No woman will respect a man without options

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Your theory is wrong.

I take it back, I don't feel sorry that you have to compete in your relationship. or that you are only taking care of yourself to try to stop your wife from leaving/cheating. I guess that's why you think being married is so much hard work.

I can't wait to read your divorce thread about how you competed so hard to keep your wifes attention, but she still cheated and left with half of your money.

I bet I'll see lots of #GMB 's in that thread, but that is what happens when you marry someone who tries to make you compete with others and tries to make you jealous, so you'll be the only one to blame.

Make sure you @ me in it.



People are in here talking about making women jealous and compete over you, go back and read.

People are supposed to keep themselves up in shape healthy clean for themselves, not for other people. Take care of yourself for you.

I am only attracted to men who do not cheat. If I sense heaux in a man, cheater or "player", I will not get involved.

I am attracted to faithful and respectful men only. I don't chase men. He will try to get me only in the beginning because I don't ask men out, and after he has me, I will not try to make him jealous and he will not have to compete to keep me. & I expect the same or else, I'll leave. That is childish and disrespectful.

Props. I don't get how hard it is for some people to understand this. If you have to even think like this to keep your wife's attention, you already lost.

You should want to be in shape for you as well as pay attention to yourself first. Your wife is not the prize, You are. Commitment is the prize, not sex from your wife.

 

[Imlinkin]

True. Women primarily want men that other women want. So if she knows you don't have any other options... well, sucks for you. Expect the broad to run all over you, and show you all kinds of disrespect.

Have you ever met a woman who's words and thoughts are congruent? They have 200x the options of any man thanks to the advent of social media. Even my ugmug 250lb + female friends can get laid at will. Why any man invests time and more than the money it takes to pump and dump confuses me to no end.

 

[Imlinkin]

True. Women primarily want men that other women want. So if she knows you don't have any other options... well, sucks for you. Expect the broad to run all over you, and show you all kinds of disrespect.

If your sole focus in life is success and personal hobbies you never have to deal with this. They prey on men who's life purpose is having a woman who dont mind being mentally abused for their stink box with 100,000 miles on it.

 

[Bless't]

No one attacked you, maybe you're just sensitive. If I were attacking you, there would be curse words.

I only told you about yourself, just like you tried to tell me about me.



Leave them alone, stay away from them is what I said.

"ladies men" and husband figures both know how to "get a chick moist". Lots of ladies men pretend to be like them, which is why I said what I said.


A person who values you would not try to make you jealous or make you feel like you need to compete.

It's sad that you feel like you need to compete to keep your wife, maybe you're with the wrong person then, maybe you both are.

You are supposed to take care of yourself for yourself, not because you're afraid that someone else will leave you. Sad and pathetic is what that is.

A person who thinks like that is not mentally/emotionally healthy and their relationship isn't healthy either.


:rltydead:





Exactly. You are the type of person that these guys should be taking advice from. It sounds like you are in a healthy relationship with someone who isn't immature or mentally/emotionally messed up.

Making people jealous or trying to make people compete over you is childish and the women worth keeping will leave when they notice someone is trying to do that. Or not get involved with someone like that if they spot it early on.

You used the little kid 'dead' emoji.

Rep just 'cause.

 

[Imlinkin]

Props. I don't get how hard it is for some people to understand this. If you have to even think like this to keep your wife's attention, you already lost.

You should want to be in shape for you as well as pay attention to yourself first. Your wife is not the prize, You are. Commitment is the prize, not sex from your wife.

They offer commitment in 2015? Like Chris Roc said, females who cheat can take that secret to the grave with them. They operate on a higher level of deception. Their words and thoughts dont match. For instance how many prudes have you smutted out that spent hours dissing 'hoes' and claiming to be 'not that type of gal' before you smashed?

 

[Deaf2twothirds]

That's what I don't get
Why is someone supposed to be attractive to other women if that someone is already in a relationship?

- blackierobinson

It all goes back to business 101 the supply and demand theory if the demand is more than the supply the value goes up. Woman can be vain & are materialistic so if women see that your in demand then your p*ssy supply goes up

 

[Giselle]

If Jcole wifed you tomorrow (which you would gladly accept) and went b

ack on tour, you would simp out your pores. Facts.

