Need some basic advice. How do you ask a woman about her body count, without looking bad?

[I’ve Made Millions]

I tell a broad thru the door.
I got about 60 bodies.

This normally makes their total seem pale in comparison, thus making them comfortable enough to tell you theirs.

Edit: Not telling you to lie or fabricate you body count tho

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I would ask her about her sexual past after I open up about mine. But asking specifically about body count, imho, is a waste of time.

 

[MaxPain]

Lol @ the idiots saying "dont bother asking her, u dont wanna know the answer/why does it matter?" But turn around & blame Rob Kardashian for wifing up Blac Chyna and gettin finessed. Past does matter.


It especially matters if u want a real relationship. Body count is just one of the things to look for but theres way more things to take into account. If u dont give a fukk about the bytch, then it shouldnt hold weight. Less i care about a bytch less I care about her past. I have dated short term whores or damaged women then dropped them. I only got real with women who I screened.


What u gotta do is OP is come off as non judgemental, get a drink or two in her system and be on some "Idk why people care about woman body count anyways" type shyt. Maybe even bring up that u had a promiscuous gf in the past on some "my ex had 30 bodies and she was the best girlfriend I ever had, I love experienced women!"


This has worked for 95% of the time for me. Other 5% the bytch was so delusional she actually beleived she wasnt a whore and had other obviously bad traits that didnt relate to her sexuality which made her unwifable. She was a pathological liar

Hoes love talking so itll always come out sooner or later. Thats why I laugh @ ppl who say "ull never know anyways" like we should just accept being lied to trust me any dude whose dated a whore saw the signs but ignored em.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Dont ask. Seriously. It's not your business just be glad you are getting some p*ssy and that is that.

I don't care about females body count nor did i ever ask but if she had to have a body count it needs to be high because i have deviant sexual behavior she has to encourage.

Seriously.

Don't feel comfortable not knowing.

Eh, you don't really wanna know, breh.

As I've grown older I'm looking for a "real long term partner" I want to know so I can decide if I should make a serious attempt.

"How many gurbs you got?"

Two

Not to get off topic but the would it be ok with you if she just 3 bodies But the three she got was in a train she did on the regular or in some kind of relationship where she liked to get DP'd by the same dudes.

See The number ain't the issue it's the context

Do you think a woman who had a train ran on her will only stop at three sexual partners?

OP why does it matter anyway?

It's about having respect for yourself. I tend to look at any woman I date as a potential mother and wife. As a future parent do you really want a woman whose had multiple sexual relationships be considered a role model for your child?

Also it comes from the mentality, if you don't respect yourself why should I?

How do you know all females lie about how many people they've been with? how can you even start from a point of view like that and expect a happy ending? if they lie, why would it even matter?

Everybody lies about it, if it would make them look bad. Men to

Don't do it op either you like her or you dont. If bodycount is an issue for you it could be more about your ego than her character. I been with wifey 13 years and I've never asked.

Throw away that list too you'll never find a girl that tick all them boxes she dont exist.

I never ask anything I dont have. And I'm not a unicorn by any measure. Just want potential wifey to have similar attributes.

Don't ask, not because you wont get a real answer but because all women think it's creepy the way men fetishize virginal or low bodied women. Especially if you're not religious or you have a high body count yourself. Another thing is the first thing that pops into my mind when guys get the look after you reveal your asexual past is that he wants to know not because he is interested in my experiences as a person, he just wants to stroke his own ego. You're making everything about you, even my personal experiences, loves and tribulations before even meeting you. It's a turn off.

It's not a fetish, I just want to understand what I'm dealing with.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

As I've grown older I'm looking for a "real long term partner" I want to know so I can decide if I should make a serious attempt.

I hear you I'm looking for the same.

At the same time, I've got a bodycount that would make most women uncomfortable, but I'd feel some type of way if they held that over my head in a relationship since it had nothing to do with them.

