No woman will respect a man without options

[At30wecashout]

I get the arguments for, and the arguments against. I got good enough with myself and my mouthpiece to reasonably jibe with a woman in strange places ( did so yesterday, was strange yet satisfying) with little to no social validation from others.

However As much as one may deny this, and the coli is full of unicorns who are immune to the things quite a few of us have noticed (the brehettes specifically), I never had it easier
to talk to women than when I had the attention of one already. It's like the loner who isn't against speaking, but always alone. People aren't as open to that guy. Walk in and regularly hold a woman's
interest, the rest are remarkably more open, and this is just if you were within viewing distance of her. It's the inverse of the old "You're a great guy" by some girl you want to date, but she won't reciprocateif you are attractive and people see how you interact with others, perceptions of you are vastly different. I'm not saying this is something to hold over your partners head, but since there is no such thing as kismet, its probably best that whatever made you attractive, you keep that aspect and refine it. Its been told to men quite a bit, some of the less aesthetically gifted, that we should be glad to get any attention from women. When the tables turn, nail that bytch in place and never let it turn back

 

[Action Mike]

Yes you were a side hoe, that is a part of cheating. Don't lie now.

That is what I've been saying thoughout this whole thread, but these idiots keep trying to tell me "women love to compete over men, they love being jealous". It doesn't matter if you're a male or female. People with sense, self esteem, and maturity don't like that, would not put up with that, and would not try to put someone else through that.


Aww, look at these sensitive men in their feelings

It's not my fault that you were a side hoe and that you're so insecure, childish and misguided that you think a healthy realationship icludes jealousy and competition.

The insults started (which i didnt start) when i asked you whether you've been in a relationship before or now, guess you haven't thus making all your points here out your ass void.

Still haven't quoted whether i've admitted to being a side dude. Void.

I guess the internet is a microphone for the sheltered. You wouldnt be mouthy in front of me.

Reality will teach you, not me. Have a good day.

 

[agnosticlady]

Men who strive to control women by creating anxiety. These are the tactics of an insecure man and will only keep an insecure woman. Thanks for the @. OP is an ass. *exits thread*

In today's age I think everybody has options. From what I'm seeing....options are just people waiting to be in your life even if it is solely for sex. The homeless man that comes to my job to charge his phone has options. It doesn't make him valuable. Someone can have options and still be desperate towards someone. I think it's best to just have your own hobbies and stuff going on so that the person see's that even if they walk out of your life you are ok without them because you have positive surroundings.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

This shiit fye. I remember days when i used to participate in these types of threads.



Its nice to know the butawn is being passed on with utmost knowledge and male intellectual life prowess.


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[NinoBrown]

Once you realize the older a woman gets, the greater her insecurities become. Once you understand that, you realize relationships, marriages, fwb, are just a giant joke.

 

[Makavalli]

As a married breh in his early 30's i cosign this gospel breh. Last november i descended upon status so i decided to join the gym and eat better. When i hit the the double digit weight loss of 25lbs and started getting compliments from her family members the misses started getting uncomfortable and followed my health habits.

Definately helps to keep the spark and relationship strong and lessens the temptation for a midlife crisis

 

[Shadow King]

Truth. I got no options and I'm sure if I had some rap sheet of who I've been with in the past around here I'd never be without them.

The nikkas that females complain about are never without sex and companionship.

 

[Hijo de luna]

As a married breh in his early 30's i cosign this gospel breh. Last november i descended upon status so i decided to join the gym and eat better. When i hit the the double digit weight loss of 25lbs and started getting compliments from her family members the misses started getting uncomfortable and followed my health habits.

Definately helps to keep the spark and relationship strong and lessens the temptation for a midlife crisis

Keep her on her toes my nikka

 

[Spin]

Keep her on her toes my nikka

For men dealing with woman is like having a job. Now not every man has the will to become a owner, but in a relationship that's what a man should strive to be. If you just have a job or regular relationship and you get comfortable you can get replaced and have nothing to fall back on. When you're a owner, you doing the hiring and firing. Jobs like some woman can start to take you for granted once you been around them for awhile doing the same thing day after day. In addition to talking to different woman a man should be constantly improving himself which is going to in turn make him more attractive. Whether it's staying in shape, learning a new skill, the mind should always be moving towards getting better.

