NOT having children is such a blessing

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successful career, fly women on my arms, traveling the world, multipl beach front properties, exotic cars, retiring by 55 yrs old. most ppl cant live that lifestyle if they have kids

My coworker is 67 yrs old and his wife is 64. They both cannot retire because They have 5 kids to support. Total school debt between all kids is $590,000 and they have to bust their ass at work to assist them at paying it off. Hedrives a Kia and she drives Toyota ! No money in their retirement account, no vacations, basic ass house. Is that the American Dream? I'd rather be dead than live like that.

If they had a better job they might not be in that situation :yeshrug:

Plus by the time people are 55 usually their kids are on their own
 

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If they had a better job they might not be in that situation :yeshrug:

Plus by the time people are 55 usually their kids are on their own
Kids maybe on their own by then but that doesn't mean the parents stop shelling out money...
Kids are always asking for money.

"Dad can you help me out with 10K for this new car"
"Mom can I borrow 20K to pay off my Credit card loans"
"Mom and Dad, can you help us pay for our 40K wedding"
"Mom and Dad, can we live at your place for a while we save up for a house"
 

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I know the majority of you men on here don't believe in God or the Bible but I'm gonna say it any way. The bible directly says that children are a blessing from God. They are an inheritance from the Lord. If you raise them right and invest in them, that's exactly what they will be to you, a blessing. Examples of black dads who investested in their kids -Matthew Knowles, Tiger Woods daddy, Venus n Serena daddy. And we all know how these men's kids turned out.

You are not gonna be young and virile forever. Y'all will get old and need someone to care for yalls selfish black asses.
 

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I know the majority of you men on here don't believe in God or the Bible but I'm gonna say it any way. The bible directly says that children are a blessing from God. They are an inheritance from the Lord. If you raise them right and invest in them, that's exactly what they will be to you, a blessing. Examples of black dads who investested in their kids -Matthew Knowles, Tiger Woods daddy, Venus n Serena daddy. And we all know how these men's kids turned out.

You are not gonna be young and virile forever. Y'all will get old and need someone to care for yalls selfish black asses.
STFU with that hocus pocus story telling c00n
 

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Over 70% of African American babies are born out of wedlock. You dont need a man honey. You're Independent!




I know a man is not really a need but I want one. I want my babies born within marriage. I would love to have a good looking man that I can come home to after traveling the world and cook with (I want a husband that can cook too!), hug and give kisses to and go on a picnic or something with our babies.

I don't want to be in the 70 percent. :mjcry:
 

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The strange case of America’s disappearing middle class | Paul Mason

The middle class is shrinking buddy. Families are struggling out here. More than half of U.S. wage earners made less than $30,000 in 2013. Everyone In America Is Even More Broke Than You Think

I can understand if the rich have children but most ppl are poor...

Hey man I'm not married and I would never want to in my 20s. But when one's 40, and unless I'm a movie star, athlete, etc, it might be something to think about.

There's nothing I hate more than marrying just for the sake of marrying. Only marry if you really can see your life spent with that person.

To you cats who dont wanna get married, what do your parents say?
 
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