I mean I've been fukking for 20 years. Of course I have more than 3 bodies... I wouldn't expect differently from a woman.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

It would seem that you are moving a little dramatically here, you met someone you like, and you have been texting with her, and you are considering the qualities you want in a wife, and want to ask her how many men she's slept with? Have you been out with her yet? A date, a kiss, a few hours together? I would start with that.

edit: I had to come back to this, you have to ask her out, before you ask her how many people she's slept with!

Get a sense of WHO she is, and you will get a sense of the answer, and then, at some point, after you have had sex, though I don't really mean directly after, but when intimacy is now longer a mystery between you two, ask her. Maybe volunteer your answer, which may be lower. If it is something you have to know, which I think is misguided, at least get some ground in the friendship/relationship first. Don't lead with some shyt like that.

LOL at 1-4 though, that's like born again/extra religious, 18 years old type of number. I wouldn't be thrown by 20. We are talking 25-35 year old women, right?

As I've stated earlier, I'm looking long term in any woman I date. That's why I want to get as much information as possible, so I don't get caught up emotionally.

She's 28 BTW.

 

[im_sleep]

Don't worry about it, she ain't gonna tell you the real number no way

 

[re'up]

@SJUGrad13, ok, I mean it sounds like a plot line in a "Think Like a Man" sequel, but I know you are sincere. Wanting to know how many people someone has slept with before seeing if you have the chemistry to spend a night together is just inane, and honestly insulting to the woman, and unless she's as zealous about all this as you, she'll be insulted if you ask someone how many people they have slept with, before you have even kissed.

 

[BlackDynamite310]

As I've stated earlier, I'm looking long term in any woman I date. That's why I want to get as much information as possible, so I don't get caught up emotionally.

She's 28 BTW.

How old are you? At 28 almost 30 and if they been getting down since 16-18 and that's at least 10 years being sexually active. Even at one a year that's 10 partners which I have to say in this day in age and that that age she in is pretty respectable. Unless you a square ya self you know 10 partners with ain't shyt to get. You got to be realistic. At 28-30 I would look at you stupid for asking by body count. nikkas grown as hell man. I hope she tell you she a virgin waiting to get married for coming at her with that childish shyt.

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Extra pause no homo X infinite

The type of dikk is more important than the amount

If shes 28 (my age) has been in 3-4 serious relationships plus her throwing the p*ssy at brehs running the game +10 I'm like

That's 1.2 dikk every ten year average

 

[Jean Jacket]

Simple. Ask how many serious relationships she's been in. Multiply by 2. 4 years of college, add 2 a year.

Average 25 year old college grad done had about 15 bodies. Just get tested and enjoy a woman with experience.

 

[cocoabutter27]

As a woman, I will tell you that there a more signs that a woman is a lying, trifling ho than just body count. It really boils down to character, not just how many people she's slept with. You don't want a woman with a body count of 2 and 20 years into the marriage find out its jumped to 30. Like a poster said earlier she might just have a high sex drive. A damaged, broken person (male or female) is going to reveal that by their actions. You have to get to know the person for who they are with you right now. And for the people worrying about STDS, women with low body counts can have them too. If you think otherwise you are in for a rude awakening.

 

[Taadow]

but I created a list of eleven non-negotiables that I want in a wife and one of them is a low-body count (between 1-4).

rofl

Mayne...you'sa ol' Steve Harvey talk show audience member-ass nicca.


...ANyways...

you met her at the stationary store? What she need all that paper and envelopes and chit for?
She writing kites to niccas in jail.

Here's what you do - ask her if she wanna go to dinner.
Tell her to meet you at a place that's not far from one of your towns' No-tell Motels.
Ask her if she knows where that is as a landmark.
If she knows say "Oh - you know where the Hoe-tel is, eh?" and you got all the info you need right thurr.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Dont ask. Seriously. It's not your business just be glad you are getting some p*ssy and that is that.

I don't care about females body count nor did i ever ask but if she had to have a body count it needs to be high because i have deviant sexual behavior she has to encourage.

Seriously.

It's not his business? Where do y'all simps get this bullshyt mentality from?

Who's tryna wife a promiscuous women out here?!

These important questions need to be asked.

 

[Dat Migo]

Watch this movie with her and see what her reaction is. If it something like "Why do people care so much?" Run! I know from experience...