable.

 

[-Quikness-]

Nope. Not picky at all.

It's straight up just rejection after rejection.

That can easily happen if you're ugly like me.

dont put yourself down, man. thats the mentality that'll have you single forever. anyone can get a girlfriend. read that again .. anyone! quit with that fukking mentality and run game on these women