Need some Coli Playa advice.

[Danny Up]

Okay now we have gone completely off the rails. The point of the matter is that the friendzone exits, it's not a good thing (for a guy atleast), it isn't comparable to an actual friendship, and a guy can avoid it by being confident and himself and not being weak. That is all.

If it's not being an actual friend it's not the friendzone, doofus. If the chick ain't got no use for you why you still dealing with her? That dude is a dumbass sucker, not a friend, a sucker.

 

[karim]

It shouldn't scare you. The friendzone = undecided/potentially something if circumstances change

If you become an actual friend with no chance in hell, you'll know the difference

 

[karim]

It's not a game. Women are not like men, we don't have a "little brain". You think a guy is decent, you become friends of sorts then you decide whether he's a friend or more than a friend. This stage is the friendzone, it could go either way


Why you mad? This is good news no?

No there are three types of scenarios:

1. She's very attracted to you and there is no such thing as taking a decision, she wants you
2. You are an option and she keeps you around trying to see if something better comes along.
3. There is no chance in hell she will sleep with you, again, no such thing as a decision needed.

All of this is determined the minute she meets you. You can fukk up no. 1 though and find yourself in categorie two if you mess up. Now what you described is scenario no. 2 and no, it's not a good thing. You should throw women who consider you an option to the bushes and focus on those who make you a priority.

 

[FTBS]

If it's not being an actual friend it's not the friendzone, doofus. If the chick ain't got no use for you why you still dealing with her? That dude is a dumbass sucker, not a friend, a sucker.

Oh so you dont know what u are talking about? Cool. my whole point has been that you aren't actually friends. Its just a name breh.

 

[Strapped]

If she likes you, she likes you. The friendzone is just that she ain't attracted to how you look.

true dat

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No there are three types of scenarios:

1. She's very attracted to you and there is no such thing as taking a decision, she wants you
2. You are an option and she keeps you around trying to see if something better comes along.
3. There is no chance in hell she will sleep with you, again, no such thing as a decision needed.

All of this is determined the minute she meets you. You can fukk up no. 1 though and find yourself in categorie two if you mess up. Now what you described is scenario no. 2 and no, it's not a good thing. You should throw women who consider you an option to the bushes and focus on those who make you a priority.

Yeah because you decide you want to wifie the girl you just met in 5,4,3,2...

 

[Taadow]

Look, you tell her to call you on a SPECIFIC time and date.
If she don't, move on. Keep the number. But move on.
But if she does call you around the time you told her to, that's when you'll know you're dealing with a woman who follows directions.
It's that damn simple.

THIS RHETT CHEA.
The phone is a tool, niccas...use it to get results.
When you on the phone with broads, you s'posedta be settin' up meets.

 

[FTBS]

Really?

I've learnt something new today. Then why do men always go on about it like it's either a relationship or getting friendzoned? Like women will only use you so you either get something back for it or you don't

Because dudes who try to hard, have no self-esteem/respect/confidence often end up in the friendzone while trying to be in a relationship. It's basically the equivalent of applying for a job but ending up as an un-paid intern doing pretty much the same shyt. In all honesty most women will use you like fieldhand if you allow them to. It's all about respect. If a woman doesn't respect a man but does enjoy his company and his money and all that he is willing to do for her into the friendzone he goes. Men do the same. If they don't respect a chick but like how she looks and/or fukk and sucks they will use her.

This book breaks it all the way down.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/corey-d.-wilsons-girls-best/id536781473?mt=11