New York Times: Men, where have you gone? Please come back

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And at some point those countries are going to stamp down on sex tourism, now if more men travel to those countries that is going to create a big problem and the men in those countries are not going to be happy about it.




There has never been a credible study that has quantified an estimate of what it actually means to be in the top 20 percentile.
Whoa

Let’s not accuse brehs of sex tourism. If they go on vacation and the chick are choosing :hubie:
 

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It’s not all of them when you’ve been trying to nerf men’s natural behavior what do you expect to happen? Normal guy stuff got categorized as toxic masculinity and we needed to up our emotional intelligence and all that sounds good on paper but I’m realizing how feminized men have become. The liking of superhero movies, animes, wrestling and all other nerd activities is at an all time high it’s overblown now. Remember the men of our fathers were handymen who may have been into some nerdy things but they still stayed in shape and knew how to be outdoorsmen. Lot of mfs don’t know how to fish or fix a flat tire and it’s only going to get worse in time


I disagree, breh. There is a clear distinction between traditional, healthy masculinity and toxic masculinity. It is all about balance, toxic masculinity is more in relation to hypermasculinity which is based on having an authoritarian complex, being hypersexual, being performative, being violent and I could go on.

The fact is, most women want traditional men that are able to be comfortable in their own masculinity.


Whoa

Let’s not accuse brehs of sex tourism. If they go on vacation and the chick are choosing :hubie:

But that is a problem because the passport bros is not a new trend, and it is sex tourism. And the main demographic of the sex tourist are not even brehs. It is not just a coincidence that the countries that were listed are known to be a hotspot for sex tourism.
 

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Why are there no articles on women’s behaviors and unreal expectations when it comes to dating?
Like them believing that there’s some 6 foot 6 figure earner out there waiting to marry them when they’re average or below average.


Or the fact that a lot of them expect a man to be the most interesting man in the world, when the women themselves have little to no hobbies.

Or their inability to communicate. Women are complaining that men ask “how was your day” on dating apps, when that’s literally what couples do.


Nothing is going to change until this gets addressed. Because there’s plenty of average and above average men who genuinely want to have a relationship, but gave up because they keep getting ghosted or tired of wasting their time and money on dead end dates.
 

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Why are there no articles on women’s behaviors and unreal expectations when it comes to dating?
Like them believing that there’s some 6 foot 6 figure earner out there waiting to marry them when they’re average or below average.


Or the fact that a lot of them expect a man to be the most interesting man in the world, when the women themselves have little to no hobbies.

Or their inability to communicate. Women are complaining that men ask “how was your day” on dating apps, when that’s literally what couples do.


Nothing is going to change until this gets addressed. Because there’s plenty of average and above average men who genuinely want to have a relationship, but gave up because they keep getting ghosted or tired of wasting their time and money on dead end dates.
No dude is taking the time to write that article.

YT is a quicker outlet to spread that message
 

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No dude is taking the time to write that article.

YT is a quicker outlet to spread that message
No one said a man had to write that article.
Women literally go to school for BS degrees like sociology, gender studies, etc. You’d think there’d be atleast one woman with a neutral, level headed POV to discuss what women are doing. Instead they make it seem like men are unemployed just sitting in the basement playing videos and watching porn all day.
 

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No one said a man had to write that article.
Women literally go to school for BS degrees like sociology, gender studies, etc. You’d think there’d be atleast one women with a neutral, level headed POV to discuss what women are doing. Instead they make it seem like men are unemployed just sitting in the basement playing videos and watching porn all day.
:heh:

The forum talks about women not holding each other accountable and you expect a woman to write that article for a major outlet?

Let’s be cereal
 

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Whoa

Let’s not accuse brehs of sex tourism. If they go on vacation and the chick are choosing :hubie:

yes they are, motherfukkers don’t even speak the language. Pathetic, you coulda just paid a pro here for the same thing. :snoop:
 

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Why are there no articles on women’s behaviors and unreal expectations when it comes to dating?
Like them believing that there’s some 6 foot 6 figure earner out there waiting to marry them when they’re average or below average.


Or the fact that a lot of them expect a man to be the most interesting man in the world, when the women themselves have little to no hobbies.

Or their inability to communicate. Women are complaining that men ask “how was your day” on dating apps, when that’s literally what couples do.


Nothing is going to change until this gets addressed. Because there’s plenty of average and above average men who genuinely want to have a relationship, but gave up because they keep getting ghosted or tired of wasting their time and money on dead end dates.

Just like how trumpers are feeling it now, women collectively won’t change until they absolutely have to.
 

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Just like how trumpers are feeling it now, women collectively won’t change until they absolutely have to.

But change is not one sided, it applies to both genders. If men want relationships, they have to become more attractive to women and vice versa. And that requires socialising.


She’s asked where the men went. That’s part of the answer :manny:



Most men are either dating or marrying American women, or they are single. It is only a small percentage that are engaging in sex tourism.
 

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But change is not one sided, it applies to both genders. If men want relationships, they have to become more attractive to women and vice versa. And that requires socialising.






Most men are either dating or marrying American women, or they are single. It is only a small percentage that are engaging in sex tourism.

Yes but women are the topic currently.
 
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