Are you in a relationship?

I know people who have fcked him and they have told me how he is. He isn't ready for someone like me yet lol

But seiously, I would not. I don't want to be with a cheater. & I really do know people who have been with him, he has his own issues that he needs to sort out before he is ready for a real/happy/healthy/fulfilling relationship. If he tried to wife me tomorrow, I'd reject him and ask him to try again in a couple of years. I don't want to by wifed (if you mean married) by anyone until I am at least done with school.

I'm not sure what "simp out your pores" means, but I'm pretty sure that I wouldn't do it because I'm not a "simp".

My wife concurs with the OP. She encourages me to be a flirt. I'm quiet and low-key by nature so she she knows that I probably won't take it too far. She's given me a hall pass in case it does but I never plan on taking her up on it. Worst case scenario is that it's a small form of insurance in case anything ever does happen however.

Always use condoms because your wife is cheating on you. Open another secret account and put your money in there so that you'll have something left for when you get a divorce. Good luck.

Not once did she mentioned the needs or staying desirable for a partner, but where the crazy ones

Me me me

I just remembered, you are a side hoe/cheater. You should not be trying to give anyone relationship advice.

Men who strive to control women by creating anxiety. These are the tactics of an insecure man and will only keep an insecure woman. Thanks for the @. OP is an ass. *exits thread*

This!

@Giselle


Why jealousy works wonders for your love life

Jealousy has long been seen as deeply undesirable in a relationship. But eminent psychologist Dr David Buss, a professor at the University of Texas, has published an explosive book arguing that jealousy is vital in keeping a relationship healthy. Women, he says, are especially keen to make their partners jealous. They enjoy the attention they get when they flirt with other men and, if such attention makes their partners jealous, that is a bonus; when her partner realises how attractive she is to other men, it can increase his commitment to her. It is also a way of testing a partner's resolve. If a man is not concerned about his partner's flirtatiousness, she'll realise his feelings for her might not be as strong as she'd like them to be.
Why jealousy works wonders for your love life

@Hijo de luna flipped the game now they're in their feels

Yes, take advice from a male who believes that cheating on your partner is good for your relationship.

Why a New Partner Boosts Your Sex Life

I hope your wife has read this one, maybe she is taking this advice right now, while you're on here trying to convince others that competition and jealousy is good for a relationship.

 

[Action Mike]

I just remembered, you are a side hoe/cheater. You should not be trying to give anyone relationship advice.

The fukk? Wrong poster, I've never cheated. Quote me.

Again. Are you in a relationship now?

Have you ever even been in one?

 

[Giselle]

The fukk? Wrong poster, I've never cheated. Quote me.

Again. Are you in a relationship now?

Have you ever even been in one?

Yes you were a side hoe, that is a part of cheating. Don't lie now.

Props. I don't get how hard it is for some people to understand this. If you have to even think like this to keep your wife's attention, you already lost.

You should want to be in shape for you as well as pay attention to yourself first. Your wife is not the prize, You are. Commitment is the prize, not sex from your wife.

That is what I've been saying thoughout this whole thread, but these idiots keep trying to tell me "women love to compete over men, they love being jealous". It doesn't matter if you're a male or female. People with sense, self esteem, and maturity don't like that, would not put up with that, and would not try to put someone else through that.


Aww, look at these sensitive men in their feelings

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It's not my fault that you were a side hoe and that you're so insecure, childish and misguided that you think a healthy realationship icludes jealousy and competition.

 

[Maximus]

Have you ever met a woman who's words and thoughts are congruent? They have 200x the options of any man thanks to the advent of social media. Even my ugmug 250lb + female friends can get laid at will. Why any man invests time and more than the money it takes to pump and dump confuses me to no end.

Outside of my mother, no.

Sex becomes relatively easy once you figure out female nature, and how to use it to your advantage. The guys out there that are investing most of their time and money on sex are suckers.

If your sole focus in life is success and personal hobbies you never have to deal with this. They prey on men who's life purpose is having a woman who dont mind being mentally abused for their stink box with 100,000 miles on it.

