Older brehs why don't you believe younger brehs when it comes to dating?

[Shadow]

Damn ya'll heartless like that? Ya'll ain't tryna uplift the black youth?

The majority don't care about the younger man's plight, they just wanna make fun of them or give generic advice.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I think older folks have a general thought that all aspects of life are easier now than it was when they were growing up.

 

[MuzzyP]

Damn ya'll heartless like that? Ya'll ain't tryna uplift the black youth?

Uplift? Sure. Listen to a bunch of whining with no attempt to improve? No.

 

[The ADD]

I take them at their word. Dating has never been easy on different fronts but they are also dealing with some wild circumstances.

 

[MuzzyP]

The majority don't care about the younger man's plight, they just wanna make fun of them or give generic advice.

And a lot of generic advice works, but people don't want to listen. Just like when you try to tell a fat person to count calories to lose weight, but it's too much work and they want that quick fix they heard about. "It's too simple, no way it can work! My thyroid and sugar n shyt!"

It's like, ok fine. Keep doing what you've been doing and get the same results.

 

[RamsayBolton]

this aint even an old/young thing

people share anecdotes and other people use their anecdotes to say the first person is lying/wrong.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

And a lot of generic advice works, but people don't want to listen. Just like when you try to tell a fat person to count calories to lose weight, but it's too much work and they want that quick fix they heard about. "It's too simple, no way it can work! My thyroid and sugar n shyt!"

It's like, ok fine. Keep doing what you've been doing and get the same results.

I would tell that person to talk to a professional before they attempt to lose weight because they may actually have a thyroid condition.

That's much better than telling them what worked for me and thinking it's going to work for them.

 

[Phitz]

I have no advice to add but as an older gentleman, these younger girls are genuinely nice out here. Like I can go to events in Charlotte and sone younger chick will stroke up a conversation with me or something will happen where we end up talking for sone reason. I remember taking pictures at a protest, and two younger college aged girls came up to me and asked me to take pictures of them doing their thing and they would cash app me. They actually did it too. I’d like to know why it’s harder to date out here. Somebody please explain.

This may be kind of geography dependent, as I also found the women in Charlotte very genuine and friendly.

 

[MajesticLion]

I believe that they believe what they see and are told.

My understanding is that not only what you see or are told are what exists, and I share that wisdom with them so they can benefit.

 

[WIA20XX]

I'm seeing young brehs (YB's)on here complaining about the dating market and Older brehs saying they just ain't trying hard enough ECT. I was talking to my protege and it seems like dating kinda changed a bit. It's different from older eras. So shouldn't we try to listen to YB's? Since it seems a lot of us ain't in the field no more?

These young cats (40 and below) are meeting women with Tinder and Instagram.

So I believe them when they say dating is 10x as hard, because meeting chicks online is 10x harder than rapping to them in person.

Young cats will nod they head...but never put in the work it takes to meet chicks off line.
I see it all the time in the "dropping jewels on females" thread.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

The game doesn’t change much only the players in it and maybe the tools to meeting people, but human nature usually plays the same over generations.

A lot of these young brehs were raised on smartphones, tablets, and other devices and they never learned proper social skills or how to operate and handle people without a screen in their face.

Just like any other skill the art of socialization needs to occasionally be practiced and more often practiced if you desire to be good at it. Most of these young brehs don’t know how to read body language, non-verbal cues, or the appropriate behavior when dealing with the opposite sex.

This doesn’t even get into how a lot of these young brehs lack older more seasoned men to look to for guidance in their own families and social circles.

"Pimpn' ain't dead it just moved to the websites..."

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I'm seeing young brehs (YB's)on here complaining about the dating market and Older brehs saying they just ain't trying hard enough ECT. I was talking to my protege and it seems like dating kinda changed a bit. It's different from older eras. So shouldn't we try to listen to YB's? Since it seems a lot of us ain't in the field no more?

Because they're more interested in humble bragging so they can fell better about being old and washed.

Edit: Alot of them are divorced, separated from their kids ect...they have no valuable advice so they clown and give out euphemisms about pimping that make no sense.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Damn ya'll heartless like that? Ya'll ain't tryna uplift the black youth?

Majority of people here are not serious when it comes to young black men

They say it cause it sounds good and in fashion, but blink and you'll see how they really get down.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

this aint even an old/young thing

people share anecdotes and other people use their anecdotes to say the first person is lying/wrong.

poster one: "I live in Georgia and I see black couples all the times"

poster two: "yeah yo ass in here lying....these bb's ain't rocking brehs like they use too..."*

*Poster two lives in a state/city where the black population is under 10% and they live around nothing but cacs/asians

 

[Shadow]

A person can start a thread like: "So I'd like some advice with women. I've been in the gym, getting in shape and putting myself out there, but it's been difficult trying to date. *explains plight*

And within the first 10 posts someone will say "You gotta put yourself out there. Get in the gym. Get in shape."