No woman will respect a man without options

[Kenny West]

The fact female posters are vehemently denying it on no logical terms is all the proof you need

i actually find its the opposite sometimes

chicks will find you attractive but fight it off because they know you got all the ho's and they feel they have zero control over you

i just make sure not to make any promises or commitments and i don't flash other women in her face but i don't hide em either

you gotta let her imagine what she wants to and make her choice

the ones that want to stay in touch will

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[Giselle]

I was just thinking about this the other day.
I personally don't want a guy who a lot of girls are after. Less hassle and headache for me

Exactly

They are giving terrible advice.

 

[rapbeats]

If woman stop giving up the p*ssy you are either not hitting it right, letting yourself go or she is resenting you for something. It has nothing to do with whether or not your flirting with other woman.

or your old a.. chick could have a host of mental issues going on or physical... go on ahead and google it. you'll find plenty. lol at dudes 30+ still thinking its all about them. There's a good 20 reasons your chick aint giving it up like that. check them all first before you come to a conclusion.

 

[rapbeats]

Exactly

They are giving terrible advice.

well now... lets not lie ladies. early in life ladies love to run after dudes that have a crew of chicks all up on them. Why? because other chicks want to know whats so special about this guy with all the ladies. being curious will get you caught up. and usually a dude with a bunch of ladies is a ladies man. meaning he has studied women. so he's well versed in how they react to certain ques. so that same professional ladies man will probably work on you. UNLESS you are truly looking for a husband and you had a father in your life that showed you what a REAL man/husband looks like. if not, you will be on that mr ladies man's team. baleee dat.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.

Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.

Me and the squad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.

You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.

You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.

But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.

But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.

Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league

I always keep my skills sharp and I got a couple hot female friends thats been in my corner for years. One I specifically hang with has intimidated all the girls I've been in a relationship with because we have great chemistry but have never slept together. People always assume we are or have but we both have basically been playing off this energy for years to keep each others significant others in check. Besides that I get positive female attention in public so whoever I'm with feels good about having a man who is desirable.

 

[Giselle]

well now... lets not lie ladies. early in life ladies love to run after dudes that have a crew of chicks all up on them. Why? because other chicks want to know whats so special about this guy with all the ladies. being curious will get you caught up. and usually a dude with a bunch of ladies is a ladies man. meaning he has studied women. so he's well versed in how they react to certain ques. so that same professional ladies man will probably work on you. UNLESS you are truly looking for a husband and you had a father in your life that showed you what a REAL man/husband looks like. if not, you will be on that mr ladies man's team. baleee dat.

I am young or "early in life" and you are wrong. I don't want a thot/cheater/player.

 

[Versa]

So basically in this topic is the opening post dropping facts about how women generally approach relationships and women calling the opening poster a liar.

I'm not the type of dude to blatantly plant verbal seeds on a girl and flirt hard body when I'm a relationship. Other than that though, he's right.

I'd also add that we as men don't want to be with a girl who isn't desirable either. It might not be processed the same way emotionally but I definitely would want my woman to be one who other dudes look at and say "damn I wish I had that."

If no dude is checking for my girl at all, that obviously means my girl ain't on point. Some may argue that due to me being 6'1, 230 pounds that dudes might be intimidated and hesitatant to look but sneak a peep nikka damn

 

[Youseenmywork]

I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.

Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.

Me and the squad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.

You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.

You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.

But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.

But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.

Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league

First @J-purp now you my nikkas drop in what should be Platt threads . I'm comment later and taken what you saying on a more scientific route.

 

[Youseenmywork]

That is absolutly false. I am a woman, and I respect "men without options".

I will never compete for a man. I don't get jealous or competitive, I move on.

It's disrespectful to flirt with other people while you're in a relationship.

Only an immature person would "not respect men without options".

Take his advice and you'll be single.

So how many women do you think are in a relationship with a single man ?

 

[Queen]

The way OP worded his post was slightly misogynistic, but you have to agree that there's some truth to it?

Men own their bullshyt a lot more in this case. We'll just flat out say that the size of a womans t*ts and ass is important in a relationship even though it's completely ridiculous. Women, for some reason get very upset when you point out what kind of guys they evidently respond to in reality.

You'll say that humour and confidence is important, but where do you think he got that from? Just magically born that way, or do you think he got that from a lifetime of positive reinforcement by various women?

You'll be very turned off by a guy who's too "thirsty", but why do you think some guys are more thirsty than others? Do you think non-thirsty guys are that way because "p*ssy is just not that important to them", or do you think they're non-thirsty because they got other situations going on?
I could go on about this...

If you ask any woman if she likes those slightly "player-ish" type of men she will say no, but where do all the women they hook up with come from then? I think it would be quite rude and bold to call all of those girls sluts or insecure. All of the characteristics women say that they look for are essentially the characteristics of the type of man OP is describing, but when you point it out they get mad.

It's kind of the same as when men are constantly talking down on "hoes", but "hoes" get wifed by men with options everyday (Cam Newton, Ross etc.), so it goes both ways. I'm just saying that to show that I don't think (I don't hope) OP is attacking women, but that he's making an interesting observation about the type of double communication that goes on by both men and women.

Yes, there is truth for men who deal with women with childish mindsets. I believe I said that in the post you quoted. Women with adult priorities do not have time or the patience for immature BS.


I am not attracted to games, men who cannot control their dikks, or disrespect; so try that BS with a woman like me and get the

I wish my husband would tell me he needed to flirt with other women in order to keep me interested. Please. If he needs to do that, then he should do that and hope one will be is new wife. Either I am Queen or GTFOH.

Grow up.

#GPB

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

All these holier than thou coli chicks in here talking about this isn't true like they didn't spend 4 years in high school on status over the most popular dudes there.

 

[O.G.B]

Who's the loser here?

You!

someone who stated an opinion that you could have scrolled passed

There is no point in being on a online forum if you can't give your "opinion" or thoughts on someone else's comments

Or maybe you're the type that just wants to give their personal viewpoints on other peoples remarks without anyone challenging or questioning yours.

that means your just a dumb as me

No, the "dumb" award is all yours!

you wasted half your day trying to make a fool of me

This is/was not my intention at all.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

That is absolutly false. I am a woman, and I respect "men without options".

I will never compete for a man. I don't get jealous or competitive, I move on.

It's disrespectful to flirt with other people while you're in a relationship.

Only an immature person would "not respect men without options".

Take his advice and you'll be single.

I'm sorry but what women say and do is totally opposite. He spoke nothing but truth based on real life experience.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Man thread has classic written all over it the females that are chiming in.... the TONE of some of they post

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

All these holier than thou coli chicks in here talking about this isn't true like they didn't spend 4 years in high school on status over the most popular dudes there.

This

Don't buy that bullshyt breh.