I've been fiercely independent all my life. Worked hard to get where I'm at. Had beautiful women that would have married me and had my seed...had friends tell me I'm crazy not to wife them up.
But society fukked all that up. I'm not about to be on the hook for 18 years giving up half of my earnings if the chick decides she wants to run around in her 2nd childhood.
I love having the ability to do what I want, when I want and not having to "ok" it with someone else. I can't stand being tied down to obligations that I don't want to do.
I don't even like to run through the ladies much anymore (I've done it for plenty of years) because of all the baggage that comes with it. You smash one time and they start getting loco. Met a chick about a month ago while I was out and about. Pretty much spent the whole wknd with her, crashed at her crib etc. Yeah it def crossed my mind to feel on her booty but I didn't do it cuz I knew I wanted nothing else besides that from her.
And sure enough the next wknd she saw me out and started blowing up my phone, sent like 10 text messages in a row with no reply from me, then started calling over and over. Had to block her ass...she went loco and I never even messed with her (she's Puerto Rican btw). Nah no thanks I'm good on all that drama.
I have 4 nieces that I love and am proud of. Who knows maybe something wild will happen down the road and I'll have one of my own. But honestly I just enjoy my freedom and it doesn't interest me.
It's funny too cuz a lot of my friends have kids...some wanna live vicariously through me cuz their lives are dull and monotonous but they're cool about it. Some other "friends" are envious and try to talk down on me cuz I didn't go the route they went. Misery loves company I guess
