OK Man Ordered To Pay Child Support Despite Not Being Father

[Taharqa]

Oklahoma

 

[wickedsm]

I've read legit arguments against this.....mainly the cost of doing it for the gov't

I don't mind having to pay a fair fee out of my own pockets to see if I'm a baby's father. Instead of having society do it for men, we need to teach men to have the common sense to do it for themselves



Another legit concern.

Actually I think the cost isn't as big as concern now and could be done in conjunction with the millions of other well baby tests/ info they grab at the time of birth now.

Ie cord blood storage used to be insanely expensive and now is routinely collected/charted and stored by some states at birth.


Also if it was universally done that cuts down on 99% of the drama associated with.

I'm sure there would be waivers some could/would agree to but do so with the full knowledge that you forever forfeit your right to challenge paternity.
(This exists in some states now, VA for sure.)

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

He had 2 years to find out............

That's 730 days.

That's 17,520 hours.

That's 1,051,200 minutes.

He musta been posting on the coli instead of handling his business.

Also, a paternity test costs about $300-$500. If you can't afford that AT BIRTH, you shouldn't be having kids.​

 

[Rawtid]

Until mandatory dna testing becomes a thing I would suggest that all of you men tell the women you're with from jump that you plan on pursuing dna testing of any baby supposed to be yours. No need to be nasty. Explain it's business not personal.
Nothing to do with trust or any other phrase used to guilt you.

Not only is it your legal right to seek dna confirmation, it's your moral obligation for yourself and should be hers for her unborn child.

If the mother, father and baby are all present for the birth, it needs to be done then. I don't think a father should be put on the certificate until paternity is established.

 

[Gold]

Actually I think the cost isn't as big as concern now and could be done in conjunction with the millions of other well baby tests/ info they grab at the time of birth now.

Ie cord blood storage used to be insanely expensive and now is routinely collected/charted and stored by some states at birth.


Also if it was universally done that cuts down on 99% of the drama associated with.

I'm sure there would be waivers some could/would agree to but do so with the full knowledge that you forever forfeit your right to challenge paternity.
(This exists in some states now, VA for sure.)

Thank you.

Always logical, always appreciated

 

[Mordith]

I have never understood how a dude can have a child that looks nothing like him and not question it immediately.

 

[Swagnicious]

I knew someone who married a woman who had a daughter. The father of the child was not paying child support when he married her. Since he married the woman he treated the daughter like he would treat his own child. When the marriage didn't work the mother went after the stepfather for child support and was awarded it.. She never went after the biological father for child support either. The whole child support system needs to be revamped. Dudes getting straight jacked out here.

This is a problem I have with marriage.....

I've read that in many areas if you're married and your wife cheats and has a baby by the side dude.....you're still the legal father due to the marriage ......so basically a hoe can marry a simp, get pregnant with another nikka's baby and automatically have the simp legally bound to pay child support for that child

Although I've also read that a way out of this is if the simp immediately DNA tests the baby after birth and doesn't show any history of acting as the father before doing it (providing food for the baby, paying bills, etc). So in other words in order to safeguard yourself as a man.......even if your wife of several years comes to you like "Honey, I'm pregnant! We gonna have a third child! ", you gotta hit her with the "You know the routine, bytch....we don't have shyt until them test results come in "

 

[wickedsm]

Adding-as an unmarried potential father you actually have more leeway at this stage to not legally acknowledge paternity without a successful dna test.

Don't sign a bc for any reason until you have the test.I don't care what the mother says I don't gaf what your momma says.

DO NOT SIGN.


Married men please be aware of the laws in your state and know that legally children born "of a marriage" are considered just that. There are rules and laws for paternity challenge within a marriage that vary from state to state (as this gentleman found out) please educate yourself on then and act accordingly in your best interest.

 

[ill_will82]

I'm sorry........but as an advocate for all males IMMEDIATELY refusing to accept being a father without a DNA test first, I can't get mad at this. He waited too long.

As a matter of fact......this fukked-up shyt needs to happen MORE until all men finally get the message to stop automatically trusting these hoes' word about them being the father. I don't care if you're scared about offending her or anyone else. I don't care if she threatens to leave you for demanding a test. That's no excuse.

I feel the same way on this subject. Idc how loyal a man thinks a woman has been to him, if lawmakers across the country could get a passed for mandatory DNA test at the time of birth it would cut down on unnecessary child support claims.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Is this a new story? Cause I remember not too long ago a dude in the same situation making headlines.

This is different from Carnell Alexander ( Detroit) .

both these guys are getting screwed.

 

[the cac mamba]

After reading that..

DNA testing after birth should be a federal law..

that would remove the stigma of 'not trusting the girl' either

"sorry bytch, its the law "

 

[ORDER_66]

That's one bullshyt law that needs to be FEDERALLY repealed....

 

[Rawtid]

that would remove the stigma of 'not trusting the girl' either

"sorry bytch, its the law "

If a woman isn't fukking around, I don't see why she would have an issue. I like being right so I'll take it as a challenge and I'd never let him live it down either. Every sentence would start with "YOUR KID...."

 

[Objection]

This is a problem I have with marriage.....

I've read that in many areas if you're married and your wife cheats and has a baby by the side dude.....you're still the legal father due to the marriage ......so basically a hoe can marry a simp, get pregnant with another nikka's baby and automatically have the simp legally bound to pay child support for that child

Although I've also read that a way out of this is if the simp immediately DNA tests the baby after birth and doesn't show any history of acting as the father before doing it (providing food for the baby, paying bills, etc). So in other words in order to safeguard yourself as a man.......even if your wife of several years comes to you like "Honey, I'm pregnant! We gonna have a third child! ", you gotta hit her with the "You know the routine, bytch....we don't have shyt until them test results come in "

Then she gonna be getting him for that spousal support and child support because she gonna leave him

 

[the cac mamba]

If a woman isn't fukking around, I don't see why she would have an issue. I like being right so I'll take it as a challenge and I'd never let him live it down either. Every sentence would start with "YOUR KID...."

i mean its not the case for 99 percent of women, and i wouldnt blame them for feeling some kinda way about being asked. you make it mandatory, you get rid of all that shyt