"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

You be killing me Books

I know you sincere/honest but the vast majority of of peoples dating experiences are not the same as yours
Most of us are broken insecure traumatized messes

Its very few normal people out here
I snatch mine up because dating is absolutely awful these days

also to echo other brehs here, women are out here fukking so if she doesn’t want to fukk you early most times it’s a clear sign that she doesn’t desire you like that and you should move on if you don’t want to wait.

But see that’s issue. I don’t think most people are broken. I think most people are average. But the problem is that average good men and women are dealing with mentally broken people.
Why? Because average people trying to find the easiest path to getting what they want and average people ain’t happy with average anymore. They wanna be playas and IG $400 date chicks too. So they deal with desperate bums and psychos to try and find a way to flex without having to put any effort in. And when they can’t flex, guess what they do? They LIE!

A LOT of people ain’t fukking. They are LYING! You know what a lotta my male friends complain about? They complain about chicks pump faking on them all the time. Talm bout how she gon suck this and fukk that and when they meet up, them chicks ain’t doing shyt.

And these are attractive men! That’s one part of the problem. But they believe the lies other men tell them when men be bragging on their dikks and how much p*ssy they getting. And they believe the lies women tell when they be talking all this sex shyt, twerking and hoe is life. And they believe everything everybody says and it’s got them paralyzed. Meanwhile, There’s women outchea who haven’t fukked in months and years other than a dildo.

And ironically in spite of sex being EVERYWHERE in the media and shyt, people are actually having less of it.
Stop listening to and dealing with broken people.

Also, for men, the ones who are fukking…are fukking broken bytches because they give up p*ssy easy. So men think ONLY these types of chicks exist. But if they weren’t willing to only deal with broken, desperate easy p*ssy chicks, they’d see there’s a whole nother realm of normal chicks out there.

But when you only deal with shyt because that’s the easiest path then shyt is the only thing you smell.

And when you do deal with a cool chick, you end up thinking the same dumb shyt supposed to work on her as the desperate bum bytch that was willing to suck yo dikk if you took her to McDonalds and got her kids some nuggets too.

So if that’s what’s happening I guess chicks who do like small romantic gestures and wanna actually get to know you do look goofy or crazy.

“Da fukk you want flowers fo goofy bytch! Betta take this meat and be happy wit it Ms. Independent!”
In reality there are still shyt tons of normal, good men and women who ain’t with the dumb shyt online. Plenty of people who ain’t trying to play games, are sweet, funny, charming, hard working, cute, loving.

But let the internet tell it, everybody getting their back blown out by thugs, on drugs fukkin on dirty mattresses, using people for sex and $400 dates and if you ain’t fukking a chick within 3 mins of knowing her or if he ain’t buying you a car on the first date, you a simp or a basic bytch getting used.

Who the fukk lives like this?! Frfr.
Sorry for the rant. But we gotta get real. Twitter ain’t real life.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Dating or rather courting was suppose to have the purpose of seeing a future (marriage) with each other, not relaxation with a bunch of ppl. I’ve never asked “what are we?” To a chick I’m just fkcing and I will always withhold a date whenever possible as most men should do.

If you are getting what you want from these encounters, do what works for you.

But in response to the original tweet, she shouldn’t be dismayed by dudes trying that dumb shyt. Instead she should just make moves with men who move differently with her.

 

[Atsym Sknyfs]

Well .. after you answer WYD, i can tell you what my plans are...
if you say nothing .. then i'll ask if you wanna do something
if you busy ... then nevermind, just checking up

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

also to echo other brehs here, women are out here fukking so if she doesn’t want to fukk you early most times it’s a clear sign that she doesn’t desire you like that and you should move on if you don’t want to wait.

again, this is a lie. women have been told that to be taken seriously, don't give it up too soon. after a few times hanging out, you can tell if someone is into you - momentum usually builds and yall spend more time together and/or communicating with each other. so a chick still answering texts, wanting to spend time with you - and time doesn't = having to spend money - and isn't giving it up just might be trying to feel secure about whether the man is in it for real or just for the ass. now if she's just interested in you spending money when yall spend time, doesn't really converse with you, takes days to reply to texts, yea, you might need to move on cuz she aint feeling you and you're not getting any


now if your goal is just sex, then sure, bounce if it's taking longer than you'd like to spend to get the ass. but yall sit here and conflate quick sex and women liking you/dating seriously. dating with the goal of finding a LTR can both consist of sex early or a delay, just depends on the chemistry, previous experiences/hurt, insecurities, moral values, etc.

