NIGERIAN mother CRASHES OUT on ADOS/FBA daughter in law - "In OUR CULTURE you are supposed to take your Mother in law's PLATE. RESPECT ME!"

[Bushmaster69]

I have never been to Nigeria so I do not know...Nigerian posters can get me squared away if I'm in error.

I've not studied the country extensively, but I know it was colonized by the British.

I only bring that up because anytime I see some shyt like this - when someone is adamant about making someone else put themselves in a subservient role - I instantly start thinking their culture has Western European influence...cause what the fukk is that even about, especially to this degree?

I could be wrong, and like someone else alluded to here, this could be just for the cameras.

I'll just say if I was ole girl, I'd be out. Can't imagine what that situation would like if she had kids and that was their grandmother.

Im not Nigerian, but I have been to the continent several times.

I can tell you across the continent respect of your elders, no matter how old you are, is of the up most importance. Especially when it comes to in- laws. Dowry, and other customs, are still in full effect. There are tribal/clan customs that are expected to be followed. Some people adhere to them more than others.

Nigerian women, especially Yoruba, are more animated in their speech/behaviours, so it comes off a bit harsh. But believe you me, even if she said nothing to that woman, she would tell her son not to marry her in private. You have to treat your in-laws of the up most respect.

This has nothing to do with westerm influence. Don't even give them that credit.

Have you not seen Nigerians prostrate to their elders before?

 

[AQz]

Let you know the kinda crazy you’ll encounter later on. Run

 

[The Fade]

She’s lucky that’s a NICE NICE Black American woman

Because a regular nice Black American person would’ve stomped out anyone with a funny accent getting disrespectful like that

Glad we off that Old World behavior mostly

 

[bnew]

This is a good scenario for a black rom-com movie

Is there a good one on Nollywood?

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An interracial romance hits humorous and heart-wrenching hiccups as the couple's parents fight tooth and nail against their relationship.

 

[MajesticLion]

curry fufu

 

[Busted_Toes]

what if she was Oyinbo?

CAC aint have to do all that..

 

[RiverCity916]

"My plate?! YOU CANT HAVE MY SON!!!"

Can't imagine my mom barking on my wife like that.

 

[K.O.N.Y]

These are “I’m just regular black” “blanket black” problems

An fba oriented woman wouldn’t have let it go down like that

 

[RennisDeynolds]

I didn’t think this would make it to the Coli



Listen, I’m fully walking away from that situation


I don’t want that energy around my future child. I wouldn’t trust her for nothing.

*turns to Gloxina*

"IN NIGERIAN CULTURE YOU MUST RESPECT ME OVER YOURSELF "


*turns to grandchild*

"OH JEEZOS, THIS BABY IS A GIFT FROM GOD"

*turns to son*


"YOU MUST DIVORCE THIS WOMAN IMMEDIATELY BEFORE YOU RUIN THE CHILDS LIIIIIIIFFFFFFFFEEEEEE"

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

My Dad used to try and tell my mother about all that traditional stuff. My mother would retort that if he wanted that he should've married a Naija woman.

He had no retort for that.

 

[RennisDeynolds]

What show is this from btw? And did the uncle help the situation at all?

 

[Gloxina]

You not FBA

I am. Lmao

That’s why I said it wasn’t a formal rule.


We got age gaps in my family. I was always at least 11-14yrs younger than everyone around me. I was the princess in my family but I still got that old school upbringing.

 

[SheWantTheD]

My Nigerian mother is JUST like this when upset.. same mannerisms and everything.

I would not allow her to speak to my wife this way though. No mf way..

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I have never been to Nigeria so I do not know...Nigerian posters can get me squared away if I'm in error.

I've not studied the country extensively, but I know it was colonized by the British.

I only bring that up because anytime I see some shyt like this - when someone is adamant about making someone else put themselves in a subservient role - I instantly start thinking their culture has Western European influence...cause what the fukk is that even about, especially to this degree?

I could be wrong, and like someone else alluded to here, this could be just for the cameras.

I'll just say if I was ole girl, I'd be out. Can't imagine what that situation would like if she had kids and that was their grandmother.

this behavior existed prior to colonization

 

[Gloxina]

Also, I’ve been to Nigeria and everyone I’m friends with has “house help” so I didn’t lift a damn finger to do anything when I was out there and that’s how they live DAILY. They have those customs, of course, but none of them do any housework anyway