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"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"
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Yeah definitely. I’ve never had a woman directly say she just wanted sex. You have to feel her out or use euphemisms or pree her actions and not her words and just go for it sometimes
Have you personally come across women who wanted to stay casual but stunted like they wanted a relationship and vice versa?
I hung out with a girl a few years ago who acted like that. Went on a few dates and hung out at her place. She told me she wasn’t looking to smash or for a FWB. Turns out she really did just want someone to smash and complain to. I didn’t smash, she ended up getting a dog, snd she ending up blocking me
I really regret not smashing and being all respectful to her
She was crazy and we had mutuals so it was probably for the best
The gag is sometimes women be giving their FWB boyfriend benefits
These the same ones complaining when those dudes eventually move on or take advantage of them
Speaking Womanese
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FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
yeah but do you think Gordon Ramsey is sitting back while his wife is doing the cooking?
Cooking is not a burden to me and the kitchen is my domain so I prefer to cook for myself
dora_da_destroyer
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those are the women who are doing it wrong. the women treating a FWB like anything more than dikk on demand are the women who are settling for being a man's sidepiece or trying to do a FWB situation with someone they actually want more from, hoping if they slip in the little extras of being a GF in he'll want to be with her.The gag is sometimes women be giving their FWB boyfriend benefits
These the same ones complaining when those dudes eventually move on or take advantage of them
Yeah definitely. I’ve never had a woman directly say she just wanted sex. You have to feel her out or use euphemisms or pree her actions and not her words and just go for it sometimes
I hung out with a girl a few years ago who acted like that. Went on a few dates and hung out at her place. She told me she wasn’t looking to smash or for a FWB. Turns out she really did just want someone to smash and complain to. I didn’t smash, she ended up getting a dog, snd she ending up blocking me
I really regret not smashing and being all respectful to her
She was crazy and we had mutuals so it was probably for the best
I have. In College and on dating apps.
Nobody should take advice from social media serious. They only tell you what you want to hear. It's cool to watch and listen but when you start trying the advice in real life, you need to realize who these people are. They're entertainers. Not experts.that nikka kevin samuels cakin something serious off this dysfunction. now I see how he got 1 million subscribers
but as you put it, it's as simple as trial and error. but sounds like some people are not learning from the errors
SheWantTheD
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Give us background contextIt's a new era, I was playing Fortnite a bunch of kids sounding 8 years old talking about "stop simping"
From the Male perspective, what mistakes do you think men make with the women of today?
Thinking that if they do A, B, or C & are X,Y,Z….that a female is obligated to like them.
This right here killed so many hopes and dreams breh
Don't even start a relationship if you ever ask yourself "how can I get them to change...?"
I’m generally laidback and back then had low confidence so that probably played a role@BigMan lmaooo did you get blocked after you missed her advances?
Was your energy forthcoming or laidback?
I’ve heard brehs mention these things before
I realize I took an L then but if hadn’t lied about what she want maybe things would have been different
had to tell my current girlfriend to be more assertive and communicate her desires too which she does now
she told me that most women just expect you to go for it so pree their actions not their wordslesson learned after that incident I became more assertive which Has now led me to be in a happy Long term relationship 
nikka I’m short
I have. In College and on dating apps.
I was heavier back then and I had no issues but I'm 6 ft 2I’m generally laidback and back then had low confidence so that probably played a role
I realize I took an L then but if hadn’t lied about what she want maybe things would have been different
had to tell my current girlfriend to be more assertive and communicate her desires too which she does now
nikka I’m short
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Do you think part of men’s issues with women stems from some of them feeling entitled to women’s time/bodies/energy for doing the bare minimum?
@BigMan were you overly shy around women you reaaaally liked and apathetic towards those you felt you could do better than?
Yeah I think that’s true. Like someone said dudes think if you do or have what society or the media tells you need to attract a woman then she should be attracted by o you which is often not the case.
further as women generally like when money is spent on them, many dudes see interactions with woman as transactional since they don’t see women as human beings with agency but as glorified sex dolls
to the last part, nah I wasn’t like that I just didn’t get play/female attention when I was younger for a myriad of reason