new trend popping..sisters proposing now

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Based on what I want in life, yes, it is a waste of time. I want to fully and completely build a life with someone. I don't want someone who is only half way in (will to enter into ever other type of contract with me besides marriage).

Not everyone cares about or wants to be married. Some people do. I do and I'm not going to compromise what I want.

There are lots of societal norms (like going to college) that some people agree with and some don't.

Live the life that YOU want to live.
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I bet you she's going to wear the pants in this relationship. This will ultimately make her habitually angry because the dude is weak and indecisive.
 

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Based on what I want in life, yes, it is a waste of time. I want to fully and completely build a life with someone. I don't want someone who is only half way in (will to enter into ever other type of contract with me besides marriage).

Not everyone cares about or wants to be married. Some people do. I do and I'm not going to compromise what I want.

There are lots of societal norms (like going to college) that some people agree with and some don't.

Live the life that YOU want to live.
The worst that can happen to you in marriage is maybe he cheats on you


Worst that can happen to Us is lose our economic livelyhood and get raped for 18 something years
 

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I guess if he won't marry you after 7 years of dating...you just gotta take matter into your own hands

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:mjlol: Nice try, breh. You're the one that read my post wrong. I said if he doesn't ask after 1-2 years then there's a 99% chance he isn't going to. I never said get married after a year of dating. Even if the guy isn't ready by then, no one said he has to be. I said in that post that I'll just leave. I'm not going to force someone to do something they don't want to do.



I usually only date guys I've known for a while. I knew my first bf for 4 years, my 2nd bf for 15 years, and my current bf for 4 years. Sooo, yeah. :smile:
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Brehs, this is what we are up against.
Even if your girl is level headed, more than likely she has a girlfriend feeding her this bullshyt.

Women always trying to tell the next chick what she should be doing.
Ive been w/ my girl 7yrs...we arent married, but I do plan on it.
Im 99% sure women in her life are telling her im on some bullshyt because we arent married yet.

Putting time frames on shyt is dumb, and is part of the reason why half of the marriages fail. People jump into it just based on love...when marriage is a business decision.
 

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Haha, she probably didn't want to get married when the kids were heading off to College. Some nikkas think they slick lol. They probably been together for a real stretch already
 

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I mean, they're the ones who wanna get married. I got no problem with going for it.
 

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I'd be made as hell. Maybe even mad enough to end it.
 

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The only way I can justify this is she has like 3 kids with 3 baby daddies or something.

Otherwise, if she has no kids, this woulda made my dikk soft, I woulda said yes, then no after everybody left. Only reason my girl should be on her knees is to give me cranium.
 

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The only way I can justify this is she has like 3 kids with 3 baby daddies or something.

Otherwise, if she has no kids, this woulda made my dikk soft, I woulda said yes, then no after everybody left. Only reason my girl should be on her knees is to give me cranium.


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