Maybe nikkas just see this for what it is...
Just because you're not miserable doesn't mean you have to be clueless as fukk.
new trend popping..sisters proposing now
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Just because you're not miserable doesn't mean you have to be clueless as fukk.
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
You a shone
I had to google that.Sweetie, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I've never been a jump off and I've had 4 total boyfriends .
To you and whoever dapped you.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Sweetie, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I've never been a jump off and I've had 4 total boyfriends .
Has he proposed yet?
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
No and if we reach a point where he no longer sees this heading toward marriage, we'll break up. That easy.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Damn shame...
Men are the providers and protectors, looking at this pic, watching this man let his woman (whom I suppose he loves) do this is just embarrassing. This would say to me (on first glance, since I don't know how THEIR relationship is) that homie doesn't/won't care about the marriage.
Anything you CARE about you gonna make sure you keep it up and value it. House, car, gadgets, you clean em, fix em when they're broke, buy protective covers and cases, etc because you VALUE those things. This says to me, dude may like the female, but doesn't care enough to propose to her. She saved HER money to buy HIM a ring? What, he gonna pick out a dress to wear? Just weird to me...
And reasonable time isn't the same for everybody. Some marriages work and the couple barely know each other (before marriage) some marriages fail and they knew each other for years. It's really all about the people involved, how committed they are toward each other and how strong is the love? The time frame is really unimportant as opposed to how they feel toward each other. You don't love that other person unconditionally? Than it wouldn't matter if yall knew each other for 10 years, it won't work.
Focus less on "how much time before I'm supposed to propose" and figure out "can I live WITHOUT this person in my life?" THAT'S when you know you ready for marriage...for some it's fast, for others, it takes a while (growing up/maturing, experiences, etc)
sorry for the rant, but yall know how I go...
Men are the providers and protectors, looking at this pic, watching this man let his woman (whom I suppose he loves) do this is just embarrassing. This would say to me (on first glance, since I don't know how THEIR relationship is) that homie doesn't/won't care about the marriage.
Anything you CARE about you gonna make sure you keep it up and value it. House, car, gadgets, you clean em, fix em when they're broke, buy protective covers and cases, etc because you VALUE those things. This says to me, dude may like the female, but doesn't care enough to propose to her. She saved HER money to buy HIM a ring? What, he gonna pick out a dress to wear? Just weird to me...
And reasonable time isn't the same for everybody. Some marriages work and the couple barely know each other (before marriage) some marriages fail and they knew each other for years. It's really all about the people involved, how committed they are toward each other and how strong is the love? The time frame is really unimportant as opposed to how they feel toward each other. You don't love that other person unconditionally? Than it wouldn't matter if yall knew each other for 10 years, it won't work.
Focus less on "how much time before I'm supposed to propose" and figure out "can I live WITHOUT this person in my life?" THAT'S when you know you ready for marriage...for some it's fast, for others, it takes a while (growing up/maturing, experiences, etc)
sorry for the rant, but yall know how I go...
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
Lol what did I do?
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
I'm saying if he's a good dude, work with the brotha. The grass always looks greener etc. etc.
Some of us have issues
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
I'm saying if he's a good dude, work with the brotha. The grass always looks greener etc. etc.
Some of us have issues
Lol...you are silly. For me it's all about intentions. If the intentions are on the up and up, then I'm willing to work it out.
okocharuud
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Mindfield333
Superstar
that doesnt even seem natural... Its like if youre not progressing towards whats defined as a societal norm(marriage) then its a waste of time? Nevermind the connection two people have with eachother. And with half of all marriages end in divorce it doesnt seem very smart.
with that said, i would like to have that natural connection with someone where im not being pushed toward marriage... but forever is a long time and people constantly evolve.
Mindfield333
Superstar
actually seeing it in action doesnt feel right... theres really no masculine way to show off a ring
labrokejames
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I would be beyond creeped if a female dropped on one knee and pulled out a ring. SPECIALLY in front of a bunch of people. That should would make me feel so emasculated.
bytch if I want to marry you I'll let you know. Don't ax me
bytch if I want to marry you I'll let you know. Don't ax me
KenyaDoll
Demonic eyebrows & animal print
Based on what I want in life, yes, it is a waste of time. I want to fully and completely build a life with someone. I don't want someone who is only half way in (will to enter into ever other type of contract with me besides marriage).
Not everyone cares about or wants to be married. Some people do. I do and I'm not going to compromise what I want.
There are lots of societal norms (like going to college) that some people agree with and some don't.
Live the life that YOU want to live.