New York Times: Men, where have you gone? Please come back

[ORDER_66]

That and Kevin Samuels dying allowed the "Myrons" of the world to lead young men into extremism.

I mean are the men wrong or is it not cause and effect that led to this?!?!

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

It’s amazing you never find any role that women have played in why a growing share of them will never get married lol.

I’m speaking in generalities. Of course, individual women have terrible attitudes, can be ungrateful, unrealistic about dates, and especially unrealistic about their physical appearance, and the kind of man they want. If you look like Sheri Shepard, or Amy Schumer, but want Jalen Hurts, or James Marsden, you’re delusional.

Some women can have a good man, and overreact to him not responding in time, text paragraphs, make bad impressions. Some women can get married, let themselves go, not take care of the house, disrespect you, etc. Some women cheat, lie, and we know lots of women use men as ATMs. I’m just saying, those are reasons women claim they aren’t dying to get married, or putting up with coffee dates.

And I am staunchly against dating online and apps. Lots of brehs use apps to judge their value and luck with women. If you don’t have good pics, you’re not going to eat like that.

 

[Treblemaka]

I hope yall dont think this article has anything to do with or is aimed toward black man.

This is a cac article about cac dynamics.

 

[Womb Raider]

From what I’m seeing and reading, they don’t want the emotional labor from men who aren’t committing. A lot of men want all the benefits of a wife, without actually commiting. So you have brehs in relationships who want women to cook, clean, be a business partner, but don’t want to get married. The brehs in situationships are worse, because they try to get those things, plus want the women to listen and be emotionally available while still keeping themselves open to other women. Then you have the ones who get married, but the woman still works full time contributing to half the bills, but does all the housework, all the cooking, the majority of the childcare, and when the woman wants some time to herself, the men complain about caring for their own children. They have to pick up after children, and after a grown man. Married women complain about feeling like single moms, because the man is not making time for the family, or the relationship. (Tom Brady)

A marriage is a partnership. It requires effort from both sides. Even in situations where the man provides, you still need to make her feel special. The easiest cheat code is flowers. Brehs act like flowers cost $500. You spend $15-$30 a month to get some grocery store flowers, and it makes a difference most of the time. Of course, there are women who will never be happy, especially if she was settling for you in the first place. But for most women, the flowers show you were thinking about her, and put effort into giving her a nice experience.

I think apps have a lot of brehs inappropriately down on themselves. Women judge you harshly if you’re not good at writing a profile, or have bad pics. There could be something she sees or feels in you she would only feel in person. Most couples are equal in appearance, but the ones where the woman is perceived to look better than the man didn’t meet on apps. They could have known each other for a long time. They could have been set up by mutual friends, so she felt more comfortable. This is why you need to leave the house, and meet people. Friends have sisters, cousins, and wives and girlfriends who have friends you will meet while attending their events.

You say this but you’re glaring over the fact that a lot of women don’t put in effort because they feel they deserve a soft life and princess treatment. I’ve bought women grocery store flowers and they’ve either been left somewhere or they told me “lol not expensive enough” (yes they wanted those $500 flowers). It’s so common lately for women to act like they are the prize and that men should worship the ground they walk on, that the thought of men needing to put in effort comes off as tone deaf. Put in effort for what? To be judged harshly, unappreciated and cast aside for a woman who suddenly feels like she deserves more? Nah. Women need pipe down and accept that they need to treat men the way they want to be treated; valued and appreciated. Otherwise, men are going to continue to withdraw from this fukked up dating game and avoid that marriage trap.

 

[O.Red]

That and Kevin Samuels dying allowed the "Myrons" of the world to lead young men into extremism.

Nah the men were headed this direction regardless

This is ultimately another by product of the elites not wanting to pay and destroying the middle class. Young men being broke and feeling like they have no purpose+ feeling like women hate them is how we get what we have now

When men feel like the game is rigged or not worth playing they either walk away or violently revolt. We've seen both play out in real time. As things get worse and more men feel like they can't get their life started you'll see more apathy and more violence

 

[O.Red]

I hope yall dont think this article has anything to do with or is aimed toward black man.

This is a cac article about cac dynamics.

Yes and no

Don't think that black men are exempt from these dynamics when the truth is black men experienced a lot of these dynamics first

What's happening now is a lot of white men are waking up and realizing that grandpa America sold them out a long time ago. White men are waking up as nikkas and they do not like it

 

[ORDER_66]

Yes and no

Don't think that black men are exempt from these dynamics when the truth is black men experienced a lot of these dynamics first

What's happening now is a lot of white men are waking up and realizing that grandpa America sold them out a long time ago. White men are waking up as nikkas and they do not like it

Yep this is happening across the board...

 

[Hitchens]

I hope yall dont think this article has anything to do with or is aimed toward black man.

This is a cac article about cac dynamics.

Alot of these dudes identify with white males, especially racist/redpill white males.If you read alot of their posts they sound just like them.

 

[Hitchens]

Yes and no

Don't think that black men are exempt from these dynamics when the truth is black men experienced a lot of these dynamics first

What's happening now is a lot of white men are waking up and realizing that grandpa America sold them out a long time ago. White men are waking up as nikkas and they do not like it

How did grandpa america sell out White american males?

 

[Ozymandeas]

Yes and no

Don't think that black men are exempt from these dynamics when the truth is black men experienced a lot of these dynamics first

What's happening now is a lot of white men are waking up and realizing that grandpa America sold them out a long time ago. White men are waking up as nikkas and they do not like it

Deadass. White people discovering what it's like to be Black (financially) and they're about to blow this bytch up

 

[O.Red]

How did grandpa america sell out White american males?

Do you have 3 hours?

For the sake of brevity I'll bring it back to the destruction of the middle class. The middle class was created so that average and below average white men could have access the bare minimum of the American Dream. A wife, a home, a car and savings. Little by little all of these things have been chipped away

Entire markets have been shipped overseas, wages have remained stagnant while prices have skyrocketed, banks are fukkin everyone, shall I keep going?

Now those same average and below average white men who would've had a decent life 40 years ago have none of what's promised to young white men and they're walking away or lashing out. No home, no decent car, no girlfriend. Now Timmy is holing up in his mom's house arguing online and watching porn all day or shooting up the local Walmart

In this climate where an overarching system like the middle class has been gutted, the only way for people to eat comfortably is to become exceptional, like black people have always had to do. White people don't want to be exceptional, they want to be average while feeling superior

There are glimpses where white men figure this out, but they still can't escape the brain rot of blaming black people for everything. So they continue to drink the Kool aid of the elites that fukk them(their grandsons), and thus all of us over

 

[Reptile]

I don't rail on feminism, because I genuinely think women's rights is important

Negged

 

[Treblemaka]

Yes and no

Don't think that black men are exempt from these dynamics when the truth is black men experienced a lot of these dynamics first

What's happening now is a lot of white men are waking up and realizing that grandpa America sold them out a long time ago. White men are waking up as nikkas and they do not like it

The fact that you'd make a statement this stupid, uninformed, reactionary and childish as this one makes it difficult for me to believe you base your thoughts in logic instead of emotion.

 

[O.Red]

The fact that you'd make a statement this stupid, uninformed, reactionary and childish as this one makes it difficult for me to believe you base your thoughts in logic instead of emotion.

How so?

By your logic I could consider your response everything you consider my post to be

 

[number21]

I hope yall dont think this article has anything to do with or is aimed toward black man.

This is a cac article about cac dynamics.

Yeah, because the gender dynamics with black people are at their best right now.