No woman will respect a man without options

[Stir Fry]

Not true for me. I dislike competition. The other chicks can have him.

I'd rather a dude who sees me as the prize. If I have to fight to get him, I'm gonna have to fight to keep him. I'm not about that life.

If he wants me, he'll make it known and I won't have to compete with anyone because I will have already won.

I wouldn't take it to the level that whoever I'm with would feel that they needed to complete with somebody else, frankly that's kind of childish. I do think however that being able to have casual relationships with the opposite gender can be a healthy component though. This depends heavily on the relationship though as no two are ever alike.

 

[QuavoFlow]

I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.

Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.

Me and the squad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.

You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women).(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.

You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.

But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.

But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.

Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league

dont know how yall can tolerate or accept that fact. maybe im just young and immature but fukk a relationship. fukk a marriage. fukk monogamy. fukk a "social norm"
fukk these hoes, then

 

[Arithmetic]

This thread is already is danger of going to extreme ends as usual.

It's not being out here showing your woman receipts that all these women are checking for you, but staying sharp and desirable (with that same swag etc that got her in the first place) for her.

/thread

Never let yourself go into the depths of complacency brehs.

 

[#1 pick]

I was just thinking about this the other day.
I personally don't want a guy who a lot of girls are after. Less hassle and headache for me

That's good but OP ain't saying that. It's clear, you don't want a man all the women find somewhat accessible. That's usually a male hoe. What most women want is a man who other women desire. When they talk shyt like I don't like the way that girl just kept starring at you. While I don't care, she secretly like yes! I got a damn good catch.

Just the way you guys are. Every woman likes a Tebow-like man even though he's not accessible. It's all about desirability which is what the OP is really talking about.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I wouldn't take it to the level that whoever I'm with would feel that they needed to complete with somebody else, frankly that's kind of childish. I do think however that being able to have casual relationships with the opposite gender can be a healthy component though. This friend heavily on the relationship though as no two are ever alike.

I think it's healthy to have a life outside of the relationship but that doesn't have to always involved sexual competition/ the opposite sex.

That's the turn off for me, when a guy gets to attached too fast and treats me like a comfort blanket. Or clingyness basically, because I don't like to feel suffocated or controlled.

 

[54321]

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[CinnaSlim]

This thread is already is danger of going to extreme ends as usual.

It's not being out here showing your woman receipts that all these women are checking for you, but staying sharp and desirable (with that same swag etc that got her in the first place) for her.

Same goes for both sexes. People think they don't have to put any more effort in because now they already got him/her. But a relationship is not a destination, its a journey, you gotta keep it going.

 

[thirdeye]

 

[Stir Fry]

I think it's healthy to have a life outside of the relationship but that doesn't have to always involved sexual competition/ the opposite sex.

That's the turn off for me, when a guy gets to attached too fast and treats me like a comfort blanket. Or clingyness basically, because I don't like to feel suffocated or controlled.

I think that's why not minding your s/o to talk to other people people can be healthy though. It's when you make them optionless that the clingyness comes out. I'm not really into having somebody under me like that though.

 

[#1 pick]

Men who strive to control women by creating anxiety. These are the tactics of an insecure man and will only keep an insecure woman. Thanks for the @. OP is an ass. *exits thread*

For different woman, different tactics may apply. The only issue with OP is in my relationship, if I did what he said, I would be a big trouble. My girl is direct. If she has an issue, she will let me know. Every woman is different, it doesn't change the facts that women desire desirable men. We as men desire desirable women but we don't need outside validation. We can look and see what we like and want.

 

[Maximus Rex]

My wife concurs with the OP. She encourages me to be a flirt. I'm quiet and low-key by nature so she she knows that I probably won't take it too far. She's given me a hall pass in case it does but I never plan on taking her up on it. Worst case scenario is that it's a small form of insurance in case anything ever does happen however.

she's feeling guilty because she's getting smashed by other dudes

 

[#1 pick]

ALL THESE RULES!

lol, relationships are filled with unwritten rules. That's why all relationships need to be based around a foundation like God or a common interest that is morally demanding.

 

[Stir Fry]

she's feeling guilty because she's getting smashed by other dudes

or maybe she's just not interested in neutering me like so many of these chicks that you guys wifing up are.

 

[badtguy]

True, I dont make it known though. My chick already has a feeling that I have different women, from different ethnic backgrounds, in different countries.
so she know any lil thing she does to piss me off its an automatic
not responding to a text
Not cooking, when im hungry
No sex(well she never says no anyway) but if she did
im that nikkax10, I don't even argue with my main or sides- they know wassup.

 

[Roid Jones]

Its the simple rule. 'if nobody wants you, why should I want you'