No diss to parents in here but "Kids are a blessing" is a ..

[msims]

As someone in this thread already stated unplanned isn't synonymous with unwanted.

This statement means that you wanted kids, you just didn't care when they where born. Right?

I never premeditated what I would do if the contraception I was taking failed. I crossed said bridge when I came to it. I was shocked at both pregnancies (especially the current one) but abortion was the further thought on my mind.

Life isn't as complex as many of you make it out to be.

This statement says otherwise, though.

You say the child was WANTED, and then turn around and say that you never planned out what you would do if you actually did get pregnant.

Well, if you KNEW that contraception wasn't 100%...and you knew you would never get an abortion.....when you decided to have sex, you HAD to have premeditated what would happen if the contraception didn't work. It's that or the baby wasn't wanted.

Either you made up your mind before hand, or you were irresponsible....TWO TIMES.

Which one is it?


(I'm just chillin with you, KiS. I enjoy arguing with you. Don't take any of this personal. )

fukk outta here cac, you're a p*ssy if you think raising lil dumbass kids is hard

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

If you could snap your fingers and know when you were pregnant pregnancy tests would be irrelevant breh.

At first i thought u were only kidding..but you're dead serious huh??

Let me break it down for your dumb ass lil nikka

Planned pregnancy
-bytch goes to a sperm bank and gets her octomom on
-Both man and woman sit down and decide its time to have a child
Contraceptives get thrown in the bushes..
Doesnt matter if it takes a year or 3 weeks for the girl to get pregnant..


Unplanned pregnancy/unwanted pregnancy
-U meet a ho at the bar..smash raw..preggo
-A chick gets raped in the bushes..no access to plan B...preggo
-The situtation with your moms...shacking up with some bum ass nikka..
letting him nut in her when he clearly doesnt want any babies
She doesnt want any kids either..but too stupid to prevent a pregnancy


u get the point..if not then just kill yourself

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

Forget the men on this form know more about the female anatomy than the women

The1st time it failed I was on the same pill for 5+ years, until I started to get painful heart palpitations and was advised by my OB GYN to switch to another kind. During the switch I became pregnant.

This time around, I blame Pfizer for giving me defective pills......

After my daughter is born, I'm going on an IUD

Any more questions/assumptions?


:

AINT NO SUCH THING AS DEFECTIVE PILLS HO

I HIGHLY DOUBT A bytch WHO POSTS WHO ON FORUMS AS MUCH AS U DO IS OUT THERE TAKING HER PILLS ON TIME AND PROPERLY

aint u unemployed too?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

At first i thought u were only kidding..but you're dead serious huh??

Let me break it down for your dumb ass lil nikka

Planned pregnancy
-bytch goes to a sperm bank and gets her octomom on
-Both man and woman sit down and decide its time to have a child
Contraceptives get thrown in the bushes..
Doesnt matter if it takes a year or 3 weeks for the girl to get pregnant..


Unplanned pregnancy/unwanted pregnancy
-U meet a ho at the bar..smash raw..preggo
-A chick gets raped in the bushes..no access to plan B...preggo
-The situtation with your moms...shacking up with some bum ass nikka..
letting him nut in her when he clearly doesnt want any babies
She doesnt want any kids either..but too stupid to prevent a pregnancy


u get the point..if not then just kill yourself

Just have some breh and see how your opinion changes. And how is a nikka bum ass when he accepts responsibility and steps up?

And by your definition she let him nut in her so obviously she didnt mind.... i think a 39 yr old woman is mature enough to know what she wants or not....

Quit dodgin the question do you have kids and did your mama want you? Something doesnt click in your head and you think your philosophy on this is status quo.

Im still perplexed by how u can go back in time and personally know my mom didnt want me, even though she had me... tell me since you know so much why didnt she have that procedure?

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

This statement means that you wanted kids, you just didn't care when they where born. Right?



This statement says otherwise, though.

You say the child was WANTED, and then turn around and say that you never planned out what you would do if you actually did get pregnant.

Well, if you KNEW that contraception wasn't 100%...and you knew you would never get an abortion.....when you decided to have sex, you HAD to have premeditated what would happen if the contraception didn't work. It's that or the baby wasn't wanted.

Either you made up your mind before hand, or you were irresponsible....TWO TIMES.

Which one is it?


