Imagine lying as an adult lol. Nobody needs to lie on an anonymous forum.
Imagine lying as an adult lol. Nobody needs to lie on an anonymous forum.
Just say you can’t read because none of what you said is anything that I said. Show me where I said stay in a bad relationshipShow me proof that because someone cheated that the relationship can never be reconciled.
Show me where I said she needs to prioritize a family nucleus
Show me where I said she should do anything.
Show me where I gave an opinion about what she has done.
It took you this long to come up with that response then you were better off not saying shyt.
Everything about your post requires implications that aren’t even there to have footing. You argue like a bytch. We can just agree to disagree and keep it moving.A relationship where one party is an open and reckless adulterer willing to compromise their career, family and reputation for a piece of ass is inherently toxic and bad. Yet you implied Nia was selfish and in the wrong for leaving a similar situation and that she should've been willing to "take the L" for the sake of her family.
All this "sHoW mE WHerE I SaID..." shyt is meaningless and cowardly and I'm not about to engage in some bullshyt battle of semantics with you because you're too much of a backpedaling bytch to actually stand on your own words and inferences.

Honestly I agree with OP. She should have kept things private and kept him out the conversation. The minute she opened up about it, she started putting it all on her sons feelings. That’s not even Udoka son. She should have kept things private and tried to move on and find peace in a more private manner. Why use your sons feelings against him ? I’ll tell you why.
She looked at him as a good role model for her son and she knew he was a good role model. Now she has to cope with the fact that she gotta tell her son he’s not gonna be around anymore. That must be really tough on her and even tougher on the young breh now missing his role model and doesn’t know how to cope with that.
I feel for them both but please keep your son out the timeline or go back to him alreadu because it sounds like she wants to