Still though, if I found out that this happened in my family, I do it immediately. Stomp out the negativity quick, as the damage my be done but only when the fire is put out can the rebuilding be done. The more this goes on, the more damage it will cause in the long run.
This. You gotta step up and sit dude down and let him know that he's popped and he needs to jump out in front of this because of where your mom's it at. She came to you because she don't know what to do and can't go to her punkass old man because he doing the fukked up shyt, so she came to the next man in her life to try and make sense of it. You gotta sit dude down no matter how hard it is and talk to him like a man. How old are you anyway?