Nice guys don’t always finish last.

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I’m a nice guy and I have always known the “nice guys finish last” thing is bullsh*t. Just don’t be naive and let people take advantage of you.

That's because you're probably not a nice guy.

Nice guys tend to be young, inexperienced, and therefore (as you said) naive. But the good thing about nice guys is that with a bit of experience, they become good men. And good men fukking eat out here, in all aspects of life.

I'd be willing to bet you've transcended the "nice guy" phase of your life and have entered the "good man" phase of your life.
 
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If you put out negative, you will get negative back.

I’ve recommended this book maybe 10 times on this site. I love it and read it every year: Psychocybernetics . It was recommended by a therapist about 10 years ago and it truly changed things for me. Changing your mindset really does work.

my favorite chapter is the one where they did a study of people practicing basketball vs people thinking of practicing basketball and the results were almost the same
 

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Reminds me of that show where the Iranian bit kept cheating on her husband

everyone was looking out for him cause he was a solid dude, and it got to a point where her friends felt bad for him and told her that her husband deserves better. And because he was a solid dude at work he still had women come onto him.

1 broad is not the end all be all. As long as you got a good sphere of influence you don’t really finish last


But if you’re a naive ass nikka yes you will be hurt by everyone. See: Edmund Dantes, Ken Kaneki
 

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Nice guy has a different definition to different people

Obviously you should be a decent person with good intentions

The original definition of "nice guy" is supposed to be a guy who is genuinely a good person and sensitive, but him being good makes his girlfriend thinks he's soft.

Think of asking your girlfriend if you can kiss her instead of going for it - plenty of women will end up being turned off. Women like men with masculine traits, and sometimes being nice can make you look less masculine.


The goal is to make sure you being nice doesn't detract from the perception of your assertiveness and masculinity. That's the disadvantage you face sometimes as a man, in certain settings.
 

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Nice guys finish last because they are most of the time ass-kissers. No backbone, no bass in they chest, no opinion of their own, no drive to get the shyt they want, have no interests of their own, can only be defined by a trait everybody on earth learned how to be, boring asl to kick it with.. overall square ass nikkas.

tired of those nikkas thinking because they got manners they should be at the top of the deck of options.
 

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fukk that nice guy shyt

Go after what you want in life with viciousness

Play the game, completely destroy your enemies & take care of your circle at all costs

Approach everyday with a bold militant energy & handle your business

Never take no for an answer

That’s on Piru
 

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If you put good energy into the world, then you’ll receive good energy back. Just be nice without expecting anything in return. Smile and be polite at work, and people will do you favors and will vouch for you. You’ll be a fan favorite. They’ll treat you like a hero. Also, when you find a lady who likes you for you, then you should also just vibe with her. Feel each other’s vibes and just chill together. No need to be hectic when you find that special someone. Take it slow. Always have positive vibes and people will rub their positivity off on you. Of course, there are outlier people who are always looking for beef.
You confuse nice guys with respectful guys. A nice guy isn't respectful because they don't even respect themselves
 

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If you put good energy into the world, then you’ll receive good energy back. Just be nice without expecting anything in return. Smile and be polite at work, and people will do you favors and will vouch for you. You’ll be a fan favorite. They’ll treat you like a hero. Also, when you find a lady who likes you for you, then you should also just vibe with her. Feel each other’s vibes and just chill together. No need to be hectic when you find that special someone. Take it slow. Always have positive vibes and people will rub their positivity off on you. Of course, there are outlier people who are always looking for beef.
nice guys never get in races...they work the crowd...
 
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