 

[Astroslik]

This is all a factor of women punching above their weight class. Social media got them thinking they deserve men bringing way more to the table than them. They don't realize that these men are punching down to secure some easy p*ssy. Since they're punching down they treat the women like shyt (as we all have done). Then women think that's the quality of men they deserve and complain about the way these same men treat them.

Thread should end after this post.

All other babble and bullshyt tropes and anecdotal experiences are irrelevant.

 

[Astroslik]

My generation of men are the last of the gentlemen.

An ex-stripper with the unmitigated gall to say this

 

[BigMan]

But see that’s issue. I don’t think most people are broken. I think most people are average. But the problem is that average good men and women are dealing with mentally broken people.
Why? Because average people trying to find the easiest path to getting what they want and average people ain’t happy with average anymore. They wanna be playas and IG $400 date chicks too. So they deal with desperate bums and psychos to try and find a way to flex without having to put any effort in. And when they can’t flex, guess what they do? They LIE!

A LOT of people ain’t fukking. They are LYING! You know what a lotta my male friends complain about? They complain about chicks pump faking on them all the time. Talm bout how she gon suck this and fukk that and when they meet up, them chicks ain’t doing shyt.

And these are attractive men! That’s one part of the problem. But they believe the lies other men tell them when men be bragging on their dikks and how much p*ssy they getting. And they believe the lies women tell when they be talking all this sex shyt, twerking and hoe is life. And they believe everything everybody says and it’s got them paralyzed. Meanwhile, There’s women outchea who haven’t fukked in months and years other than a dildo.

And ironically in spite of sex being EVERYWHERE in the media and shyt, people are actually having less of it.
Stop listening to and dealing with broken people.

Also, for men, the ones who are fukking…are fukking broken bytches because they give up p*ssy easy. So men think ONLY these types of chicks exist. But if they weren’t willing to only deal with broken, desperate easy p*ssy chicks, they’d see there’s a whole nother realm of normal chicks out there.

But when you only deal with shyt because that’s the easiest path then shyt is the only thing you smell.

And when you do deal with a cool chick, you end up thinking the same dumb shyt supposed to work on her as the desperate bum bytch that was willing to suck yo dikk if you took her to McDonalds and got her kids some nuggets too.

So if that’s what’s happening I guess chicks who do like small romantic gestures and wanna actually get to know you do look goofy or crazy.

“Da fukk you want flowers fo goofy bytch! Betta take this meat and be happy wit it Ms. Independent!”
In reality there are still shyt tons of normal, good men and women who ain’t with the dumb shyt online. Plenty of people who ain’t trying to play games, are sweet, funny, charming, hard working, cute, loving.

But let the internet tell it, everybody getting their back blown out by thugs, on drugs fukkin on dirty mattresses, using people for sex and $400 dates and if you ain’t fukking a chick within 3 mins of knowing her or if he ain’t buying you a car on the first date, you a simp or a basic bytch getting used.

Who the fukk lives like this?! Frfr.
Sorry for the rant. But we gotta get real. Twitter ain’t real life.