I get what you're saying in your first post about aiming for chicks that are "out of your league". I was just talking about this the other day. Once you had one or two "pretty" girls you realize there is nothing different about them than the "average" ones. At that point you won't even waste time with a "average" girl who is trying to pretend that she is better than she is. As harsh as some woman can be with men, men have to have the same attitude. She doesn't owe you anything and you sure as hell don't owe her nothing when you're first meeting. Maybe these guys living in small cities has different experiences, but if you're living in a big city (really any city if you have your blinders off) typically when you first meet a girl she is going to be thinking how you can benefit her career wise, status wise, or if she would fukk you. Even if she would consider fukking you, she isn't going to tell you she is just going to respond to your advance (if you actually have the balls to do it). Now there is nothing wrong with this, but men have to wake up and realize what is going on. I have had many more positive experiences bringing up sex in initial conversations with woman than when I don't. A guy will find out where he stands real quick.

The worst thing that can happen when approaching girls outside of "our zone" is they say no. What's worse than a no is when you don't know where you stand. You get her number but made no gesture to her about wanting to make a move is not only confusing for you, but it's confusing for the girl . You don't want her to pre-label you as the beta male type because you're too scared to make your intentions known.

 

[151_Pr00f]

All these rules and regulations make my head hurt. What happened to people sticking to their vows and striving to maintain a deep inner connection with an individual based on the principle that they've decided to dedicate their lives to one another?

It takes a degree of self control from both parties to keep a relationship thriving. I feel like this culture we've created encourages us to try to manipulate each others lack of willpower instead of channelling that willpower to keep a relationship strong imo

 

[Hijo de luna]

All these rules and regulations make my head hurt. What happened to people sticking to their vows and striving to maintain a deep inner connection with an individual based on the principle that they've decided to dedicate their lives to one another?

It takes a degree of self control from both parties to keep a relationship thriving. I feel like this culture we've created encourages us to try to manipulate each others lack of willpower instead of channelling that willpower to keep a relationship strong imo

You're living in a dream world. You have no idea how self-centered the human race has become but sadly you'll find out the hard way.

 

[agnosticlady]

There is some truth to the op

But it's kinda sad that people have to do all these tasks and mind puzzles just to keep a damn relationship

That's what I'm thinking. At the end of the day, especially in this age of slut where vagina and penis is easily available everybody has "options". One should just respect themselves and let the other person know that if they do not come correct they get bush status immediately. When you show a person through respectful actions such as having your own well functioning life without them it shows that you have options. This is why a man/woman should not even place vagina/penis on a pedestal. Live your life, respect yourself, set boundaries, and do you.Seriously if one loses everything they have (looks, money,materials, and etc)will they shrivel up and die? I seriously can't respect a man like that.

 

[151_Pr00f]

You're living in a dream world. You have no idea how self-centered the human race has become but sadly you'll find out the hard way.

Oh trust me I understand that ppl are selfish but I still don't compromise my principles because others have

 

[Meadow]

This thread just made me gay

 

[Rozay Oro]

For men dealing with woman is like having a job. Now not every man has the will to become a owner, but in a relationship that's what a man should strive to be. If you just have a job or regular relationship and you get comfortable you can get replaced and have nothing to fall back on. When you're a owner, you doing the hiring and firing. Jobs like some woman can start to take you for granted once you been around them for awhile doing the same thing day after day. In addition to talking to different woman a man should be constantly improving himself which is going to in turn make him more attractive. Whether it's staying in shape, learning a new skill, the mind should always be moving towards getting better.

I get what you're saying in your first post about aiming for chicks that are "out of your league". I was just talking about this the other day. Once you had one or two "pretty" girls you realize there is nothing different about them than the "average" ones. At that point you won't even waste time with a "average" girl who is trying to pretend that she is better than she is. As harsh as some woman can be with men, men have to have the same attitude. She doesn't owe you anything and you sure as hell don't owe her nothing when you're first meeting. Maybe these guys living in small cities has different experiences, but if you're living in a big city (really any city if you have your blinders off) typically when you first meet a girl she is going to be thinking how you can benefit her career wise, status wise, or if she would fukk you. Even if she would consider fukking you, she isn't going to tell you she is just going to respond to your advance (if you actually have the balls to do it). Now there is nothing wrong with this, but men have to wake up and realize what is going on. I have had many more positive experiences bringing up sex in initial conversations with woman than when I don't. A guy will find out where he stands real quick.

The worst thing that can happen when approaching girls outside of "our zone" is they say no. What's worse than a no is when you don't know where you stand. You get her number but made no gesture to her about wanting to make a move is not only confusing for you, but it's confusing for the girl . You don't want her to pre-label you as the beta male type because you're too scared to make your intentions known.

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