Nice guys finish last they say.

[UberEatsDriver]

What defines a “nice” guy to you and when do you think a man is going too far in being nice towards a woman?

Would a YES man basically be the eqavilent of the nice guy that all men should avoid being?

Been on a few dates recently and all of the ladies told me the same thing. They despise YES men.

Y’all take?

 

[Da_Eggman]

Nice guys that aren’t actually “nice”

Anybody that is doing something “nice” in the purpose of expecting somthing later is not nice

A truly nice person is nice to themselves and doesn’t care about others

 

[010101]

find your center then hold position

pick a direction then roll

either she gets with it or gets rolled over

*

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Nice guys that aren’t actually “nice”

Anybody that is doing something “nice” in the purpose of expecting somthing later is not nice

A truly nice person is nice to themselves and doesn’t care about others

That’s a fact. I’m usually myself and prett funny but all the time women ask me what is your toxicity?

I’m like what?

They be like you can’t be this good and genuine as a person.

I’m like well this is me idk what to tell you.

 

[George's Dilemma]

Been on a few dates recently and all of the ladies told me the same thing. They despise YES men.

Any woman that goes as far to say that she despises nice guys is the type to be avoided. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen one of those types of women later on in life driving a beat up SUV and one or two crumbsnatchers and the father(s) nowhere in sight. I say to myself thank God I'm not stuck with her every time i see that scenario.

 

[Tim2520]

Women don't like nice guys but they'll settle down with one after the bad guy faze gets old tho

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Women don't like nice guys but they'll settle down with one after the bad guy faze gets old tho

Yea the chick I went out with on Sunday was splitting with her husband and has been through traumatizing stuff.

But I think this African girl really just wants my sperm.

She literally said if she deals with another man and it doesn’t work out. She at least wants to leave out the relationship with his sperm.

 

[Silkk]

Women don't know what they want. They are insane. Move accordingly.

 

[Deuterion]

A lot of women out here do not like Gentlemen which is why you hear women say “chivalry is dead” and why Chris Rock responded “...and women killed it”. So the term “nice guy” doesn’t always mean “push over” it could also mean “a guy who treats a woman with respect and dignity”. What I find is that a lot of women would prefer to date an irresponsible and disloyal man and try to turn him into a “nice guy” because the drama in doing so excites them...it gives them something to talk about. They love the peaks and valleys of the emotional roller coaster that sees them go from sad to happy to angry to happy over and over and over again. With a “nice guy” they won’t have that because a push over never opposes her and the Gentleman isn’t constantly triggering her insecurities via shifty behaviors and promiscuity. That’s why I don’t even GAF about bad boy/nice guy nonsense...I’m in shape, I have a career, I’m handsome, and I’m a complete gentleman...I let a woman get on and off the bus if she desires but one things for certain...the bus ain’t gon’ wait,,

 

[Diondon]

Why worry about such things? I might be "nice" to one chick and an a$$hole to another. I do what I want.
You should never be a doormat doe.

 

[Software]

Stop taking these women seriously and you'll be better off

 

[Kenny West]

Nice guys that aren’t actually “nice”

Anybody that is doing something “nice” in the purpose of expecting somthing later is not nice

A truly nice person is nice to themselves and doesn’t care about others

The logic hoes use to not feel bad about taking advantage of a sucker's genoristy.

Do better.

 

[Deuterion]

Logic hoes use to not feel bad about taking advantage of a sucker's genoristy.

Do better.

Exactly. She expects free drinks and dinner but if he expects p*ssy he is no longer nice...he’s “fake nice”.

 

[Serious]

I used think I'm a "nice guy", until I realized I had various "a$$hole" traits.

Just because I'm not a blatant womanizer and can conduct myself respectfully in certain situations doesn't mean I was a nice dude....

Over time I recognized I was manipulative in other ways.

Just be yourself, and you'll attract women accordingly.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Exactly. She expects free drinks and dinner but if he expects p*ssy he is no longer nice...he’s “fake nice”.

Truth!