NOT having children is such a blessing

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Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha said:
nope, thats where your insecurity comes into play. if you felt your life was so amazing you wouldn't even enter the thread. the thread was created to celebrate and appreciate those of us that don't have children. there are no negatives to not having children.
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Nah u created this thread to get people with children to argue with u. Life is amazing for me I really have no complaints in what I've accomplished in my 33 years on this earth. My children add to that joy everyday, wish u knew what that felt like.
 
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homiedontplaydat said:
Nah u created this thread to get people with children to argue with u. Life is amazing for me I really have no complaints in what I've accomplished in my 33 years on this earth. My children add to that joy everyday, wish u knew what that felt like.
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once again your inferiority is shinning bright, i didn't even invite people with children to enter the thread. you took it upon yourself to come in here, you read how our lives are glorious, you looked on your life being slave to a schedule then felt a way about it. don't blame me breh, blame your inability to pull out.
 
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Thomas said:
If you honestly want kids, do it.
Ensure that before you do so, you have at least one savings account with a minimum of 10k in it, a minimum of two streams of income and two retirement accounts running (I'd recommend an IRA and a 401k), ensure you're married with someone who can help keep control of the situation together, have researched the nearby schools, crime rates of the area, and have a college fund ready to start. Health/dental insurance, life insurance, a home or spacious apartment, inspected for infestations, molds, and the like, check genetic history for hereditary diseases, and nearby childcare facilities. I'd always jump for a parenting class of some kind as well, there's always a few good tips in those. Make your gameplan, eliminate any prior debt, and go in with the mindset that you'll be going hard to balance children, work and hobbies for the next 18-22 years.
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To the people who dont want kids, when youre 40, 45, 50, where do you see your life then?

Not pointing fingers or anything, just wondering
 
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Wise said:
To the people who dont want kids, when youre 40, 45, 50, where do you see your life then?

Not pointing fingers or anything, just wondering
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i see myself in one of my many properties, maybe the one near the beach. chilling, nice woman on deck, cars of my choice, not a worry in the world, just living life in peace.
 
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Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha said:
once again your inferiority is shinning bright, i didn't even invite people with children to enter the thread. you took it upon yourself to come in here, you read how our lives are glorious, you looked on your life being slave to a schedule then felt a way about it. don't blame me breh, blame your inability to pull out.
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U equating parenthood with slavery tells me how immature ur mind is. I'm not here to tell u how much better my life is than urs, I'm just pointing out how out of touch people like u r. Enjoy ur life dude, just know that having kids is not the end of the world. U can still live, u can still have fun. U will have to sacrifice though, some men are just too selfish for that so I understand if kids aren't for u.
 
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homiedontplaydat said:
U equating parenthood with slavery tells me how immature ur mind is. I'm not here to tell u how much better my life is than urs, I'm just pointing out how out of touch people like u r. Enjoy ur life dude, just know that having kids is not the end of the world. U can still live, u can still have fun. U will have to sacrifice though, some men are just too selfish for that so I understand if kids aren't for u.
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i never once said or insinuated slavery, once again thats your insecurity creeping up on you. its odd that you call people who don't want to sacrifice selfish, yet you are the one that have bought children into this sess pit of a world, this shytty world and you don't think thats selfish? you obviously have a inability to self reflect.
 
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