"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"

RareHunter

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The gag is sometimes women be giving their FWB boyfriend benefits :lolbron:
These the same ones complaining when those dudes eventually move on or take advantage of them

Yea, no point trying to understand they mind, just get what u can and k.I.m. lol.
 

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Yeah there’s a lotta guys out who try that shyt but that doesn’t mean you have to put up with it. Also I think this is an online dating/hookup culture phenomenon.

For every guy trying to cosplay as a Future wannabe offering nothing but wack dikk and tired lines online, there are dozens of real charmers out there who will make your life beautiful. :wow:I thank God I’ve never really encountered some of the shyt some of these women describe or these typical internet edgy dudes.

Dating is supposed to be a source of relaxation and it’s supposed to be an enjoyable way to build intimacy and get to know people. Flashing dikk pics immediately, escalating to sex 24/7 and/or dumb shyt is just lame. I like people who can teach me shyt. Hell some of these dudes outchea are master chefs. I didn’t even know what a “sous vide” was before I had a man put me on to it on a date a few weeks ago. I cook a mean fukking steak and ole boy had me beat. Hands down.
:hubie:I got wet just watching him cut the veggies.:mjcry: These chicks ain’t obligated to entertain dudes with nothing to offer.:yeshrug:
Agree with ur post but especially bold. Its just how things changed. People nowadays are lazy asf, lack people and conversation skills, entitled asf, and just so low effort. U gotta socialize but socialize with the right people and in the right social circles and settings. That helps to prevent people from messing with folks like I described above.
 

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yeah but do you think Gordon Ramsey is sitting back while his wife is doing the cooking?
:jbhmm:

Cooking is not a burden to me and the kitchen is my domain so I prefer to cook for myself

GR might bite his wife & smack her with a skillet...j/k

I get it as I am the same way. I'm also particular about cleanliness & food prep.
You prefer your own cooking but what does it hurt to let your lady :cook: Sunday breakfast or Friday dinner sometimes?
If you know that she wants to please you with what you enjoy, let her.

Do you dine out???
 

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Do you think part of men’s issues with women stems from some of them feeling entitled to women’s time/bodies/energy for doing the bare minimum?

@BigMan were you overly shy around women you reaaaally liked and apathetic towards those you felt you could do better than?

@BigMan hit on a lot of points.

Yeah, that is a problem for both genders though. Like my original comment hints at that entitlement….How people view relationships as a math equation rather than something more complex.

Guy in the DM’s saying he will do the dates and how are you texts all the sweet shyt gets :angry: when shown no attention. Which creates the incel but instead of him realizing maybe she isn’t for him that entitlement seeps through.

& on the flip side this whole thread is based on a women who thinks she entitled to being treated “top tier” simply because she got a p*ssy :manny:


She never stopped to wonder maybe she is attracting her male equivalent.

I think the main problem for both genders is everyone wants it all.
 
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Hell some of these dudes outchea are master chefs. I didn’t even know what a “sous vide” was before I had a man put me on to it on a date a few weeks ago. I cook a mean fukking steak and ole boy had me beat. Hands down.
:hubie:I got wet just watching him cut the veggies.:mjcry: These chicks ain’t obligated to entertain dudes with nothing to offer.:yeshrug:

You went over his house first date?
 

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how yall know she's a whore? wtf....some men are just looking for a fling and approach everyone - a great woman and toss up - with low effort, men looking for a relationship or men who really come to like you put in effort - again, you can be a great woman or toss up, if a man is into you, he's into you

Effort is only required when she doesn’t like him. The more she does, the less effort required by him. Brehs are smartening up and choosing not to put in effort when required because he know the dude she really feeling would not have half the expectations she has of him. :francis:
 

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I appreciate your perspective tho I still stand on my opinion that most of us are broken

I will also say thAt Twitter stuff happens irl I’ve seen and experienced it :yeshrug:

you probably roll with normal secure people because you normal and secure

average is a bad word these days ; no one wants to be average (for a whole host of reasons)

women Are fukking these days tho. Women are definitely exercising their options. It’s men who are having less sex. I have a lot of female friends and most of them are out here lol
How did average become synonymous with bad?!:mindblown:
I just don’t get it. We just ordinary people. People better get their shyt together. They missin a whole world out there for nothing.
 

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Females with a price list never assail to womenhood breh.

Golddiggers to the virtue lack'n noncommittals.
think males are a bank.

Bush any female who comes with a price list.


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My clit is telling me not to dap this. She just called me a traitorous bytch.

But you right.

:mjlol:
My dad used to tell me that women need to keep their legs closed and men need to keep their wallets closed when dating. And my mom raised us that courtship is a two-way street.:yeshrug:

When you like somebody, and they like you, men ain’t gotta break the bank to impress them. And women ain’t gotta buss it open to keep him around.
I can’t believe people don’t know what it’s like to have somebody actually like them for who they are rather than what they can get outta them. This is shyt I learned in grade school.:mjlol:
 

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Effort is only required when she doesn’t like him. The more she does, the less effort required by him. Brehs are smartening up and choosing not to put in effort when required because he know the dude she really feeling would not have half the expectations she has of him. :francis:
Why do y’all have these self defeatist, negative views of dating/romance? Y’all truly are a generation of “who hurt you”

I’ve never lived my life expecting the worst of people. This seems terrible
 
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