I appreciate your perspective tho I still stand on my opinion that most of us are broken

I will also say thAt Twitter stuff happens irl I’ve seen and experienced it

you probably roll with normal secure people because you normal and secure

average is a bad word these days ; no one wants to be average (for a whole host of reasons)

women Are fukking these days tho. Women are definitely exercising their options. It’s men who are having less sex. I have a lot of female friends and most of them are out here lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

An ex-stripper with the unmitigated gall to say this

ugly boyz ent flooding these birds DMs on here got them delusional

 

[Art Barr]

Ain’t nothing to be unaware of. Too many people too scared or anxious to do anything these days. Dating included. People don’t even have FRIENDS, so I’m not surprised that dating has become a huge damn event.

But that’s part of the problem. People have lived in their heads so much, taken a bunch of cues from online shyt that they got crazy expectations. They’ve built the process up so much that something as simple as meeting people has become this monumental colossus.

I said what I said. Dating should be an enjoyable experience. It’s as simple as you planning something you like to do, and inviting the person you are interested in along to do it with you.
That’s it.

Simple shyt. But because some of these dudes got these ideas in their head from offline that everybody is getting p*ssy on the first date, and chicks think every girl is getting $300 dates, they feel like they getting curved if they put in even the bare minimum effort and not getting sloppy head or a Fendi bag seconds within meeting a random person.

“I guess she/he don’t like me!”

That’s what’s stressful.
So they try all this autistic ass PUA shyt, can’t be themselves, sound weird as fukk, escalating to sex every 10 seconds like they thirsty as hell, trying to get nikkas to drop major bread on them and just come off looking weird and creepy instead of being themselves and letting the chips fall where they may.

Men AND women out here looking stupid as hell because they trying to sell themselves to people they want to impress instead of moving with people that actually LIKE them.

Dating is a simple sweet process. I met a guy at a damn bagel shop yesterday. And we sat and just enjoyed each other’s company until my homegirl came through and worked on some dissertation shyt.

People have lost the art of simply BEING with someone b/c they too worried about what they can get outta somebody else. And they worried about that b/c they comparing their lives to dummies fake flexing on the internet.

I swear people just slow ass hell these days.

This.

All uv dis.


Art Barr

 

[BigMan]

again, this is a lie. women have been told that to be taken seriously, don't give it up too soon. after a few times hanging out, you can tell if someone is into you - momentum usually builds and yall spend more time together and/or communicating with each other. so a chick still answering texts, wanting to spend time with you - and time doesn't = having to spend money - and isn't giving it up just might be trying to feel secure about whether the man is in it for real or just for the ass. now if she's just interested in you spending money when yall spend time, doesn't really converse with you, takes days to reply to texts, yea, you might need to move on cuz she aint feeling you and you're not getting any


now if your goal is just sex, then sure, bounce if it's taking longer than you'd like to spend to get the ass. but yall sit here and conflate quick sex and women liking you/dating seriously. dating with the goal of finding a LTR can both consist of sex early or a delay, just depends on the chemistry, previous experiences/hurt, insecurities, moral values, etc.

By liking I mean finding you sexually attractive

there is little incentive to entertain a woman if she’s not sexually attracted to you these days

Which I guess is unfortunate for the woman who aren’t like that

 

[Art Barr]

Money spent = effort to majority of women.

Females with a price list never assail to womenhood breh.

Golddiggers to the virtue lack'n noncommittals.
think males are a bank.

Bush any female who comes with a price list.


Art Barr

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

By liking I mean finding you sexually attractive

there is little incentive to entertain a woman if she’s not sexually attracted to you these days

Which I guess is unfortunate for the woman who aren’t like that

well duh, but again, if a woman likes you - ie wants to spend time with you - then it stands to reason she's also sexually attracted to you. just cuz she aint fukking you on day 3 doesn't mean she's not attracted. if she's short with you, cold, distant, uncommunicative, then of course she aint feeling you and move on.

 

[ItzRailT]

Funny thing is a lot of these chicks settle for that and have babies by them dudes so yeah just more Twitter bird ish.

 

[TXTrill1]

the point is there is a growing number of cars who are like eff that

I doubt it.. that rapper Lil Loaded just offed himself because of a bytch And I see hella young cats fallin for the traps now even easier than back then actually

 

[Gold]

This thread very off the rails