No woman will respect a man without options

Hashy

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All men need to use the G.M.B System:
Get
Married
Brehs

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Then repeat for as long as you want.
 

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I'm not projecting Cinna. It sounds ridiculous and archaic but it's backed by the evolutionary principals that women love to ignore. Studies have shown that women are more aggressive and violent in areas where suitable mates are scarce. Why do you think that is :jbhmm:
What studies and what women? Violent, how?

Either way, actions are based on a person's motivations.
 

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No i have never shared her :comeon:She's been unfaithful in other relationships, so she said she'd chalk it up to karma. I'm not dumb enough to complicate and compromise what we have together, which on turn is why she's fine with me taking to other women.
 

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You keep talking about maturity while attacking me personally and emotionally because I spoke my truth. Hardly a mature way of handling things ironically.

I don't need marriage, could have easily been married if I cared :umad:

You basically shyt on everything you were saying based on how you handled this alone hence "what women say and do are totally different things". :russ:

Talk about maturity while lacking it brehette.

No one attacked you, maybe you're just sensitive. If I were attacking you, there would be curse words.

I only told you about yourself, just like you tried to tell me about me.

you're right. LEAVE Them. but that means at some point they got with this dude. i didnt say this kind of dude can keep a chick. but she is surely going to fall for him unless her pops was a real dude and a real husband to her mother so she knows what a real dude looks like which is all she's ever looking for.

If you dont have that husband figure as your pops to look up to. Then your idea mate will end up being a dude from the movies/ women's magazines, books, etc. which are usually fairy tales. Ladies men already know how to get a chick all moist, just feed her the fairy tale stuff.

Leave them alone, stay away from them is what I said.

"ladies men" and husband figures both know how to "get a chick moist". Lots of ladies men pretend to be like them, which is why I said what I said.
That's basically saying you don't value that person :francis:. I'm 12 years married because I compete every damn day. I keep myself up, I keep my money up, take care of business, I keep my word. I don't have to worry about competition because there is none.

A person who values you would not try to make you jealous or make you feel like you need to compete.

It's sad that you feel like you need to compete to keep your wife, maybe you're with the wrong person then, maybe you both are.

You are supposed to take care of yourself for yourself, not because you're afraid that someone else will leave you. Sad and pathetic is what that is.

A person who thinks like that is not mentally/emotionally healthy and their relationship isn't healthy either.

If the dude I'm with ain't slangin dikk to other women like crack in the 80s then I don't want anything to do with him. I want other broads to have absolute disgust on their faces every time we walk into a spot together. When I come back from the bathroom I want to catch him with his dikk in several different women's mouths, that way, I can be proud that my nikka is desired by other broads, but I'm the one that won, I'm the alpha and these other hoes can't see me.
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from my experience when my girl has no doubt in her mind im holding her down not paying these hoes no mind i get laid more often and way better

competition is for "trap queens"

Exactly. :salute:You are the type of person that these guys should be taking advice from. It sounds like you are in a healthy relationship with someone who isn't immature or mentally/emotionally messed up.

Making people jealous or trying to make people compete over you is childish and the women worth keeping will leave when they notice someone is trying to do that. Or not get involved with someone like that if they spot it early on.
 

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A person who values you would not try to make you jealous or make you feel like you need to compete.

It's sad that you feel like you need to compete to keep your wife, maybe you're with the wrong person then, maybe you both are.

You are supposed to take care of yourself for yourself, not because you're afraid that someone else will leave you. Sad and pathetic is what that is.

A person who thinks like that is not mentally/emotionally healthy and their relationship isn't healthy either.

Making people jealous or trying to make people compete over you is childish and the women worth keeping will leave when they notice someone is trying to do that. Or not get involved with someone like that if they spot it early on.
Killing me with these silly theories of how relationships should work :dead:
 

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No one attacked you, maybe you're just sensitive. If I were attacking you, there would be curse words.

I only told you about yourself, just like you tried to tell me about me.



Leave them alone, stay away from them is what I said.

"ladies men" and husband figures both know how to "get a chick moist". Lots of ladies men pretend to be like them, which is why I said what I said.


A person who values you would not try to make you jealous or make you feel like you need to compete.

It's sad that you feel like you need to compete to keep your wife, maybe you're with the wrong person then, maybe you both are.

You are supposed to take care of yourself for yourself, not because you're afraid that someone else will leave you. Sad and pathetic is what that is.

A person who thinks like that is not mentally/emotionally healthy and their relationship isn't healthy either.


:rltydead:





Exactly. :salute:You are the type of person that these guys should be taking advice from. It sounds like you are in a healthy relationship with someone who isn't immature or mentally/emotionally messed up.

Making people jealous or trying to make people compete over you is childish and the women worth keeping will leave when they notice someone is trying to do that. Or not get involved with someone like that if they spot it early on.


You girls dont get it. Once men are in long term relationships they are at higher risk of losing the aura that attracted you to them

If a man can maintain his aura not by making you jealous but by keeping his testosterone up by interacting with women.

