"No man will ever convince me that his last name is more important to me than mine."

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If this woman doesn't want to take on a man's surname, then she doesn't have to take it.

However, she will need to find someone willing to accept her not taking his surname.

For me, I don't place too much emphasis on someone taking my surname, but a woman who is adamant about not taking my surname probably isn't someone I would want to marry.

More than likely, that person would clash with me on other things, so it would be best if we would not deal with each other to boot.
 

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She has the right to feel that way.
And nobody opinion on the matter matters but hers.
And that goes for every woman out there

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There's no reason to take offense to this. It's her preference. I'd prefer a woman to take my last name, so I wouldn't be with that woman
 

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I don’t understand how you would want to marry someone but don’t want to have the same name as your family. Are the kids going to have your last name or his? Or are they gonna have to hyphenate? I just feel like this isn’t the hill to die on. How you expect somebody to commit to you and you’re being petty about a last name. Why even get married? What’s funny is she’ll probably have her dad “give her away” at the wedding but won’t change last names. Make it make sense.

Our individualistic society clashes with the idea of marriage. We are bred to be selfish. Her post talking about the unity of two people but talking about herself with little consideration to the spouse isn’t unlike most posts we see from other people on that birdbrain platform and on here.
 

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Personally I’m just getting mine hyphenated, my last name is unique and I don’t want to lose it.

But I also want my husband last name to show our Union
 
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To be honest, I struggle with this because I don’t really care about the last name as long as my kids have mine.

At the same time, I’m not a fan of people picking and choosing when they want to be traditional.

I can assure you if her a potential fiancé opted out of tradition by not buying an engagement ring or anything of that nature she’d be incensed
 

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she's absolutely right

too many people care about what she's doing with her life instead of what they do with their own.

i do not give a fukk what she thinks and i wont waste time on her
 

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It's kind of annoying that 80% of threads in the TLR is created with the sole purpose of agitating nikkas. Whether it's a fine dime marrying a cac, nikkas getting beat up by messicans, or just straight up bird babble, it's always some bullshyt. I don't give a damn about this bird or her last name, and this shouldn't be a thread.
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It's kind of annoying that 80% of threads in the TLR is created with the sole purpose of agitating nikkas. Whether it's a fine dime marrying a cac, nikkas getting beat up by messicans, or just straight up bird babble, it's always some bullshyt. I don't give a damn about this bird or her last name, and this shouldn't be a thread.
Y'all new nikkas have no clue about the lineage of fukkery this site goes back too. Y'all be on here wanting constructive, thought provoking dialogue and don't realize we used to have something called the piss set :piss:, multiple pro tranny movements, men posing as women for sole purpose of collecting dikk pics, and nikkas getting regularly doxed and exposed before the site had to eventually ban it.

Basically if you're not a demon, you have no reason to be here :demonic:
 
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