No woman will respect a man without options

[TheNig]

That's what I don't get
Why is someone supposed to be attractive to other women if that someone is already in a relationship?

- blackierobinson

It's the ultimate paradox bruh. You feel that since you have a steady relationship that it's ok to get comfortable. But it's not. Everything you did to attract her has to be done to keep and strangely enough, it attracts other women. People are generally terrortorial and no one likes anyone else standing on their terroritory without permission.

 

[PeridotPuss]

it aint theory.....been married for 4 years.. been workin for me.... no matter what problems me and her may have she aint never denied me sex....that's cruel and unusual punishment..... the simple fact they deny them sex means its a deeper issue than you know at hand...shyt that aint a big deal to men is usually the end of the world to a woman.... instead of sitting around with you having roundtable discussions about why they wives not fukking them... shouldn't they being having it with them?...its hustling backwards..... like talking to a dentist about the best catalytic converter to put on you 67 Camaro.....makes no sense....you would talk to an auto mechanic for sound logic correct?.....your gonna be biased because that's your homie and your man as well but its their marriage....swear dudes gossip more than females sometimes.....

Married?? yall need to stop calling me bitter when I say nikkas ain't shyt

 

[TheNig]

best catalytic converter to put on you 67 Camaro

Wouldn't this just cause more exhaust problems? By the way, I'm a dentist.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Here we go

Male trophies exist.

Yes, I get that they exist but I personally don't want one. why is that so hard to believe?
I've had UF football players that wanted me but I was not interested. One of the reasons being that.
Go ahead and call ducktales.
I would make such a claim with all my pictures on here:disnikka:

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

My wife concurs with the OP. She encourages me to be a flirt. I'm quiet and low-key by nature so she she knows that I probably won't take it too far. She's given me a hall pass in case it does but I never plan on taking her up on it. Worst case scenario is that it's a small form of insurance in case anything ever does happen however.

Nah this is your wife telling you that shes got you wrapped around her finger and she aint worried at all

:conusher: You share your wife son

 

[PeridotPuss]

eh.... I say no woman will respect a man without a backbone....women aint really as complicated as yall make them out to be.... respect is earned like everything else and like trust it can be gone in a flash.... you gain a woman's trust through your actions... you having options has no bearing on how a woman feels about you.....if you don't spend enough time with her you will become an option as well and not a necessity... by you leading as a man you create an air of excitement around you..... women will naturally gravitate towards you..... chance are your homies prolly did some fukk shyt they not telling you for her to or they hounding her for sex....lotta dudes get the horny husband syndrome and constantly press they wives out for sex.... when you constantly press her out it makes her not want to give it to you....gotta do little shyt throughout the course of the day to build up momentum and a lil sexual tension....when she sees you she will want to rip you close off.....most dudes stop dating their wives as well.... a dude who been married for 20 years told me the way to keep em is to act like you still trying to get them Ie courtship... also over time a lot of dudes let themselves go and don't keep themselves....nikkas be lookin 8 months pregnant but be mad as hell when they woman put on 15 pounds....it goes both ways...

And negged

 

[Action Mike]

You guys are applying "male competitiveNess" to women.

I honestly can't imagine which thoughts I would be having but it wouldn't have much to do with the cashier or dude tryna holla.

Unless it involves me in some way. ..I rarely care

I say depending on the breh you would care, even a little.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Males use perceived male opinions much heavier than women lean on other women's opinions.

 

[Mac Brown]

I was just thinking about this the other day.
I personally don't want a guy who a lot of girls are after. Less hassle and headache for me

You'll change your tune once that cherry is popped.




After marriage

 

[Stir Fry]

Nah this is your wife telling you that shes got you wrapped around her finger and she aint worried at all

:conusher: You share your wife son

Share her? Nope

She trusts me? Yup


Thinks I'm wrapped around her finger? Nope

Respects me? Yup


She knows I'm dedicated to her, so she feels confident enough to encourage me to be the best person that I can in all facets of life.

 

[onelastdeath]

Yes, I get that they exist but I personally don't want one. why is that so hard to believe?
I've had UF football players that wanted me but I was not interested. One of the reasons being that.
Go ahead and call ducktales.
I would make such a claim with all my pictures on here:disnikka:

The fact that you're here bragging about UF Football Players wanting you, instead of just saying "guys", means that you take pride in status and the status of the men that want you. I.E Male Trophies.

If you didn't, you would have just called them men. The same way that I label all women as "women" instead of labeling them by their accomplishments to showcase their status.

Example: http://www.thecoli.com/threads/wome...oking-for-a-relationship-are-the-woat.366951/

I just made a thread about a girl that got mad at me because I sort of brushed off her relationship talk. I called her "girl I'm fukking" not girl who's studying at Columbia right now that I'm sleeping with. Simply because TO ME, her studying at Columbia doesn't make her any more of a big deal than the other girl I'm fukking that works at the Duane Reade in TriBeCa.

It's okay, TDB, we love you anyway.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

My wife concurs with the OP. She encourages me to be a flirt. I'm quiet and low-key by nature so she she knows that I probably won't take it too far. She's given me a hall pass in case it does but I never plan on taking her up on it. Worst case scenario is that it's a small form of insurance in case anything ever does happen however.

your wife has a cuckold fetish

 

[Aceofspades404]

The fact that you're here bragging about UF Football Players wanting you, instead of just saying "guys", means that you take pride in status and the status of the men that want you. I.E Male Trophies.

If you didn't, you would have just called them men. The same way that I label all women as "women" instead of labeling them by their accomplishments to showcase their status.

It's okay, TDB, we love you anyway.

the whole topic is about male trophies/ guys with a lot of options.
Since you insisted I wanted one, I refuted your point using one.
Just admit that you're wrong about me:trollromo:

 

[Hijo de luna]

were talking about woman you are married to and already fukked. If she's been married to you, she knows you for who you are, there is not need to try and maintain an aura artificially.
edit:
or rather, if you need to keep up appearances around your wife, you married the wrong woman.

Breh, take a breathe and lettuce go over the facts. Men naturally want more than one partner. There is nothing more artificial than a man convincing himself otherwise and living a dream that someone else created for him. This is the lie we're selling these women. All I'm saying is that we must first honor ourselves, be true to our nature. Quit trying so hard to be something we're not. Let the laws of nature work

 

[onelastdeath]

the whole topic is about male trophies/ guys with a lot of options.
Since you insisted I wanted one, I refuted your point using one.
Just admit that you're wrong about me:trollromo:

Agree to disagree

I think you do care about male trophies. Which is okay, you know? Who doesn't want what other people want?

Just admit it