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i feel like society believes that if a man has a wife then he is tolerable. if he cant find a girl willing to have kids by him something must be wrong with him from a character and responsibility standpoint.

funny enough, i believe the average married man is unhappy, a cheater or both. Folks may judge a childless bachelor but deep down they know that they envy him. Because more times than not if a man is unmarried past lets say age 35 it isnt because he CAN'T find someone. Nah. It's likely because he's a non-conformist and lives life by his own rules and desires. That's my take

I remember one time I was in my manager's office at work and a director was chit chatting about family or some shyt asking my manager when he was gonna get married/have kids. My manager was like 36 at the time probably but anyways I think he said never. The director said something about that being selfish before leaving. :merchant: Ironically enough, i find that people often get married and have kids for selfish reasons; pooling resources, keeping a legacy going, to grow up and take care of them, to look good in other people's eyes etc. Kids dont ask to be born into this shyt world. Aint nothing more selfish than having kids
 

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Im always :mjlol: complaining about posts and threads, no bigger sign you are a social loser who plans to post daily until the board shuts down or net neautrality takes hold.

wierd bunch :russ:
 

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for real, no one likes the creepy loner in the corner always on the solo.

past 30 and single, people look at you as a weirdo and trick.
:stopitslime:. Getting money to retiire by 45 and a wife a kid after>>>>>>>>>>being broke paying child support working for 60+ years. You've only been conditioned to think having a wife and kids by certain age is success. Why? Society needs your money, debt and spawns to keep it afloat. Meanwhile I'm :eat:
 

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i feel like society believes that if a man has a wife then he is tolerable. if he cant find a girl willing to have kids by him something must be wrong with him from a character and responsibility standpoint.

funny enough, i believe the average married man is unhappy, a cheater or both. Folks may judge a childless bachelor but deep down they know that they envy him. Because more times than not if a man is unmarried past lets say age 35 it isnt because he CAN'T find someone. Nah. It's likely because he's a non-conformist and lives life by his own rules and desires. That's my take

I remember one time I was in my manager's office at work and a director was chit chatting about family or some shyt asking my manager when he was gonna get married/have kids. My manager was like 36 at the time probably but anyways I think he said never. The director said something about that being selfish before leaving. :merchant: Ironically enough, i find that people often get married and have kids for selfish reasons; pooling resources, keeping a legacy going, to grow up and take care of them, to look good in other people's eyes etc. Kids dont ask to be born into this shyt world. Aint nothing more selfish than having kids

this is very true but at least they have a woman, and not tricking.
 

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i feel like society believes that if a man has a wife then he is tolerable. if he cant find a girl willing to have kids by him something must be wrong with him from a character and responsibility standpoint.

funny enough, i believe the average married man is unhappy, a cheater or both. Folks may judge a childless bachelor but deep down they know that they envy him. Because more times than not if a man is unmarried past lets say age 35 it isnt because he CAN'T find someone. Nah. It's likely because he's a non-conformist and lives life by his own rules and desires. That's my take

I remember one time I was in my manager's office at work and a director was chit chatting about family or some shyt asking my manager when he was gonna get married/have kids. My manager was like 36 at the time probably but anyways I think he said never. The director said something about that being selfish before leaving. :merchant: Ironically enough, i find that people often get married and have kids for selfish reasons; pooling resources, keeping a legacy going, to grow up and take care of them, to look good in other people's eyes etc. Kids dont ask to be born into this shyt world. Aint nothing more selfish than having kids

reminds me about jagmeet singh finally getting married at 39 for that "family image" for the upcoming elections :mjlol:
 

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That’s the rule, there may be exceptions but if you ain’t got a wife and kids by a certain age folk start to look at you funny

Remember shootin shyt with one dude that bummed a cig off me a few years ago and he was shocked when I said I didn’t have any...

He was like bruh this is atlanta, the female to male ratio is bananas and you high yella lolol

Dude was like you need to get you some kids

It was the most ignorant yet necessary advice I’ve ever gotten

Got 3 of em now



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Having kids/being in relationships purely for the sake of having kids/being in a relationship is pretty irrational and largely responsible for the degeneracy/broken homes we see in urban communities amongst the youth


and murder/suicides/domestic violence amongst emotionally unstable couples


Hamsters can produce babies at 3 months of age and produce potentially hundreds of offspring before they are 1 year old.


It's not really anything special
 

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:stopitslime:. Getting money to retiire by 45 and a wife a kid after>>>>>>>>>>being broke paying child support working for 60+ years. You've only been conditioned to think having a wife and kids by certain age is success. Why? Society needs your money, debt and spawns to keep it afloat. Meanwhile I'm :eat:

you are right about society needs your debt but being single is still being indebted to society you gonna answer to the man one way or another.

but being one of those dudes cheesing on his solo at a family get together is not me, that shyt is sad for a man to see. the board is like this dude.

 

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you are right about society needs your debt but being single is still being indebted to society you gonna answer to the man one way or another.

but being one of those dudes cheesing on his solo at a family get together is not me, that shyt is sad for a man to see. the board is like this dude.

Then don't go to family get to gethers ? If people want to change you to suit themselves
while hiding behind some noble notion of looking out for your best interests then why bother
with them ?
 
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