The better question is why you're trying to deter discussions about sexual contact. Only people who dislike it are contrarians and someone who it serves a disadvantage to. So this whole "
I'm just a brotha tryna share some knowledge and keep it real with the brothas" act doesn't make much sense, or should I say, it's not convincing.
If a dude doesn't want to date a girl because she's had sex with a total he deems too high a quantity, how does this disservice you? It does you a favor by making more women available if you actually believe in the position that you say doesn't it?

We need answers.