(I'm just chillin with you, KiS. I enjoy arguing with you. Don't take any of this personal. )

I'm cool in my skin

I don't take any of this personally. I claim what I live and understand those who wish to hurl stones will place it under scrutiny. It builds character

The easiest way for me to answer your question is:

"People often meet their destiny on the road they take to avoid it". <--- love that quote so you've probably saw me use it before :D

I've learned the most in life by what others perceive to be failure or irresponsibility. I can tell you what I've learned and the road I traveled to get here.

I cannot undo what's already been done nor do I live life with regrets.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

AINT NO SUCH THING AS DEFECTIVE PILLS HO

I HIGHLY DOUBT A bytch WHO POSTS WHO ON FORUMS AS MUCH AS U DO IS OUT THERE TAKING HER PILLS ON TIME AND PROPERLY

aint u unemployed too?

Pfizer recalls 1 million packs of defective birth control pills | theGrio

Pfizer Recalls Defective Birth Control Pills in the US

Pfizer Birth Control Recall: Could Women Who Get Pregnant Sue? | Healthland | TIME.com

 

[msims]

I'm cool in my skin

I don't take any of this personally. I claim what I live and understand those who wish to hurl stones will place it under scrutiny. It builds character

The easiest way for me to answer your question is:

"People often meet their destiny on the road they take to avoid it". <--- love that quote so you've probably saw me use it before :D

I've learned the most in life by what others perceive to be failure or irresponsibility. I can tell you what I've learned and the road I traveled to get here.

I cannot undo what's already been done nor do I live life with regrets.

Good post.

I cannot undo what's already been done nor do I live life with regrets.

I bet you live without saying "sorry" or "I was wrong" too.

Nah, I'm just fukin with you. I'm done.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Good post.



I bet you live without saying "sorry" or "I was wrong" too.

Nah, I'm just fukin with you. I'm done.

I'm an INTJ we feel as if we're surrounded by idoits *inserts laugh*

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

Pfizer recalls 1 million packs of defective birth control pills | theGrio

Pfizer Recalls Defective Birth Control Pills in the US

Pfizer Birth Control Recall: Could Women Who Get Pregnant Sue? | Healthland | TIME.com

packaging error nikka..that doesnt mean jack shyt

Bet u be buying cereal boxes filled to the max[while another family get an empty box] due to packaging errors and your lil daughter be loving them shyts..she aint suing nobody thou

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

packaging error nikka..that doesnt mean jack shyt

Bet u be buying cereal boxes filled to the max[while another family get an empty box] due to packaging errors and your lil daughter be loving them shyts..she aint suing nobody thou

I'm sure you understood what you meant though ;)

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

Just have some breh and see how your opinion changes. And how is a nikka bum ass when he accepts responsibility and steps up?

And by your definition she let him nut in her so obviously she didnt mind.... i think a 39 yr old woman is mature enough to know what she wants or not....

Quit dodgin the question do you have kids and did your mama want you? Something doesnt click in your head and you think your philosophy on this is status quo.

Im still perplexed by how u can go back in time and personally know my mom didnt want me, even though she had me... tell me since you know so much why didnt she have that procedure?

U slow as fukk..again did u see where i gave good parents their props?

When im ready to have kids...i will have them..thats not an issue
They will have the best life a father can provide

Best food to eat,best schools to attend..i will give them the world
Im getting paid out the ass right now and somehow i still feel im not ready..cuz guess what..IM fukkING NOT!
I have all these projects underway and mad other shyt to accomplish

I dont have time for kids right now..

All im saying is..your moms must have known your real dad was a bum but she still got preggo by him..how did that happen?why did she let it happen?

 

[RicanFury]

this quote is often offset by the multiple "my baby daddy aint shyt rants" that follow shortly in facebook, twitter and numerous phone convos

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

I'm sure you understood what you meant though ;)

where is your b*stard's daddy?

 

[volk]

I'm really not understanding how all of these "accidental" pregnancies happen. Birth control is not 100% effective. Condoms are not 100% effective. Use them together though, and you should be good. Its really not that hard to not get pregnant if you don't want to, I don't get it.

 

[msims]

I'm really not understanding how all of these "accidental" pregnancies happen. Birth control is not 100% effective. Condoms are not 100% effective. Use them together though, and you should be good. Its really not that hard to not get pregnant if you don't want to, I don't get it.

Or just don't have sex.