This isn't fair to nice guys either,you can know that you are nice,and feel you are being rejected BECAUSE you are nice. I remember being told that back late in junior high or early in highschool when I let a tall stallion share my locker. I was hurt when she moved her shyt out into another nikkas locker down the way,and told me how nice I was,and I knew the other nikka wasn't nice,so it was only a matter of putting two and two together. I don't blame her for morphing me into an uncaring person,I would say starting to get p*ssy did that,but I'm sure I kept her in the back of my subconscience when I had no remorse about mistreating and playing women,in my pre righteous era. My mentality was everybody gets shytted on from time to time. But the genuinely nice dudes,which obviously I wasnt,here about how nice they are all their lives and get rejected for it.
But as I said in a previous thread,sometimes its just the woman knowing she ain't shyt and not feeling worthy,and feeling judged by being around somebody who is so nice. So nice guys really shouldn't take it personally and realize their power and embrace it,those women want you to tell them they ain't shyt instead of allowing them to change on their own time,or understanding them in spite of not being shyt. Those women want you to judge them from your nice perspective.be confident in your morals.
Be a real nice person,be a vocal nice person,a truth teller,not a understanding and forgiving nice person.Be the pastor,not the deacon:respect:
