Need some basic advice. How do you ask a woman about her body count, without looking bad?

[bucks3115]

Play truth or dare

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Just ask. My husband asked me and I told him. He didn't believd me so I got annoyed. He then apologized and revealed his feelings for me.

 

[StickStickly]

Thank you. That's all I'm trying to say. If you give it up so easily, what does that say on how much you value yourself?

If you really want to know breh, don't ask "how many men have you slept with". it's all about your words and how you phrase it.

Talk about concepts.

Ask about her past relationships.

Ask her about the best sex she's had and the worst.

Ask her how she feels about monogamy

Ask her if she's ever been in love

Ask her how many serious partners she's had

Ask her how she feels about sex, i.e. sex on the first date, sex to fulfill physical needs, fukking vs making love

Ask who who taught her about love? who taught to her about sex? (ask about both)

Just don't flat out ask how many partners she's had. Even if she's never had sex before, she's going to think you're after something, that you're socially awkward, or that you think she has the ability to be a whore. It's insulting to any woman, virgin or not, experienced or not. It's like a woman asking you how much money is in your bank account before starting anythingg with you. Any woman who does that seems shady and off. It's a turn off, especially from someone you don't know very well.

 

[Mindfield333]

Just ask. My husband asked me and I told him. He didn't believd me so I got annoyed. He then apologized and revealed his feelings for me.

how old were you?