OGs is there a way to keep your girl w/o coming off as a simp?

[Turbulent]

Be apologetic but don't act apologetic. Meaning, you told her sorry once and that was that. No begging, no crying in the rain, no Tyrese what more do you want from me type videos... None of that shyt. Just keep it pushing and act like none of it effects you. It'll take some time but as long as you start on your purpose or big things happening for you she ain't really going anywhere.

This.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Why do you want to keep her?

 

[pcpking]

She saw some texts in my phone I thought I had deleted. I don’t want it to be over, but I don’t wanna kiss ass either

What were the text messages?

 

[Crude]

Be apologetic but don't act apologetic. Meaning, you told her sorry once and that was that. No begging, no crying in the rain, no Tyrese what more do you want from me type videos... None of that shyt. Just keep it pushing and act like none of it effects you. It'll take some time but as long as you start on your purpose or big things happening for you she ain't really going anywhere.

This!

Tell her you apologize for having a lapse in judgement, and it will not happen again and keep it moving.

Don't dwell on it and don't let her hold it over your head either.

 

[homiedontplaydat]

Stop lying to these women..

And if you're an worthy candidate, she'll hang around..

Women will wink at some things if she think you have potential..

It's really as simple as this.

STOP fukkING LYING.

If u wanna live that polygamous lifestyle then just be upfront about it and find u somebody who's ok with it.

 

[Boogie]

What were the text messages?

I told one girl I wanted to tittyfukk her and I told another girl I always wanted her.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Watch AMS....problem solved

 

[Neuromancer]

It's really as simple as this.

STOP fukkING LYING.

If u wanna live that polygamous lifestyle then just be upfront about it and find u somebody who's ok with it.

/thread.

 

[Umoja]

Being a considerate human being is offensive to nice a nice human?

What logic.

What are you on about?

It's apologising when you are not culpable is a bad habit to form.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Be apologetic but don't act apologetic. Meaning, you told her sorry once and that was that. No begging, no crying in the rain, no Tyrese what more do you want from me type videos... None of that shyt. Just keep it pushing and act like none of it effects you. It'll take some time but as long as you start on your purpose or big things happening for you she ain't really going anywhere.

Feel sorry for the woman that ends up with you dudes. They’ll never know true love or happiness. Y’all are some shytty human beings all around. smh can’t even be genuinely sorry for hurting someone that loves you.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Listening to some of the advice in here will have you single as a dollar bill... @oakclifftxmade gave you good advice. You should apologize if you messed up. How about you treat your woman the way you would like to be treated? Stop playing games and worrying about "simping." If she's a quality woman worth your time she won't see it in that way.

Right, it’s crazy how these men want women to be all about them but they don’t even have the ability to be decent people. And they wonder why women act like they do now, what’s the point in being good to a man? To be treated like this?

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

Beat her

 

[FLATOP]

Only apologize once (and mean it) and demonstrate your dedication to fixing things with maturity and accountability. Cant rebuild old trust, need to build up a new trust. Make plans in your professional life, hobbies, health and relationship and stick to them to demonstrate you're a man of your word.

In other words take responsibility and be a man. At the end of the day it's her choice to stay or not and you can't control that unless you're Ike Turner. Moreover, those plans can serve as a cushion if she does leave and can keep you out a hole of depression or rejection.

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

She saw some texts in my phone I thought I had deleted. I don’t want it to be over, but I don’t wanna kiss ass either

Tell her it’s old but if she wants to leave that’s her choice. Make her feel like she will regret leaving you by being nonchalant and acting like it’s not a big deal and Make her feel like she is replaceable. She will begrudgingly suck it up if she feels like she can’t find anything close to you

 

[FeloniousMonk]

My nicca, its to late.

You lost her trust.

Do you.

But having to much pride will have you looking more stupid than simpin ever will.