Well said. You cannot build your world around a woman; they will always grow to resent you for it in the end. Fill your life with adventures, hobbies, and other things that are of interest to you. Be who you are and make no apologies for it, and you will be much happier as a result. You may be surprised to know that these traits will ultimately make you far more successful with women in the end. These are the traits of an "alpha" male, and females always respond to alpha males.

 

[Imlinkin]

Well said. You cannot build your world around a woman; they will always grow to resent you for it in the end. Fill your life with adventures, hobbies, and other things that are of interest to you. Be who you are and make no apologies for it, and you will be much happier as a result. You may be surprised to know that these traits will ultimately make you far more successful with women in the end. These are the traits of an "alpha" male, and females always respond to alpha males.[/QUOTE]

It takes some men 30 years to figure out this truth. My boy who's been divorced twice looked like I had given him the 10 commandments, walking down a mountaintop with gray hair after I finally convinced him that his whole existence didnt have to revolve around getting some trim.

Tired of dudes complaining about being guilted into spending koney they dont have, trying to make a female happy and always falling short, and finding out shorty was getting smutted by a dude who doesnt pay for it.

 

[Hijo de luna]

Props. I don't get how hard it is for some people to understand this. If you have to even think like this to keep your wife's attention, you already lost.

You should want to be in shape for you as well as pay attention to yourself first. Your wife is not the prize, You are. Commitment is the prize, not sex from your wife.

Please share what works for you

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

They offer commitment in 2015? Like Chris Roc said, females who cheat can take that secret to the grave with them. They operate on a higher level of deception. Their words and thoughts dont match. For instance how many prudes have you smutted out that spent hours dissing 'hoes' and claiming to be 'not that type of gal' before you smashed?

It depends. Can't say that I disagree when women say one thing and do another; HOWEVER, yesterday's news is just that. I don't entertain idle chatter past the Coli to make my day go faster so what a hoe does is exactly hoe business. I don't know how old the heads are in this thread but I would be dissapointed if dudes were in here past the age of 30 with the mindset that they must do all of this in order to pique or keep a womans interest; especially if that woman is your wife.

Yes you were a side hoe, that is a part of cheating. Don't lie now.




That is what I've been saying thoughout this whole thread, but these idiots keep trying to tell me "women love to compete over men, they love being jealous". It doesn't matter if you're a male or female. People with sense, self esteem, and maturity don't like that, would not put up with that, and would not try to put someone else through that.


Aww, look at these sensitive men in their feelings



It's not my fault that you were a side hoe and that you're so insecure, childish and misguided that you think a healthy realationship icludes jealousy and competition.

Yeah I seriously think it's a troll job by the OP because nobody mature would really come to the realization that in a married committed relationship, flirting will make them more desirable to their mate. Some of yall really need to stop filling your head with reddit junk and live life.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Please share what works for you

Well for one, I have always been a fit guy who works out 5 days out of the week. Not for my woman, not for any woman but myself because I like the way it feels and without question, the confidence I get from it.

Secondly, I have never been told no by a woman that I share a bed with sexually even in anger. My relationship is much more than sex so if she was not in the mood at the time of my advances, cool. Ill find something else to do with my time. I don't need female attention as many underdeveloped men with motherly issues do. I'll read a book, watch some sports do anything until she comes around.

Lastly, in the event that my lady were to withhold sex from me regularly, I agree that no flirting, games or jealousy tactics could save the relationship. Its best we save each other the headache and move on with our lives as we only get one chance to live.

You dont truly know how precious life is until you are chilling with someone one day healthy and vibrant as ever and then all of a sudden, illness takes them and they are gone forever. Live your life for you. If you are interesting enough, you will always have an abundance of people wanting to come into it, including those who left for greener pastures.

 

[Stir Fry]

Always use condoms because your wife is cheating on you. Open another secret account and put your money in there so that you'll have something left for when you get a divorce. Good luck.

Thanks for the concern, but we have both been 100% faithful to each other. We have a brutally honest and transparent relationship, so I know what's going on with her before anything even close to a kiss with someone else might have a chance to transpire. There's something cute and almost enviable about how much of a moron you are, keep playing, maybe someday you'll even make it to the front seat