You will notice

Just like you notice when you si called got him and he aint going nowhere

Thats usually the point you women start abusing us men

All we are saying is maintain your aura but you dont have to rub yojr girls face in it jeez
 

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Brehettes can flip it any way they like...the above fact is true, and so is the op.

The fact also you ladies have had a celebrity crush in your life, voids your arguments (with no alternatives btw).

A crush just means you're attracted to someone, for any reason. It doesn't mean that you want to/are going to compete for their attention.


There are people who have crushes on people who they don't know and will probably never meet, people who are not famous. It's the same as a celebrity crush.


Just incase you mention it, I've liked Jermaine before he was famous and popular. Back in 2008/2009. I would never compete over his cheating *ss.
 

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@Giselle


Why jealousy works wonders for your love life

Jealousy has long been seen as deeply undesirable in a relationship. But eminent psychologist Dr David Buss, a professor at the University of Texas, has published an explosive book arguing that jealousy is vital in keeping a relationship healthy. Women, he says, are especially keen to make their partners jealous. They enjoy the attention they get when they flirt with other men and, if such attention makes their partners jealous, that is a bonus; when her partner realises how attractive she is to other men, it can increase his commitment to her. It is also a way of testing a partner's resolve. If a man is not concerned about his partner's flirtatiousness, she'll realise his feelings for her might not be as strong as she'd like them to be.
Why jealousy works wonders for your love life

@Hijo de luna flipped the game now they're in their feels :ahh:
 

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A crush just means you're attracted to someone, for any reason. It doesn't mean that you want to/are going to compete for their attention.


There are people who have crushes on people who they don't know and will probably never meet, people who are not famous. It's the same as a celebrity crush.


Just incase you mention it, I've liked Jermaine before he was famous and popular. Back in 2008/2009. I would never compete over his cheating *ss.

:camby:If Jcole wifed you tomorrow (which you would gladly accept) and went back on tour, you would simp out your pores. Facts.

Are you in a relationship?
 

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Killing me with these silly theories of how relationships should work :dead:

Your theory is wrong.

I take it back, I don't feel sorry that you have to compete in your relationship. or that you are only taking care of yourself to try to stop your wife from leaving/cheating. I guess that's why you think being married is so much hard work.

I can't wait to read your divorce thread about how you competed so hard to keep your wifes attention, but she still cheated and left with half of your money.

I bet I'll see lots of #GMB 's in that thread, but that is what happens when you marry someone who tries to make you compete with others and tries to make you jealous, so you'll be the only one to blame.

Make sure you @ me in it. :queen:

You girls dont get it. Once men are in long term relationships they are at higher risk of losing the aura that attracted you to them

If a man can maintain his aura not by making you jealous but by keeping his testosterone up by interacting with women.

You will notice

Just like you notice when you si called got him and he aint going nowhere

Thats usually the point you women start abusing us men

All we are saying is maintain your aura but you dont have to rub yojr girls face in it jeez

People are in here talking about making women jealous and compete over you, go back and read.

People are supposed to keep themselves up in shape healthy clean for themselves, not for other people. Take care of yourself for you.

I am only attracted to men who do not cheat. If I sense heaux in a man, cheater or "player", I will not get involved.

I am attracted to faithful and respectful men only. I don't chase men. He will try to get me only in the beginning because I don't ask men out, and after he has me, I will not try to make him jealous and he will not have to compete to keep me. & I expect the same or else, I'll leave. That is childish and disrespectful.
 

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The only problem is in a 4th wave feminist culture of the USA, there are Women contending Men have no inherent value nor the ability to bring any sort of value into their lives.

For the past couple of decades Men in real life and the media have served mostly as a form of entertainment and jest to Women. We are no longer an aspect of their lives to be taken seriously. All Women need now is:

- Girls night out
- Make-up
- Cats and Kittens
- Vogue
- Gossip
- Self-Assertions such as "I'm a Strong and Independent Woman"
- Distracting media reinforcing the above mentioned Self-Assertions

Not much room for a Man in that situation particularly one that wants to invade her precious bodily territory and defile it with that "icky" substance that is propelled from his dirty appendage.

If you made this face :dwillhuh: while reading the above, Welcome to Amerikkka 2016 and Beyond. You're in for a real ride nikka.:aicmon: Only room for Gay Men in a Western Woman's world.

The emasculation of the American male has been going on for quite some time. It's even worse for minorities due to the lack of Alpha Black males as the war on drugs, institutionalized racism, and family structure has been decimated our community.

Young boys are now raised by thots, ratchets, and hair hats without a strong male presence, it is a recipe for disaster.

Media always seems to portray men in general as aloof and inept where it is quite the opposite.

Real spit.
 

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True. Women primarily want men that other women want. So if she knows you don't have any other options... well, sucks for you. Expect the broad to run all over you, and show you all kinds of disrespect.
 

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When you treat women like objects, you succeed. Trying to make a woman happy or simping for the sake of 'gettin some' is a hopeless endeavor. The 'fvck females' philosophy helps in 'fvckin females'. They deserve everything in life because they have a box -

:francis:
the

downfall logic of every simp.
 
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